I was talking to a client on the phone the other night and it really struck me just how much apprehension so many guys have about meeting women.
The fear, the anxiety, the uncertainty. That’s why the majority of men never can figure out what to say.
A while ago I came up with this really fun exercise. I told my client to use the alien approach….

Alright peeps, Shogo back again with another Friday edition. It’s getting cold outside here in NYC, so I figure tonight I’ll bundle up on the couch, turn up the heat, and stay in for a movie, some Italian takeout, and a nice bottle of red. While I’m thinking about it, bars are the farthest thing [...]

Every night during this intense one week coaching program in London we get really deep about dating and relationship issues. The other night we had a few people over to the flats and we got into a conversation about flaking and dating.
It seems that the British are not as flaky as the americans when it comes to keeping a date.

Shogo here with another weekend post for you guys!

As some of you guys who’ve been following the blog lately may know, I’ve been in New York apartment hunting the past few days. It’s my old stomping ground, so while I’ve been here, I’ve also been going out a lot catching up with old friends.

Hey Guys, Shogo here with another weekend blog for you guys!

I know that our usual weekend topic is nightlife and bars, but let’s switch it up a little for today. Today let’s talk a little bit about when you’ve got a date.

The question I always get all the time is where do you go on a first date.
I’ll tell you where you don’t go. You don’t go to a movie, you don’t sit there in silence, wondering what she’s thinking, who she is, and feeling all uncomfortable wondering what to say after the movie.

I was with a client the other day and I was explaining to him how to be more playful.
So when we walked into Sears, I told him to watch and learn just how playful you can really be.

This is in follow up to my recent blog about women hunters. Most women are very passive waiters, meaning that they always sit back and wait for men to approach them.
Think about the moment when you see “that guy” — that confident, good-looking guy — who walks over to you and says something really cute and clever. Maybe you were in Starbucks looking for something to eat, and you were indecisive about whether you wanted a muffin or a scone.

There you are. You’re walking down the aisle.
You can’t believe that you’ve made it this far.
The date that you have planned for tonight? Well, it’s worked out. Oh yes, you know everything about it! It doesn’t matter that it’s presently 2011–it doesn’t matter at all. You can see the future. Years down the road, you’re able to look into the future and know exactly how that date’s going to go tonight.

How would it feel to be completely honest on a first date? Check out how this guy decided to approach first date honesty.