I Want To Suck Your . . . Blood!

It’s time for the Monster Mash. It’s a graveyard smash . . . It caught on in a flash . . . ‘Cause it’s the Monster Mash . . .

So how exactly are you going to mash this Halloween season?

Remember the good old days walking door to door with a plastic pumpkin, knocking on strangers’ doors, and hoping you didn’t get an apple with a razor blade in it? By the way, what kind of person hands out apples at Halloween anyway? We’re out for candy! In fact, lots of candy . . . and not a stinkin’ apple! That’s the shit your mother gives you at home.
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It’s the 4th of July - Woohoo! By David Wygant

There’s something about holidays that bring out the worst in people. Now don’t read this and think I’m some sour, crusty old man who is a Grinch and who steals people’s pumpkins at Halloween. I need to let you know, however, that in terms of a social opportunity I think holidays are for amateurs.

Everybody gears up for three days out of the year: Halloween, New Year’s Eve and The 4th of July. The drunken women who are counting down “5 … 4 … 3 … 2 … 1 …” are the same drunken women who are going “Woo Hoo!” when the fireworks go off on The 4th of July, and they are the same drunken women who dress up in the hooker outfits for Halloween to tease all the men (and who you will see throwing up in the corner into a big plastic pumpkin!)

Holidays are a blast: hanging out with friends, barbecuing, sucking down a few beers, getting corn stuck in your teeth, and eating some low-quality hamburger meat. But searching for and thinking that a magical party on The 4th of July is going to yield you the social results that have evaded you the rest of the year is a crock of shit! The 4th of July is just one day. The expectations on holidays never equal the results.

In order to create real fireworks in your life, you need to be working on your flirting skills every day. Even if you are at the coolest party on The 4th of July, you’re still bringing your lack of social skills with you. There’s no magic pill in order to meet the opposite sex, you have to work on those skills every single day.

For those of you that hooked up on The 4th of July - Congratulations! For the rest of you, you need to realize that you better start learning how to flirt and how to meet people every single day. Otherwise, come Halloween you’re going to be the one puking into that plastic pumpkin.

Flirt On A Train by David Wygant

I have been all over Europe and it has some amazing underground train systems. This is unlike America, where we just sit in our cars all day long and curse at people in traffic – except of course for New York City, Boston, Chicago, San Francisco, and some other cities – I think Philly might have a train.

But most of the US doesn’t have an underground system. When I was in Europe I was sitting with my client Pete, and Pete wanted to know: how do you meet people on the train?

Well, I said, it’s really easy. You have to put yourself in everybody else’s shoes and their emotions.
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Chasing the Night By David Wygant

Happy Friday!!

Are you going to chase the night tonight or attract the night?

This blog is part of a live coaching from a recent trip to London with a client. Hopefully these exchanges with my client will give you an idea of my coaching style. Consider it a sneak peek into what I do when I am coaching clients and leading bootcamps!
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Fashion Ideals By David Wygant

What’s the ideal fashion?

There is a terminology that the pickup community (pua community) uses. As you guys know, most of the time I don’t really use the nicknames or terminologies that are being used in the pickup community because I like to just call it what it is.

But there is something the pickup community calls ‘peacocking’ – no, it’s not a guy walking around with peacock feathers trying to hook up with women – it’s about men developing a look so they can actually go out and attract women.
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Men Love Big Toys by david wygant

You know what’s funny as I walked around Amsterdam tonight on all the narrow streets it made me realize how funny we are with our large lifestyle.

In Europe everything is small including the windows in the red light district!

Which by the way is quite amusing. They just peer out at you and beckon you to come towards them with their fingers and half naked bodies.
It was quite amusing watching the men wander towards the doors and mustering up the courage to go in.

It seems that even when they pay for it, they have approach anxiety!!

Now back to why men love big toys.
So, the other day I was looking to buy a television set – well actually it was about nine months ago, but to me everything qualifies as the other day because the past is the past, the present is what I’m living in, and the future is still undecided – so everything seems like yesterday to me.

I remember yesterday when I was 11 – okay, that does seem like a long time ago, but that’s about the only thing!
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Happy Easter!!

Being a NY Jew I figured nothing can be better than posting a sexual seductive video on Easter.

Call it my twisted sense of humor.

Now before you get all bent out of shape I am not posting a raw sex video….you know me better than that.

What I am going to share with you today is a video that will teach you how to be seductive with the power of your voice and the words you use to make her want you.

What you are about to see is a foolproof way to get her to beg you for sex….. even on Easter.

Have an amazing Easter Sunday….say hello to the Easter bunny for me and go hide some eggs!!
Click Here for the fun.

Happy Hallmark Day!
By David Wygant

Before all the women reading this blog get their panties in a knot thinking I am anti-Valentine’s Day by saying “Happy Hallmark Day,” let me make one thing clear . . . you’re 100% correct! I am anti-Valentine’s Day.

I for one believe that you don’t need a special day in the middle of February (or a little past the middle with there being 29 days in February this year) to celebrate your relationship and your love . . . or to give that microchip-sized diamond pendant from Kay Jewelers. Half of you are still paying off the bills you incurred at Christmas telling your sweetheart you love them.
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