Comments on: Be Present Where You Are http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/be-present-where-you-are/2715/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Mon, 21 May 2012 03:10:47 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Rachel http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/be-present-where-you-are/2715/#comment-38826 Rachel Thu, 04 Mar 2010 18:28:44 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2715#comment-38826 Hello. Not sure if anyone is still looking at this blog. I have a question. I am a 46 year old woman and an acquaintance of mine from work who is 32 has contacted me. We are both separated and he wanted for "2 people to enjoy each others company" and that he had liked me for a long time without telling me. We have been meeting for sex only and sometimes sex and lunch for about 6 months. He comes and goes with his closeness to me. Sometimes he texts or calls me just to talk or tell me he misses me and alot of the time he backs off and I don't get those warm texts from him. We are both separated so I'm fine with the 2 people enjoying each others company, but I'd just like to know what's up with him backing off and coming forward, on and off. Can anyone offer some advice? Rachel Hello. Not sure if anyone is still looking at this blog. I have a question. I am a 46 year old woman and an acquaintance of mine from work who is 32 has contacted me. We are both separated and he wanted for “2 people to enjoy each others company” and that he had liked me for a long time without telling me.
We have been meeting for sex only and sometimes sex and lunch for about 6 months. He comes and goes with his closeness to me. Sometimes he texts or calls me just to talk or tell me he misses me and alot of the time he backs off and I don’t get those warm texts from him. We are both separated so I’m fine with the 2 people enjoying each others company, but I’d just like to know what’s up with him backing off and coming forward, on and off. Can anyone offer some advice?
Rachel

]]> By: Tony http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/be-present-where-you-are/2715/#comment-34825 Tony Mon, 18 Jan 2010 23:45:53 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2715#comment-34825 Dave, I'm 44 and work in a hospital with a lot of girls in their younger 20's, sure they're nice to look at, but like you said, a man my age and a young girl in her 20's are in 2 completely different worlds. Dave, I’m 44 and work in a hospital with a lot of girls in their younger 20′s, sure they’re nice to look at, but like you said, a man my age and a young girl in her 20′s are in 2 completely different worlds.

]]> By: Tony888 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/be-present-where-you-are/2715/#comment-34675 Tony888 Thu, 14 Jan 2010 09:13:47 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2715#comment-34675 David, I'm well above 18 years old, but, dang it, like you said nearly a year ago, all men(well, too many of us at least)are still 18 yr old Scooby Doos regardless of our age. I have this thing, maybe it's just a fantasy about being with a beautiful girl around 24 years old with the mind & maturity of a 34 year old. Is that even possible? Is it possible to find a girl in her early 20s who doesn't talk like a total Valley Girl, like okay, like chatter chatter chatter, like as if OK, like OMG, like what-EVER, like(insert hyperventilating spaz attack here as she talks about Robert Pattinson, Taylor Lautner, any Jonas brother, etc), like chatter, chatter some more, like OMG, like totally, like... There are so many beautiful 20-24 yr old women at the local university, but that's the way they talk and when I hear them talk like that, after only 5 minutes, I have to deduct 100 IQ points from their score. And here's another thing, because I'm a Christian(but not an overly uptight prude, so don't confuse the two) I get annoyed when I hear girls & guys use the OMG phrase all the time. "Oh my God" translated into Valley Girl speak became OmIgawwwwd all crammed together. But it's still violating the 2nd of the 10 Commandments; Exodus 20 & Deuteronomy 5(It's a Jewish thing too). So I use other things in conversation in place of that when talking. Instead, you can say "Oh man" or "Wow" or "Cool!" "You've been to Italy? Cool! Me too! Did you get to Florence while you were there?" Or "Hey, you saw Avatar at the IMAX too? Cool! What did ya think of it in 3D? David, I’m well above 18 years old, but, dang it, like you said nearly a year ago, all men(well, too many of us at least)are still 18 yr old Scooby Doos regardless of our age.

