Comments on: Avoid The Art Of Detraction http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/avoid-the-art-of-detraction/2402/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Fri, 10 Feb 2012 02:15:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: C-Man http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/avoid-the-art-of-detraction/2402/#comment-33267 C-Man Sat, 14 Nov 2009 18:49:09 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2402#comment-33267 Monster, you're right. it's good to have people around you that you can interact since we tend to be stuck busy with our businesses. ;D that's something I've been working for all this year: building the best social network ever. Monster, you’re right. it’s good to have people around you that you can interact since we tend to be stuck busy with our businesses. ;D that’s something I’ve been working for all this year: building the best social network ever.

]]> By: Monster http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/avoid-the-art-of-detraction/2402/#comment-33167 Monster Tue, 10 Nov 2009 12:47:42 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2402#comment-33167 Well Andy, evidently you "get the picture" of how to have fun wherever you are.Thanks for the compliment. The opposite sex can be a magical fountain of good feelings or Scaaaary, (oh no) Frustrating (Ah crap)or just plain off the radar entirely! (God, please take me before I get to that place!) For me, my interactions with women always seem to be a good indicator about how I am feeling about life in that moment. The great thing is when I see a pretty girl I get to take a stab (metaphorically) at altering my mood to the upside, substantially! Oh and if she doesn't want to play then, poor thing, she just missed a jolly time and a bunch of happy beans in her ego jar from yours truly! P S I just realized that even though I have a girlfriend to die for, I have created a life for myself with dozens of women that I can flirt with (sometimes until I get swatted with a paper and sent back to my girlfriend), dance with, smash on (massage), eat with, or even argue with, until we giggle and smack each other. My life right now is SUPER STRESSFUL and having a bunch of lovely women to unwind with makes life a pleasure! You know, they are always there, whether I take the time and muster the energy/ courage to connect with them or not. Girls, people like me, fighting for their happiness in a tough world that can take pieces of your soul if you lose your smile! Well Andy, evidently you “get the picture” of how to have fun wherever you are.Thanks for the compliment.
The opposite sex can be a magical fountain of good feelings or Scaaaary, (oh no) Frustrating (Ah crap)or just plain off the radar entirely! (God, please take me before I get to that place!)
For me, my interactions with women always seem to be a good indicator about how I am feeling about life in that moment. The great thing is when I see a pretty girl I get to take a stab (metaphorically) at altering my mood to the upside, substantially! Oh and if she doesn’t want to play then, poor thing, she just missed a jolly time and a bunch of happy beans in her ego jar from yours truly!
P S
I just realized that even though I have a girlfriend to die for, I have created a life for myself with dozens of women that I can flirt with (sometimes until I get swatted with a paper and sent back to my girlfriend), dance with, smash on (massage), eat with, or even argue with, until we giggle and smack each other. My life right now is SUPER STRESSFUL and having a bunch of lovely women to unwind with makes life a pleasure! You know, they are always there, whether I take the time and muster the energy/ courage to connect with them or not. Girls, people like me, fighting for their happiness in a tough world that can take pieces of your soul if you lose your smile!

]]> By: Andy http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/avoid-the-art-of-detraction/2402/#comment-33162 Andy Tue, 10 Nov 2009 02:49:00 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2402#comment-33162 Good for you Monster! I like the way you turned this around and made the conscious decision not to play the victim. I think if everyone held your glass-half-full, instead of glass-half-empty outlook, the world would be a much nicer place. Good for you Monster!

I like the way you turned this around and made the conscious decision not to play the victim. I think if everyone held your glass-half-full, instead of glass-half-empty outlook, the world would be a much nicer place.

