We never really talked about breaking up in the blog. Today is going to be the first of a few blogs in which I will talk more about this. In this blog, I want to discuss something called “the breaking point.”
A lot of you have been in multiple relationships. I would say all of you have probably been in at least one relationship. No matter in how many relationships you’ve been, however, all relationships have what I call a breaking point.

Today we’re going to talk about cheaters. You’re going to learn about how I feel about cheaters. If you get cheated on, are you actually just as responsible as the person who did the cheating? How does that question make you feel?

Sometimes when I sit down and write a blog, I think to myself, “This is going to be one of my favorites.” It is a feeling I have. When I sit down to write a blog, I often get motivated by topics that relate to something in my own life or by a thought or feeling I’m having. Today’s blog was spurred by something that came up in a conversation I was having earlier. Someone used the term “I didn’t sign up for this.”
People will use this phrase about…

Relationships can really be frustrating. I mean, they’re battles at times. They really are. You draw battles into relationships due to ego and expectations. So many things can go wrong in a relationship due, very often, to the way you communicate your needs, wants and desires to each other. There are ways to be sure that relationship battles don’t cause permanent damage.

I was working with a client recently talking about relationships. Of course a relationship involves two people getting together, falling in love, having wonderful times, having amazing sex and having a great friendship. There is another aspect to relationships, though, about which I want to talk. It is a different way of looking at relationships. A relationship is really just a series of misunderstandings. Think about it.

I have been reading a great book called The Five Languages Of Love. It led me to want to ask all of you this question: Do you believe that romantic love exists? I want all of you to have at it today on this topic, and really let loose with your thoughts on this. In terms of falling in love, do you believe it is a choice or is it something that just happens?

Do you ever suffer from breathing issues, where you feel like each breath is laboring through your body? Every breath you take hurts. Every step you take hurts. I am not talking about a case of the swine flu. I am talking about heartache. We don’t ever really talk about heartache. Do you ever get into a huge fight with your significant other, and you just feel like it’s the end of the world? How about if your significant other breaks up with you, or you break up with them?

Have you guys heard the famous quote of mine that’s been circulating all over the Internet? That quote is, “An orgasm a day keeps the Tyson away.” (Yes, I mean Mike Tyson) It’s amazing what a good orgasm will do. I’m not talking about self-administered orgasms. To tell you the truth, those kind of orgasms are lame. They really are. It doesn’t take much skill to…

Have you ever heard the phrase “love is not enough?” How many times have you been in love with someone and it just wasn’t enough? Love alone isn’t enough to sustain a relationship in the long run. It takes understanding each other’s communication style and the way you each express yourself. It takes understanding each other’s needs and desires. It takes really being able to…

I know I live in southern California, but Sonja hates feeling chilly so we have radiant heat going in the house. The problem with the radiant heat in our place is that it cranks up really high and starts cooking us like we’re living in a sauna. So the guy who fixes the heat came by the other day and finally looked at the thermostat. He said that the problem is that the thermostat is not communicating with the heat, i.e., that there is a communication breakdown between the two.