The other day I was with a client in Baja Fresh and he saw a woman he just could not take his eyes off of. So what did I have him do and how is a napkin such a powerful meeting tool?

Have you ever had a “purple day moment?”

Are you an ‘armchair quarterback?’ Are you constantly thinking about what somebody said, or are you interpreting things they said (or wish they had said)?

That is what an armchair quarterback does. An armchair quarterback will break down a conversation they had with a woman (or a man if you’re a woman).

If you are an armchair quarterback, what you’ll do is grab the ear of one of your friends and break down the entire exchange — line by line. What happens here is that you end up breaking down and interpreting the situation based on a want or a need, and you end up skewing it in your direction.

Are you willing to put your life on the line today?

Did this year work out the way you wanted it too? Or are you ready to quit, pack it in, and start all over with some ridiculous New Year’s Resolution? Let me be upfront with you. Nothing is going to change when the New Year hits. You’re going to be the same person and if you desire to make a change than that time is now! I call this end of year momentum. Are you curious yet? Today’s podcast determines whether you are a winner or a quitter!

Farley from the blog sent a video to me this morning and I thought why not share with all of you!

With the success of The Millionaire Matchmaker and other matchmaker shows, I get asked all the time how I feel about matchmaking. I actually feel pretty strongly about it.

So you went out on a date and now its the morning after. Who do you call? Who can help you figure out each and every moment of the date? Who is going to confirm all that they said on the date? Who is going to stop you from being inside your head all day after a date. Guess who? Me and this podcast will help you stop being a neurotic dating speculator!

There’s this great little place in Santa Monica that used to have a “Three Fer” breakfast. It was three pancakes, three eggs, three pieces of turkey bacon and three potatoes. It was unbelievable. You learned something about the potatoes, the turkey bacon and the pancakes.

That awful, awkward silence that happens sometimes on a date. You know exactly what I’m talking about.