Be Memorable-How To Have Great Sex Video
May 31, 2008 
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Be Memorable By David Wygant
You need to be memorable. Most people are not memorable. Most people walk around life trying to get somebody to come up and approach them. They wait. They are what I call ‘waiters’ in life.
They kick back and wait for the other person to talk first, and do all the work, so then they can reap the benefits. But the fact of the matter is that in order to become a social person, or in order to become somebody that attracts a lot of people – because you want to attract people, you don’t want to chase them – you have to become memorable.
So how do you become memorable?
Everywhere you go, you talk to people. You talk to the person who cuts your cheese, you talk to the person who pours your coffee at Starbucks. When you walk into a restaurant, you make sure you talk to the hostess or host that seats you – you are memorable.
You engage them in a conversation. It could be a quick conversation, it could be a long one, but you want to be memorable. Memorable people remember things about people. You want to remember things about everybody that you possibly can.
The fact of the matter is that the only time in life that you are ever going to be able to connect with people is if you are memorable. You want to be that person that people remember and want to go talk to.
For instance, I’m in Beverly Hills right now with a client, and we went into a Neiman Marcus. We were hanging out in Neiman Marcus, and we were just talking to people. One woman walked directly over, and she said to us, “oh my god, you guys are having so much fun, I wanted to come over and talk to you!”
This happened because we were memorable. We were enjoying ourselves, and having fun. Most people don’t have fun. Most people walk around life in a coma, nonstop all the time, and you don’t ever remember them. They’re just hoping that someone will come along and wake them up from their coma.
You have to be the one that embraces every little step, and every little day, and has a blast with every person.
Have a great Saturday!
THE VIDEO IS HILARIOUS!!!!!
i tried this out for a while, and before you know it EVERYBODY knows you! great tips!
This video is quite funny. Thank you David!
These tips will be quite useful in the future.
Hey Vic
Glad you enjoyed the video!
It will always be here when you need it!
Have a great Saturday!
Hey rey
This video should have a song attached to it!
Do you know what song would be great?
Haha nice Video!
Being memorable is definitely something that you want to apply in your life. The thing I love about your stuff is that it not only gets you great with women, but great with people in general from a really positive standpoint. You see so many people trying to act like a badass, or some rock star, but truth is, it just makes you less approachable.
Whether you are trying to make it in the music industry, get good with women, or advance your career, being memorable is only going to make things that much easier!
Thanks for the great post!
DW speaks the truth. Being nice/ polite and talking to people who are working and doing you a service makes you memorable and puts you in a position to get the number. The more you do it, the better the chance that they will offer you their number, which is awesome. You can even be memorable by a simple thing as the clothes you wear. One time I was wearing a shirt and a girl commented on it. From there she developed a name for me that stuck and now we hang out all the time
oh love this blog David!
Jay man,
this is getting far beyond of getting some phone number.
I walked in my supermarket the other day and since I know almost every single person that works there, Ana the cashier lady started talking to me.
Of course people behind me noticed that and started to smile because I was just out of my workout and with Ana we were talking about the need of the work out etc… It was great!!
And Ana told me, look that girl behind you is just looking at you! So I looked and this girl was smiling and was happy and was curious.
I could go and just start a conversation with this lady and possibly get her phone #.
But wasn’t about the phone number, man, it was fun!
I have a question for everybody here.
What it takes for a woman to climax like David shows in the video??
Is it the mental connection, love, sex toys, or David is just good??
My lovers never experienced this and I feel ashamed..because this is something I want to experience as well.
Slava
I really need to hook up some speakers, this video looks mad, mind you I never had a problem with being memorable myself
OMG! The video is hilarious! Vibrators are great but the real thing is best!
SLAVA: Don’t beat yourself up about not getting a woman to climax. I didn’t climax with a guy until I was 25. I had great lovers so I knew it wasn’t because of a lack of skills. I knew I was physically able to reach an orgasm since I had climaxed with a vibrator thousands of times. but not All women are different but Yes is the answer to your question. All of the above factors are possible.
For lots of women they need to trust you completely and be comfortable with their body. Some may be young and have never really had an orgasm and don’t know how to let it happen. For others they need to be in love and have strong intimacy with their partner. Others are unable to physically climax with their partner due to using a vibrator too much. This is what happened to me.
