Think of it this way – if you saw another man that you really admired and possibly wanted to meet – (for whatever reason – he’s a great athlete, has a great fishing boat/golf swing/car, consistently excels at something you’re interested in, whatever) would you use these same techniques to let him know or to be able to meet him???? In other words, if a girl were interested in you, would you want that disrespectful, embarrassing, degrading type of attention to be used by her to get the point across? Or, would you respond better to a sincere compliment/comment to break the ice and start a conversation to open the door to meeting you? Come on, guys – it’s really simple – common sense & courtesy will impress us way more than ‘beating your chest Tarzan-like’ embarrassing techniques. And, truly, any girl that would be impressed by that type of display isn’t someone you would really want to meet, let alone date, unless you only want to get laid – and probably be expected to pay for it. Just treat us with the same honest respect, desire and admiration that would make you feel like someone was truly impressed by you and wanted to know you better.

You are BORN with the ability to meet and attract women. You just have to get back in touch with yourself to do so.

Depending on how you feel about yourself and how good are at implementing whatever you need to improve, it can take as little as 3 months to a year to be good.

But if you are talking about MASTERING it…. it may take up to 10 years. Research says that mastering any discipline takes about 10 years.

What are you doing today to implement the teachings you read in the blogs? Have you watched the YouTube videos yet?

You start implementing these ideas one at a time. Every week, journal how you feel and what you are doing to practice the ideas you see in here. If you are just reading them and not applying them, it doesn’t matter how long you read these ideas.

You won’t get it until you experience it.

Speaking of authenticity and working on yourself, I just realized that the confidence I had in the past were based on external views people had of me, so that was not true confidence. True confidence should start from within. I need to be confident enough that I won’t feel like my friend who gets all the attention will sweep a future/potential boyfriend away. I need to be confident enough that if my attractive physical appearnace fades away, I’ll still be fine.