Imagine what it would be like for you to be able to walk into any room and command attention. How would you feel if you were the president of your local coffee shop or of your local Whole Foods? Imagine being able to walk into any bar or being able to go into any party, and you are the person that everybody wants to get to know . . . all before you even utter a word.

Forget about the Apple iTablet and the Amazon Kindle. Buying those gadgets will have you missing out on the chance to meet fellow readers at Barnes & Noble, Borders and all the best bookstores. If you’re single, you always need to do your shopping in a store, and not online. You never know who you may meet! Check out how simple and easy it is to meet people at a bookstore in this video…

It is your energy that dictates how someone feels around you, and how someone feels about you. Have you ever walked up to someone and you’re just so nervous? You are so nervous that you are…

I am up in Vancouver, and it’s amazing up here. There is so much energy everywhere. I have never been to the Olympics, but a client of mine thought it would be a great weekend to do some one-on-one coaching. He has been right. It’s been great so far. There are people everywhere! So, now, what are all of you going to do on this mid-winter Saturday? How about…

As most of you know, I spent a few weeks in Europe back in October. That trip made me realize that traveling to a foreign country is something everyone needs to do. Of course there are amazing and beautiful things to see, but that is not the reason I am suggesting this. I think everyone needs to go to a foreign country to learn one of the most important skills to becoming a better communicator:

Billy Joel sings a song called “New York State of Mind.” That song describes what a New York state of mind is, and how he feels when he is in that state of mind. You can see how powerful that state of mind is to him. Your state of mind is everything when you go out to meet women. Everything.

Today, I want all of you to look at this video. What you are about to see is a very successful opener followed by complete indecision. Do you ever feel like you are at a loss for words thirty seconds into a conversation, and all you can do is wonder how long you can keep the flow going?

Do you want to be that guy who walks into a room and women are instantly mesmerized by him? How does that happen? Well, it’s actually very easy!

Men are extremely visual. Women need to realize that men are extremely visual.

In order to meet somebody great, you need to create a great lifestyle for yourself.