Hey guys, Shogo here and first off… happy 11/11/11! Now it’s been a while since I wrote anything about bars and clubs.  To be honest, it’s been a while since I’ve been out to any clubs.  But I’m going to be out on the town this weekend with some friends, so I figured I’ll put [...]

It is Friday. Let’s talk about what it would be like to have a Fearless Friday. Let’s talk about the fears and excuses that a lot of you have creeping into your mind as the night wears on. A lot of you are probably in front of your computer or on your phone right now, texting, e-mailing, you are at different stages of planning out what you’re going to be doing tonight. You’ve waited all week for Friday night. This is going to be the night that…

I got a question from somebody the other day, and I really want to share it with you:

“Oh my god, my ex is such an a-hole!”

“My ex just texted me…look at this text.”

“Oh, that totally reminds me of this time I was with my ex…”

Is the topic of talking about exes a big no-no for you? Does it make you feel uncomfortable?

Hey everyone, Intern Dan here with my first blog post.

So, lately I’ve been hearing a lot of guys making the “observation” that women always say they want a “Nice Guy” but then end up with the total jerk. In my circles, this is one of the most common reasons why guys think they don’t get dates.

The question I always get all the time is where do you go on a first date.
I’ll tell you where you don’t go. You don’t go to a movie, you don’t sit there in silence, wondering what she’s thinking, who she is, and feeling all uncomfortable wondering what to say after the movie.

It’s Friday night. You’re a bit tired from the week’s work. You think to yourself, “I really should go out tonight and meet people.

Hey guys, Shogo here. It’s Friday, are you ready for the weekend??
I have a confession to make: I went out last night. And I got really, really drunk. So drunk in fact that I decided to leave my girlfriend stranded at the place we were at and took a cab home by myself. And I was keeping all her money and her ID in my pocket. Don’t ask me why. Not the smartest decision I’ve made in my life. Like I said……I was drunk.

I was with a client the other day and I was explaining to him how to be more playful.
So when we walked into Sears, I told him to watch and learn just how playful you can really be.

I was sitting around the other day and thought.
So many men and women head to the bars on a Friday night with some really high expectations.
Not only that, with some really bad advice on how to meet each other.
So I called Shogo up and since he was and still is a Bartender in one of the nations hippest cities, he would be the man to give all of you some great advice to succeed in bars.
Or as so many people call it. Night Game.