Ignore Her When She Walks By David Wygant

So you’re sitting in a restaurant with a group of four guys, minding your own business, having a great conversation, talking guy things (like business), hanging out, swapping stories, talking sports, and then all of a sudden: she walks towards you.

You know exactly who I’m talking about: the girl that captivates everyone of you guys’ attention. She may be blond, she may be brunette. But whatever she looks like, she’s walking directly towards you and, as men, you just can’t resist looking.

So the first guy looks. And the other guys that are talking wonder, “what did that guy look at?” So the next guy turns around and he sees her too – the deer in the headlight look. Then all of a sudden you have four guys staring directly at her, basically drooling into a cup with the deer in the headlights look.

So what went wrong in this situation?

The girl walks by, looking for a place to sit. She’s debating in her head, “huh, four cool guys, let me sit down” or “oh, four guys that stared at me – I don’t want to sit down, maybe they have no game. Maybe they’re not going to be able to intrigue me.”

And then she debates, walking by very slowly. She lingers a little bit, actually debating. One of the guys has a dog, she looks at the dog, she thinks about petting the dog and she realizes “huh, maybe I shouldn’t pet that dog – maybe he’s attached to one of those deer in the headlights men that are sitting there.”

So what do you do in this situation?

The next time you see a woman that walks towards you, you absolutely and utterly ignore her. You don’t talk to her and you basically ignore her. Look at your friends: smile, laugh, create good energy, have a good time, maybe pat your friend on the shoulder – because what will happen? That girl will sit down at a table right near you and wonder why you ignored her!

And then all of a sudden you can turn around and look at her and start the conversation based on something she is doing. For instance, there is someone sitting there right now that is writing on a notepad. So one of us, in about 30 seconds, is going to say to her, “are you writing me a note? Man, I told you not to write me a note today – I prefer texts!”

Until tomorrow… we’ll see you then!