Comments on: Bring Them Back

By: Sandra

Sandra — Tue, 17 Feb 2009 05:21:37 +0000

Tony
I was not sure if she did and what was said. We are on two separate computers.

By: Tony888

Tony888 — Tue, 17 Feb 2009 05:15:36 +0000

Sandra,

Yeah, I asked her if they had posted any pics of him around the neighborhood and said I’d keep an eye out for him. Haven’t seen him though.

By: Sandra

Sandra — Tue, 17 Feb 2009 02:49:23 +0000

Tony888
When one of my friends even male friends that I have not seen in awhile I will ask someone how is so and so. But in the case of the missing dog just ask her have they found him yet and you will keep an eye out for it. If they have any pics up looking for it. I live in the country and when someone loses a dog they will put up poster looking for it and describing the dog and what they answer to. Hope they find it. Also that shows you are concerned and don’t feel like you are intruding you are doing this as a friend.

By: Tony888

Tony888 — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 23:33:16 +0000

“Just be sincere and don’t make anything up.”

Wasn’t going to make anything up.

By: marina

marina — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 21:53:11 +0000

Tony
I don’t see any problems in you bringing it up next time. She share and you will share back by asking her if she found her dog. If you or a family member has had a dog they lost then you can share that story showing that you understand what she went through. Just be sincere and don’t make anything up.

By: Khiem (DW Coach)

Khiem (DW Coach) — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 21:27:16 +0000

Bringing people back is like telling s childhood story… there’s always that slight gentle smile on their face as you see them look up to remember how it felt

By: Tony888

Tony888 — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 20:53:57 +0000

A question about this in light of a recent conversation with a hairdresser(I guess that’s the correct term for all female barbers). I was getting a haircut recently at SmartCuts and talking to the girl cutting my hair when she mentioned she had lost her dog. It went missing the day before and never came home as it always had. She mentioned that she & her bf went out looking for him, but never found him.

Now this is not about scoring points if you will cause she does have a bf. My question David, Kim, Sandra, Marina or anyone is should I ask the next time I go back for another cut? The obvious answer might be Yes, but what if they still haven’t found the dog a month later? Suppose its too emotional for her. I don’t want to cause her pain by asking about something that might be too saddening for her and cause a real downer. It may show i care, but it may make her sad and ruin her day just thinking about it again.

By: Pete

Pete — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 09:50:08 +0000

This is actually my biggest hurdle at the moment

I know how important it is, just keeping things like first names/nicknames, a little bit of info, to build a relationship, is a little hard for me (not being sober doesnt particuarly help).

By: Kelvin

Kelvin — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 05:00:42 +0000

Does david wygant really answer every email we sent to him? i don’t think he got the time to read? LOL

Kelvin

By: j-dude

j-dude — Mon, 16 Feb 2009 04:21:15 +0000

Sandra-

I have a smile every time U and Marina R around…