]]> By: Monster http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/avoid-the-art-of-detraction/2402/#comment-33144 Monster Sun, 08 Nov 2009 15:24:11 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2402#comment-33144 Yes! Lets talk about the art of attraction, the other day I was left to sit endlessly trying to get a break in traffic and get to my next appointment!I was late and these selfish drivers would not let me in! STOP! STOP! STOP! COME TO REALITY! THAT IS NOT WHAT WAS HAPPENING! Here is what was happening in reality. I had pulled into a tiny but cheap gas station to get fuel for my beautiful but eternally thirsty Corvette convertible. The station is situated right on the corner of two very busy city streets. It was smack in the middle of rush hour and there were cars lined up for more than a mile at the traffic light. Now please guess who had set himself up for a long wait? Me of course and there I sat! SO, I turned on my "fun personality" and began to have fun. First I cranked up the music and began to sway and tap my fingers. Then I turned to the traffic, looking for a car with that "Right Person." There she was, 6 cars back in an SUV bright and animated, about 45 years old and attractive. I focused my smile at her until she noticed me, smiling, swaying to the music and needing into traffic. She and I connected, only for a moment but that was plenty. She gave me a brief smile and waved me into traffic. I FELT GREAT, I HAD FLIRTED MY WAY INTO A NICE LITTLE FAVOR FROM AN ATTRACTIVE WOMAN! I wouldn't date her, I'll never get the chance but I captured her attention and she responded to me. Ha, ha, ha, I got myself lots of those little happy beans that go to fill me ego jar and make me a very dangerous man around single women! Is that what you were referring to? Yes! Lets talk about the art of attraction, the other day I was left to sit endlessly trying to get a break in traffic and get to my next appointment!I was late and these selfish drivers would not let me in!

STOP! STOP! STOP! COME TO REALITY! THAT IS NOT WHAT WAS HAPPENING!

Here is what was happening in reality. I had pulled into a tiny but cheap gas station to get fuel for my beautiful but eternally thirsty Corvette convertible. The station is situated right on the corner of two very busy city streets. It was smack in the middle of rush hour and there were cars lined up for more than a mile at the traffic light.
Now please guess who had set himself up for a long wait?
Me of course and there I sat! SO, I turned on my “fun personality” and began to have fun. First I cranked up the music and began to sway and tap my fingers. Then I turned to the traffic, looking for a car with that “Right Person.”
There she was, 6 cars back in an SUV bright and animated, about 45 years old and attractive. I focused my smile at her until she noticed me, smiling, swaying to the music and needing into traffic. She and I connected, only for a moment but that was plenty. She gave me a brief smile and waved me into traffic.
I FELT GREAT, I HAD FLIRTED MY WAY INTO A NICE LITTLE FAVOR FROM AN ATTRACTIVE WOMAN! I wouldn’t date her, I’ll never get the chance but I captured her attention and she responded to me. Ha, ha, ha, I got myself lots of those little happy beans that go to fill me ego jar and make me a very dangerous man around single women!

Is that what you were referring to?

]]> By: Miguel http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/avoid-the-art-of-detraction/2402/#comment-33127 Miguel Sat, 07 Nov 2009 02:00:07 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2402#comment-33127 And you're right about processed food... It makes me feel lousy too. Especially when you drink soft drinks.... Yikes! All the sugar stuff they chuck in it. :p And you’re right about processed food… It makes me feel lousy too. Especially when you drink soft drinks…. Yikes! All the sugar stuff they chuck in it. :p

]]> By: Miguel http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/avoid-the-art-of-detraction/2402/#comment-33126 Miguel Sat, 07 Nov 2009 01:51:32 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2402#comment-33126 1st post! Yes, you're right. What's the big deal with getting bumped? Here in Manila, you will actually get that dirty look everywhere. Even being nice and courteous doesn't help. People will still give you that dirty look. Heck, they'll tell their friends about it and look at you the same. Or they'll feel you're a big ass. 1st post! Yes, you’re right. What’s the big deal with getting bumped? Here in Manila, you will actually get that dirty look everywhere. Even being nice and courteous doesn’t help. People will still give you that dirty look. Heck, they’ll tell their friends about it and look at you the same. Or they’ll feel you’re a big ass.

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