Comments on: Attention All Women Explore Yourself Sexually

By: Sandra Hutchens

Sandra Hutchens — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 22:38:56 +0000

The way I learned was when I was alone for almost three years. Now that I am single once more I started to read Cosmopolitan and how a man wants to feel by his partner. I am not interested in women. I am a ride em cowboy person. After I learned these ways then whoever I was with I would practice on them.

By: Khiem

Khiem — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 22:27:36 +0000

You learn the most about sexuality by exploring it deeply with someone.

Having multiple partners or many partners doesn’t ensure you are learning anything and becoming good.

As funny as it sounds, if a woman explores herself sexually, she makes it easier on the man to please her because she’s more in touch with what makes her feel good.

Whereas if she has no experience exploring herself, the man has to do a LOT of work to help her figure out what feels good to her.

Gabrielle, if you want to learn about how to please men, there are a lot of books on that topic that you can find at the library or at the bookstore.

Personally, I’d recommend you watch some sex educational videos. I’ve watched that myself out of curiosity to better myself and they are just great! You get to see how the body moves, and the motion it takes to really become a great lover.

However, in the end, it’s all about the psychological arousal. Most men AND women will think you are the best lover if you can truly arouse their emotions.

By: Sandra Hutchens

Sandra Hutchens — Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:30:49 +0000

What a person does in this life is between them and God. If someone says something then that is on them. You are not responsible for the paths they chose to take in life nor the decisions they made. When it comes to Lord Jesus we stand individually. It doesn’t bother me when I want to pamper my body and be sexual with it. This keeps me from being sexually frustrated and away from std’s or hiv aids.

By: Gabrielle

Gabrielle — Fri, 12 Dec 2008 03:22:40 +0000

I have to say that I always thought that it wasn’t “right” or that if my friends from church found out they would all be talking about me, would throw holy water on me, and I would disintegrate like the wicked witch of the west in the Wizard of Oz.
In reality, if I do not take care of myself in this way, I tend to get frustrated and I feel really tense and blocked. And my friends from church talk about sex way more than I do – ha ha!
I can’t say that I am totally at ease having to do this, but I do feel better afterward!
How do you learn how to please a man? I am not with anyone & probably won’t be sexually for awhile so how do you learn for future reference?

By: Yakub

Yakub — Wed, 10 Dec 2008 21:57:50 +0000

TR: I totally agree with your comments. Same is true for men. Some guys think that they need to sleep with tons of women to get good in bed or with women, and become their best self. But what they realize in the end, that it takes inner work on oneself. Inside and out.

Like David mentioned, if anyone change inside and out, it will blossom into a beautiful flower. That’s the kind of work I had to do, not just as a coach but also as a student of this.

btw….where is Joan!? I miss her.

By: TR

TR — Wed, 10 Dec 2008 06:55:21 +0000

It doesn’t take a quantity of men to learn to be a quality lover.

By: Sandra Hutchens

Sandra Hutchens — Wed, 10 Dec 2008 03:36:48 +0000

I take a day and pamper my body. I have went as far as to embrace it as well. There are times that I will go solo for I have not been with a man going on five years. In today’s society it plays to be safe.

By: Sandra Hutchens

Sandra Hutchens — Wed, 10 Dec 2008 03:24:26 +0000

I have a question? What does a woman wear when the monthly comes up? I wear dark pants for I do not advertise.

By: Taryn

Taryn — Wed, 10 Dec 2008 02:59:02 +0000

AMEN…love this blog. Thank you for reasuring my belief in sexuality. I whole heartedly agree with you on this one. I am a woman who is very sexually confident and feel sorry for woman who are insecure sexually.

By: Jules

Jules — Tue, 09 Dec 2008 21:49:49 +0000

David love that you have a woman’s video up!

I can relate to the woman in this video (in fact I feel like I could be her she sounds so similar to the way I talk about myself) I think it’s really interesting to hear you talk about how we need to remember that men like women of all different body types. This is a good reminder all of us ladies need.