The reason why women get creeped out by the stalker is because so many men stare at women and don’t say anything. They stare at them at a bar and don’t say a word and creep them out. They walk down the street and actually do follow them, trying to figure out what to say, and they don’t say anything at all. They stare…

Years ago, I was vacationing in Boulder, Colorado. One day, after a two-hour massage, I went to Whole Foods for some dinner. As I was walking out, I passed by a gorgeous woman and we had one of those moments. (You know those moments that happen when a woman stares at you and you stare at her at the same time and an extreme sexual chemistry builds up that you can feel? It was one of those…)

You see this woman every single day and you don’t know what to say or what to do. One day you actually swear you locked eyes with her and you think she might have even smiled…but you said nothing. And everyday you repeat this pattern over and over again…

“I’ve been practicing what I’ve learned from you, and I’ve become good at starting casual conversations in a very non-threatening manner. But from the reactions I get with women, I sense that I am giving off more a friendly vibe as opposed to a sexual vibe. I’m not trying to make a girl wet on the spot…”

You were tired of going to the parties and heading out to the same bars and restaurants. You felt like this was the one. Here’s the deal: everything that you’ve ever known about dating is wrong…

It’s funny how quickly we forget about the basics. Going out and meeting women is not that difficult. Going on a date and engaging the woman you’re out with in great conversation is not that difficult. So why can’t so many guys do it? It’s because they’re not having fun…

Obsession is something that is not very healthy at all, especially when it comes to meeting the opposite sex. So many guys are so obsessed with the approach or so obsessed with trying to figure out what to say…

It’s The Day After Christmas
All the presents have been unwrapped.
By now the parents have driven you crazy. You look around the house and think to yourself

Hey guys, Shogo here with another Friday edition!
Christmas is right around the corner, there are a lot of Holiday parties going on right now, and a lot of you younger guys are home for the holidays going out to the bars and seeing old friends…

I was talking to a client on the phone the other night and it really struck me just how much apprehension so many guys have about meeting women.
The fear, the anxiety, the uncertainty. That’s why the majority of men never can figure out what to say.
A while ago I came up with this really fun exercise. I told my client to use the alien approach….