Self-love is by far the most powerful lesson when it comes down to dating. Without it, you are doomed. You really are. There is no chance in hell you are ever going to meet somebody great unless you love yourself. So how do you do this? Well…

You were tired of going to the parties and heading out to the same bars and restaurants. You felt like this was the one. Here’s the deal: everything that you’ve ever known about dating is wrong…

You always swore you would never date a woman who has children.
You’ve heard so many nightmare stories about it. You’ve heard about children acting up. You’ve heard about the lack of intimate one-on-one time.
There are so many things that can potentially go wrong. There is no….

Hey readers, Shogo here. Fresh back from London from an amazing weeklong program and weekend boot camp, and I’ve got another Friday edition for you!

This Friday’s blog was going to be another tip from me on navigating the bar scene. I was going to talk about cockblocking, but I’ve been reading some of the recent comments on the blog, and instead I want to write today’s blog in response to some of the comments. We’ll talk about cockblocks next week.

Shogo here again, this time with a Friday blog that’s got less to do with going out to bars and clubs–but still a message for your weekend. As those of you who regularly follow the blog know, I’ve spent the past couple months apartment hunting. I’ve finally found a place, but damn, what a stressful, [...]

Are any of you guys fans of Entourage?

I just watched the season finale of Entourage, and it was definitely not what I expected. Really, Entourage is a fun and entertaining show, but when I watch it I don’t expect to feel anything at all.

I am off to NYC this weekend for my Art Of Communication Seminar and I was thinking.
You know what my favorite part of a relationship is? The part of the relationship where you have to prove that you love the other person. Prove that you love me. If you love me, you will do this for me. People are nuts when they do that crap.

I was thinking about this question: What does it mean to be someone’s lover?
I’m using the term ‘lover’ generically, but you could fill in the blank with someone’s husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend. Let’s use the term ‘lover’ here though.

Recently I did a podcast about what your past dictates, what you can learn from it, and how you can formulate a whole new future. One thing you should know about me is that when I coach others (by doing things like creating my podcasts), I really learn a lot about myself.
I learn about my own issues and my own “stuff,” like my own fears that I may not even have realized I had. I am not talking about fears having to do with when I coach guys how to approach women. I have zero apprehension about that.

What a great group of men at this bootcamp, we’ve been having such a blast so far! This morning we were at Borough Market in London meeting new people, engaging so many interesting women, and generally just having a great time and sending out a great vibe.
The food at Borough Market is always fantastic. I’m such a food guy too, what I really wanted to do was sample some of everything. I wanted one big, gigantic combination plate of the best food that the market has to offer.