Take a look at this picture. What is the first thought that enters your mind? I am curious to see how we all interpret this photo. Looking forward to reading your observations. And the Jets Suck!!!!

You never, ever want to be a “background guy.” Do you ever walk into a store or into a party, and your friend is always the lead guy?

In order to really be able to connect with people, you need to improve your memory. So many times when you’re in a conversation with someone, you fade out and go into “Me World.” Slipping off into “Me World” during a conversation could happen out of fear or out of disinterest, or it could happen simply because you fail to remain present. At the moment you feel yourself starting to go in that direction, you need to dial yourself back become totally present in that conversation (whether you’re talking or just listening).

So many guys are obsessed with meeting women on the street.

Let’s talk about crap. No, I’m not talking about the crap you leave in the toilet bowl each morning, and I’m not trying to be crude or disgusting. I want to talk about a different kind of crap — your personal crap. The taxes that are due. Your father with whom you aren’t getting along. The bad fight you had the night before with your roommate. Your boss being mean to you. All of your personal crap.

So many guys worry about the kiss at the end of the first date, because they really think it seals the deal (or, in guy terminology, that it “closes” her). In reality, though, the kiss is actually the least important part of the date. The kiss means absolutely nothing unless you’ve…

What’s interesting about life is how it changes every day. You never know what’s going to happen every single day. Every day is the same to a dog though. It really is. They wake up, their bladder hurts a little bit, and they wonder when the master is going to take them outside so they can pee and poop.

It’s funny. If you ask a guy about a woman and say “What do you see?”, he will always pick out the most obvious things. He’ll say “She has great blonde hair” or “I like her body” or “She’s tall” or “She’s wearing a read shirt.” Women, on the other hand, notice totally different things about men. Let me ask you a question. How many times have you been talking to a woman and, like magic, other women come over and start talking to you?

Let’s talk about women’s body language and what turns men on. Women tend to be more submissive in society than men, which is fine. A lot of the time when men will talk to women, a woman might be interested but she’s also very nervous. So men will often not end up asking those women out due to what her body language is communicating.

Body language is so important. We really are animals. 80% of the way we communicate really is by body language. If you watch a movie, when the actors deliver their lines they also have to deliver the right body language. Otherwise, you don’t believe the words that are coming out of their mouth.