…really, an interesting T-shirt and tight fitting jeans on a date? huh.. single seminars I have been to say, a shirt with a collar…and wear cologne, polo sport, halston, etc..

There was a song recently about how adult life really is high school and I totally agree. For me, the way I dress does have an affect on how confident I feel. I’ve been working to build an entire wardrobe of clothing that I feel absolutely amazing in. So it doesn’t matter if I’m running to the grocery store or heading to a wine tasting, I’ll feel gorgeous and project that air of “cool” that folks tend to be drawn to.

Not only is shopping great for buying clothes but you can shop for people as well!!!

I don’t think I’ve used the word cool to describe a person since I was in high school. I don’t really care if the people I hang out with are cool or not … I like them for who they are, not what other people think about them. Plus “cool” is so generic I’d much rather someone say that I’m creative or sweet or funny, something a little more specific that actually means something.

To me “cool” seems kind of like the tooth fairy. When you’re younger everyone buys into it but then one day you realize its just a fantasy. How would you qualify that the concept of cool actually exists? There’s no certification or license to show you’re cool, and who would be the judge of cool anyway? The whole idea of being cool is all in our heads. I’d much rather have fun and pursue my passions than waste time thinking about an artificial concept. Besides, artsy types are intrinsically cool so I’m set. Totally kidding of course.