Comments on: Ask Me If I Care

By: Khiem (DW Coach)

Khiem (DW Coach) — Tue, 06 Jul 2010 21:41:15 +0000

It’s only weird if you make it weird.

By: Mario

Mario — Tue, 06 Jul 2010 03:38:06 +0000

Khiem but what if you don’t see beautiful girl throughout your day? I mean it is kinda weird if you talk to a random girl in a store as well isn’t it?

By: Khiem (DW Coach)

Khiem (DW Coach) — Mon, 05 Jul 2010 20:28:34 +0000

Annonymous,

If you feel THAT strongly about her, you can sure try to stop her and talk to her. No one is telling you not to do it. If you feel it, act on it. But the truth is… isn’t there already a lot of good looking women you can meet through your daily interactions?

What does it say about you when you get so attached (aka outcome dependent) to the idea of meeting this ONE woman you saw walking down the street? Are you putting her on a pedestal already when your mind is going “OMG, I HAVE to meet THIS woman” when you really don’t know anything about her yet.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sun, 04 Jul 2010 23:38:15 +0000

So if you see a woman you’re attracted to, but you feel like you may never see her again, you would not stop her? Are you supposed to just let her go or just pray that you meet her at another point in time where she’ll be receptive to you?

By: Khiem (DW Coach)

Khiem (DW Coach) — Mon, 28 Jun 2010 15:42:14 +0000

Cathy, what’s your story? How did someone weird you out?

By: Cathy J

Cathy J — Mon, 28 Jun 2010 08:40:42 +0000

Khiem – I must admit I have also been a bit wierded out by who get too friendly on the street.

Totally agree with it being a bit strange to try to pick up in the street. Although in 50 First Dates, there were some original ones!!

To make eye contact and even be aware that someone is out there is unfortunately very rare in these days of busyness and even paranoia.

When you are sitting down reading or in a cafe, or choosing a book or groceries… be open, look up, smile… you would be surprised how many genuine people there are around!

By: Khiem (DW Coach)

Khiem (DW Coach) — Sun, 27 Jun 2010 07:55:12 +0000

This blog is funny! It reminds me of a time when my g/f was walking towards me. I see her coming at a distance to me… and at the same time, i see a guy trail her for a while… then gets the courage to walk beside her to give her a compliment.

My g/f was polite and thanked him for the compliment but was totally weirded out by him. She was like: where did he come from? He was coming out of nowhere!

And as soon as the guy walked away, she came to me in a loving embrace. I wonder if the guy saw that. I wonder how he felt afterwards LOL

By: Kevin Hedstrom

Kevin Hedstrom — Sat, 26 Jun 2010 19:40:25 +0000

Definitely agree. Maybe just a smile or even a simple hello would be ok, but keep going. If she says hello back and slows down or hesitates, that’s the time to start taking it further. I’m really not a fan of the interruption tactic that a lot of people use. Great stuff.

By: Farley

Farley — Fri, 25 Jun 2010 17:05:18 +0000

I usually get stopped by people who tend to support a good cause, like cancer,etc. Sometimes I stop and listen, but most of the time I ignore them. When they are done talking they usually want me to fill in a form to support the cause. I say no and they get stuck on me like leeches. Very irritating.

However, if its a cute girl, I try and talk about other stuff. Just to have a fun, flirty conversation.

I never stop people, unless I need to ask for directions or what time it is.

By: Tony

Tony — Fri, 25 Jun 2010 15:26:42 +0000

I think that’s what pua’s look like when they try to pickup women hardcore in the street.

@Jacob- I will keep that in mind:)