The other day I received a great email from a very special man named John. John took one of my bootcamp’s that I had in London several years ago and he had something that he needed my help on. John, being in the Christmas spirit, also volunteered to share his email with all of you. [...]

I was working out at the gym the other day, and I saw one of the tabloid “rags” sitting out nearby. I figured I might as well do a little bit of reading while I was bouncing around on the Stairmaster. The Stairmaster isn’t the most fun piece of equipment in the world, so I thought I would do something to pass the time.

Yesterday we talked all about tactless breakups.

What’s up with some people and how they breakup with someone? Recently, a friend of mine emailed me and said, “My girlfriend broke up with me the other day via email.”

How long after a breakup should you wait before you start dating again?

I get this question all of the time from guys: Why should you never burn a bridge?

Is it okay to date a friend’s ex-girlfriend, ex-wife, or ex-f*^kbuddy? Here’s the way I look at it. There’s a two letter word in the English language: “Ex.” Nobody is anyone else’s property. Nobody. Now, granted, you don’t want to go out and sleep with your friend’s ex-girlfriend the night after they break up. There [...]

Do you know a surefire sign that your relationship is on the edge, and is going downhill? It’s when you start masturbating again, and actually start enjoying it. Think about your past relationships at the point they were ending, or at the point when you and your partner were “on the outs.” All of a sudden you get to a point in the relationship where you’re having sex, you’re fighting, and you’re not really connecting.

So you’re dating somebody with children, and they have a really nasty ex. How do you deal with that?
How do you deal with the ex when you see them?

So you’re dating someone new and they ask you this: “So tell me, how many relationships have you had?” At that point, you’re thinking “Here it comes…” It is almost like the ominous background music from a movie. You know once someone asks you that question, that they are inevitably going to next ask you what went wrong in those relationships and why you are no longer with those people.