Here’s the situation, and this applies equally to men and women today:
You’ve met somebody you’re really jazzed about. You’ve exchanged phone numbers. You notice the area code is different than yours, so you ask them with some hesitation, “Where do you live?” They immediately tell you, “Oh, I’m just in town for the weekend.” BUT–they visit often, and still they’d still like to get together the next time they’re in town.

There you are. You’re walking down the aisle.
You can’t believe that you’ve made it this far.
The date that you have planned for tonight? Well, it’s worked out. Oh yes, you know everything about it! It doesn’t matter that it’s presently 2011–it doesn’t matter at all. You can see the future. Years down the road, you’re able to look into the future and know exactly how that date’s going to go tonight.

So, you find yourself feeling a bit alone and all your friends are married. You go to wedding after wedding and, of course, your friends’ wives come up to you and say, “When are YOU going to get married?”
You go to your first dinner party, and most of your friends — the ones who used to go out drinking with you a few years ago — are married and looking at you as the lone single guy. You’re like the Lone Ranger all by yourself.

When you look back at all your past relationships, what is the one thing that sticks out in your mind? Think for a minute.
If at this moment you have any negative feelings or emotions then you really need to sit back and listen to what today’s podcast is all about.

If you’re actively trying to meet somebody, but yet every time you meet someone you’re so busy that you’re next available time to go on a date with someone is ten days away, why bother dating??
Dating is all about creating time in your life to connect with other people. If you’re out there on the market and your next available date time is two weeks away, take yourself off the market until you’re able to balance your time.

I can’t tell you how many clients have come to me and said, “David, you’re my last resort. I’ve done the right things. I’ve been a good person. Yet, nothing ever happens to me. I never get asked out. I’m alone and I’m tired of being alone. Aren’t I entitled to a little happiness?” My response to them is a resounding, “No.”

Are you an ‘armchair quarterback?’ Are you constantly thinking about what somebody said, or are you interpreting things they said (or wish they had said)?

That is what an armchair quarterback does. An armchair quarterback will break down a conversation they had with a woman (or a man if you’re a woman).

If you are an armchair quarterback, what you’ll do is grab the ear of one of your friends and break down the entire exchange — line by line. What happens here is that you end up breaking down and interpreting the situation based on a want or a need, and you end up skewing it in your direction.

Do you ever have something on your mind when you go to talk to your boss? Do you ever have something on your mind when you go to have a conversation with a co-worker?

So, you find yourself growing up and all your friends are married. You go to wedding after wedding and, of course, your friends’ wives come up to you and say, “When are YOU going to get married?”

Did this year work out the way you wanted it too? Or are you ready to quit, pack it in, and start all over with some ridiculous New Year’s Resolution? Let me be upfront with you. Nothing is going to change when the New Year hits. You’re going to be the same person and if you desire to make a change than that time is now! I call this end of year momentum. Are you curious yet? Today’s podcast determines whether you are a winner or a quitter!