I started using a Black and Decker back massager on top of my clothes on my crotch when I was in 7th grade. There were days I used it over 20+ times (when I would cut school or in the summer). Usually I had about 3 or 4 orgasms a day with it. Eventually, it began taking me 20+ minutes to cum. There is NO WAY a guy’s tongue or finger can compete with this much pressure. I really wanted to experience an orgasm with my boyfriend and so I had to say goodbye to my special friend for about 4 months. I had to let go completely. I also had learned to cum by using my hand so it was easier to direct my man.
Keep trying and take your time. Be confident and go slow. Slow movements usually work better. Get her to show you what she likes by telling her you want to watch her make herself cum. Keep her going by telling her how beautiful she is and by telling her how much it turns you on to watch. Bring in a small vibrator NOT a back massager!!! See where she puts it and focus on that area. GOOD LUCK!
Officer Naughty hi
,
This is HILARIOUS!! I can only imagine a 7th grade innocent girl having 3-4 orgasms every day..LOL
thank you for the response lady.
I have got to climax my ex girlfriend. We were so confident that we did not “finish” until she came:-) It was our internal rule and of course fun to play around. We had a great time
Anyway.
I def agree on intimacy, trust and emotional connection.
I just never experienced what I saw in the video => a woman climaxing for 4-5 minutes??? (honestly don’t know if thats possible) Maybe its because I have never used any sexual toys..
Never happened to me (neither my lovers) so I’m just curious how that happens and wanted to know the experience of the community here. The goal is of course get the maximum what your body offers
I just downloaded few books about the orgasms for both sexes and apparently it is also possible for a guy climax many times like women do.
Officer, is it normal for you to climax for 4-5 minutes??
P.S. I’m just curious,
where did your nickname come from?? Officer naughty, loove it!
>>>>>>apparently it is also possible for a guy climax many times like women do.
the name of the book please:-) I just do not think this is physically possible….I have the opposite problem, I take hours to climax myself…I make them all dizzy first and I am still going…like the energizer bunny. I must say reading this blog over the past several months has been very educational!
DanTheOriginal hey,
try out this torrent:
http://thepiratebay.org/tor/4162154/Sex_-_Health_-_Tantra_-_Multiorgasmic_-_More
there is a lot of interesting stuff to go through
I’m just curious, has somebody here experienced multiple orgasms???:-)
S
Enjoy.
Call me paranoid but I don’t do Torrent since I am on the witness protection program and…I am not even supposed to be online!!
Just kidding, I just don’t want to be served with a lawsuit one day, I got enought headaches to deal with. Slava, thanks a lot for your reply…feel free to email me the darn thing on a readable format:-)
Slava: I don’t know if it is possible or not to climax for 4-5 minutes straight. I know I can climax and keep going and then climax again and again so this can take a lot more than 5 minutes. I’ve only experienced this within the last few months. I guess it’s true what they say about women when they reach their 30′s or David is just that good!
Officer Naughty came from a sexy cop costume I got for a Halloween party to wear at the Playboy Mansion a year ago . It says, “Officer Naughty” right on it. I had never commented on a blog before so I didn’t know what to call myself. I had just worn it over the night before to David’s to “arrest” him so I thought it would be cute. David has gotten a little bit of flack about me using this name since PUA’s call themselves things like this. My real name is Hope and I may start posting as Hope soon.
ON – Playboy Mansion?? That’s where you and all your “good looking” friends hang out??
I can only imagine how the “arrest” went…
Dan,
I left my email few post back, feel free to write me and I will be happy to send it to you.
Hope, you keep posting.
I usually don’t post in blogs but your blog forced me to, amazing work.. beautiful !
You you could edit the webpage name title Be Memorable-How To Have Great Sex Video | Dating Tips and Dating Advice by David Wygant to something more catching for your subject you make. I enjoyed the post still.
well that’s cool, just a side not, this is what really transformed me, from the wuss, to the man, their is a countless ways to convey that we are below a female level, whether is is being needy or being too easy going, well i decided to communicate that i am on the same level or on a higher level than any girl i talk to, and i notice, that their is countless ways to portray this too. and this has been groundbreaking for me.. if you guys could understand what you are doing wrong, is making you look like you are in a lower level, then turn up the heat, and walk and talk like a new type of person. the type of person that is in control of he’s world.