I have this thing, maybe it’s just a fantasy about being with a beautiful girl around 24 years old with the mind & maturity of a 34 year old. Is that even possible? Is it possible to find a girl in her early 20s who doesn’t talk like a total Valley Girl, like okay, like chatter chatter chatter, like as if OK, like OMG, like what-EVER, like(insert hyperventilating spaz attack here as she talks about Robert Pattinson, Taylor Lautner, any Jonas brother, etc), like chatter, chatter some more, like OMG, like totally, like…

There are so many beautiful 20-24 yr old women at the local university, but that’s the way they talk and when I hear them talk like that, after only 5 minutes, I have to deduct 100 IQ points from their score.

And here’s another thing, because I’m a Christian(but not an overly uptight prude, so don’t confuse the two) I get annoyed when I hear girls & guys use the OMG phrase all the time. “Oh my God” translated into Valley Girl speak became OmIgawwwwd all crammed together. But it’s still violating the 2nd of the 10 Commandments; Exodus 20 & Deuteronomy 5(It’s a Jewish thing too). So I use other things in conversation in place of that when talking. Instead, you can say “Oh man” or “Wow” or “Cool!”

“You’ve been to Italy? Cool! Me too! Did you get to Florence while you were there?”

Or “Hey, you saw Avatar at the IMAX too? Cool! What did ya think of it in 3D?

]]> By: charly26 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/be-present-where-you-are/2715/#comment-34619 charly26 Wed, 13 Jan 2010 04:46:43 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2715#comment-34619 What if in your 20s, you didn't live and experience the craziness proper of the youth?. What's wrong with doing it when being a little older like in the movie the bucket list? Besides, not all 20 year olds girls are crazy and immature, I believe you can find a cool, serious, mature, and independent woman who happens to be much younger than you. What if in your 20s, you didn’t live and experience the craziness proper of the youth?. What’s wrong with doing it when being a little older like in the movie the bucket list?
Besides, not all 20 year olds girls are crazy and immature, I believe you can find a cool, serious, mature, and independent woman who happens to be much younger than you.

]]> By: Julia http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/be-present-where-you-are/2715/#comment-34606 Julia Tue, 12 Jan 2010 20:37:23 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2715#comment-34606 Thanks Coach Kimberly! Thanks Coach Kimberly!

]]> By: Coach Kimberly http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/be-present-where-you-are/2715/#comment-34601 Coach Kimberly Tue, 12 Jan 2010 06:15:17 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2715#comment-34601 I love this blog! It's all about embracing where you are in life. A lot of times people chase the young hot thing so that they can feel better about themselves or fill a void. But as David indicates, that only fills you up temporarily. Fill yourself up and you'll be happy where you are! Julia..love and always welcome more female presence! I love this blog! It’s all about embracing where you are in life. A lot of times people chase the young hot thing so that they can feel better about themselves or fill a void. But as David indicates, that only fills you up temporarily. Fill yourself up and you’ll be happy where you are!

Julia..love and always welcome more female presence!

]]> By: Rick http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/be-present-where-you-are/2715/#comment-34600 Rick Tue, 12 Jan 2010 05:48:28 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2715#comment-34600 Anthony- i will have to check that one out, is it the one with George Cloony? Anthony- i will have to check that one out, is it the one with George Cloony?

]]> By: Anthony http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/be-present-where-you-are/2715/#comment-34599 Anthony Tue, 12 Jan 2010 05:40:40 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2715#comment-34599 I saw the movie "UP IN THE AIR" and that is another example to be in the moment stay present incredible movie..ery thought provoking I saw the movie “UP IN THE AIR” and that is another example to be in the moment stay present

incredible movie..ery thought provoking

]]> By: Coach Jacob http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/be-present-where-you-are/2715/#comment-34598 Coach Jacob Tue, 12 Jan 2010 04:10:52 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2715#comment-34598 Julia- no worries the guys here love women's perspective. Julia-

no worries the guys here love women’s perspective.

]]> By: Julia http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/be-present-where-you-are/2715/#comment-34597 Julia Tue, 12 Jan 2010 04:09:57 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2715#comment-34597 Sorry Jacob for taking your coaching spot for bit, but Leo just enjoy your twenties, there is no point in waiting for that someone, who knows when you might meet her again. But if you are out, you are more likely to find that special someone. Sorry Jacob for taking your coaching spot for bit, but Leo just enjoy your twenties, there is no point in waiting for that someone, who knows when you might meet her again. But if you are out, you are more likely to find that special someone.

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