Self-love is by far the most powerful lesson when it comes down to dating. Without it, you are doomed. You really are. There is no chance in hell you are ever going to meet somebody great unless you love yourself. So how do you do this? Well…

You see this woman every single day and you don’t know what to say or what to do. One day you actually swear you locked eyes with her and you think she might have even smiled…but you said nothing. And everyday you repeat this pattern over and over again…

You were tired of going to the parties and heading out to the same bars and restaurants. You felt like this was the one. Here’s the deal: everything that you’ve ever known about dating is wrong…

Obsession is something that is not very healthy at all, especially when it comes to meeting the opposite sex. So many guys are so obsessed with the approach or so obsessed with trying to figure out what to say…

Hey guys, Shogo here and first off… happy 11/11/11! Now it’s been a while since I wrote anything about bars and clubs.  To be honest, it’s been a while since I’ve been out to any clubs.  But I’m going to be out on the town this weekend with some friends, so I figured I’ll put [...]

For those of you who have never been to London, I strongly suggest you out it on the top of your travel plans. It really is my favorite city. I rented a few flats in Notting Hill for the weeklong program and I think this is the way to roll. I was always a Hotel person, but I like having a home when I am traveling.

So lets talk today about leaning.

It is Friday. Let’s talk about what it would be like to have a Fearless Friday. Let’s talk about the fears and excuses that a lot of you have creeping into your mind as the night wears on. A lot of you are probably in front of your computer or on your phone right now, texting, e-mailing, you are at different stages of planning out what you’re going to be doing tonight. You’ve waited all week for Friday night. This is going to be the night that…

Are you insecure in dating because of your race? Do your friends make fun of your physical imperfections? Well, maybe it’s time for you to find some new friends. Or MAYBE it’s all just in your head…. In keeping with our new found tradition of answering all of your best questions on Podcast Wednesday, today’s [...]

The other day I was heading into my favorite Indian place, Akbar on Washington. I’m walking slowly, just enjoying the night. I’d just finished getting a massage.

As I am approaching the entrance, there is a guy standing there holding one of the doors open (and blocking the entrance) as he is talking to friends of his who just drove up (thus making him face in my direction).
So here I am, clearly walking toward the door to the restaurant, and I know he sees me, but yet he still just stands there blocking the doorway and doesn’t move. I look at him and I say, “Excuse me.” He looked up like he didn’t realize there was actually anyone near him.

Lets talk today about body language. When you talk to a woman do you think about what her body language is saying? Do you wonder what every hand gesture, eyebrow raise and arm cross means? If so, you are and have been wasting your time over thinking each and every conversation. Check out how to really understand what body language means in today’s video.