Here is the thing about the Cube Method: in order to use a pick-up line that contrived, you have to be the Cube Man the entire time.
So you can sell her the Cube Method or the “pick a number between one and ten” method or the ring finger method – or whatever bullshit it is – but the problem arises when you exchange phone numbers with her and have to take the next step.
From then on, she’s expecting Ring Finger Man and Cube Man to take her on a date, and then you show up!
Sure, women are looking for a bad boy. So I tell every good guy out there that if they want to learn how to be the bad boy, they have to learn how to kiss, learn foreplay, learn how to touch her, and when you have sex with her, you satisfy her better than anybody else ever has or will.
Most of these bad boys are pump and dumpers. All they want is another notch in their bedpost, and to get off. They are no different then masturbating monkeys at the zoo.
So if you want to go and connect with a woman, when you kiss her, you create so much sexual tension that she feels it. You learn how to do dirty text and how to talk to her on the phone. You learn how to seduce her mind.
And then when you have sex with her, you know how to have sex with her and give her orgasms – both clitoral and G-spot orgasms!
She will talk about you and say, “my boyfriend is the nicest guy, and I can’t stop cumming!”
Most guys that I know that are supposed ‘players’ are the worst in bed. I talk sex with them and they have no clue. They are total minutemen. They don’t even know what foreplay is!
So it doesn’t take a ridiculous persona – you don’t have to act like anything that you aren’t. You have to know that you can sexually please any woman. If you know that, you are a hundred steps more evolved than any bad boy.
Just because you’re using Strawberry Fields and Rings on Fingers for same night lays doesn’t mean that the rest of the time you can’t be a normal dude who connects with her on a deep level. These games are very good for setting the sexual frames that are necessary for her to go home with you the night that she meets you. This is something that is very appealing to a lot of guys. I don’t see why connecting with her on a deep level and sleeping with her on the same night you meet her have to be mutually exclusive…
I don’t think they need to be mutually exclusive Hammer. I think the point here is to assume a persona that is consistent with you are.
I can get a same night lay one woman and also create a nice relationship with another being and acting the same way, sexually.
Using the cube, strawberry fields and rings on fingers are fun things to use anyway.
Dave you are soooo right! The best looking guys are always the worst in bed.. All women know this… They aren’t good because they never had to be… they get laid either way. That’s why they are perpetually single!!!
I have no idea what the cube-strawberry-ring whatever stuff is about, but if you can seduce a woman’s mind, and genuinely pleasure her by understanding all her parts and what they do, you will have one very satisfied woman ready to please you in return, again and again. Some of my most memorable guys were the ones that made love-making all about me, knew how to make it all happen, and then enjoyed being on the receiving end. There’s 5 star dining with 7 courses, and then there’s the drive-thru. Some things you just shouldn’t rush or you miss out on so much more, and we’re all looking for so much more it seems.
Sadly enough, I think I’ve trying doing the cube before.
Normally, I would just read the blog and comments, and absorb the wisdom therein. In this particular case, though, I gotta make a comment. I love the cube. Its fun. Its a little game. That can’t be all you are, that would be so two dimensional. I can’t say if the cube or whatever was the thing that sparks it all or not, but I do use it. I agree 200% with the rest of the blog though. Once you learn how the bodies of each of the individual women you are with work sexually… what is exciting to her mind, her imagination, and her senses, and strive to give her the best experience you are capable of… That is truly amazing, and, something to REALLY be confident about. Knowing you can and have done this can be a huge part of your self image, and consequently, causes you to be naturally more confident and attractive. I also agree with Deb, but in my own words… Why go to a buffet and have a little salad?
Maybe I’ve been married way too long:-) …but what is this cube and ring finger stuff??
I used to be a pump and dumper and I have reformed myself.
The best line of the blog is this:
>>>>>>>>>They are no different then masturbating monkeys at the zoo
Man, that is so harsh…Some of them (like me years ago in my college days) just did not know better!
very funny blog and so damn true….great sex will definetly keep a girl coming back for more.
I heard somebody in our workplace saying that in Canada, women are becoming more powerful than women because of our laws. I said that maybe because “The Queen” is the highest symbol of the land. Most laws favor women than men.
Another co-worker said to me that one time he watched some news about a man left his dog inside his car under the heat of the sun. One animal rights activist reported the incident to the ministry and immediately charge the man. The animal rights activist hit the man on the face and they even handcuffed the man for such incidents.
What my co worker was trying to explain is it seems to him that under the canadian law it is considered that women/mothers is the first most important, second the children, the third is the animal and men/ husband is the fourth one according to the degree of importance of life.
I am animal lover too. I am not against anything that protects life. In this kind of culture I think most men in Canada are very careful in approaching women because they are trying to avoid the anti- sexual harassment law. It’s different in the United States compare the lifestyle and attitude of people.
Oh, if you guys really knew…sometimes just paying attention, actually listening and responding, etc. gets you more points in the panty-peeler department than a whole lot of rehearsed moves and lines. When was the last time you actually paid attention to her breathing? Major indicator of whether or not you’re heading in the right direction. I think that Deb was being kind – sometimes it’s not even a drive-thru but just a drive-by…purely accidental.
David does a good job of pointing out the flaws of the community. However, I think some of these routines…even though everyone here hates that lingo, is actually fun stuff to do in the interaction. I like to think of routines similar to a joke you share with others…you learn it and use it if its fun. Now does it guarantee the girl will fall for you? No…but I don’t think anyone says it does. However, it does show you’re interesting and funny…just like a joke that you learned from someone else does.
I think David does a good job of emphasizing LISTENING. Not a lot of people teach this. They just teach you their methods, but there’s more too it. And the listening or comfort building portion of the interaction is fundamental to getting someone emotionally connected to you.
Seduce her mind. That is what David says and that is what I’ll do!
David thanks for helping. You’re one of the only guys out there that answers emails and keeps blogging. To tell you the truth, I know like many other guys this is how you make a living and you may care about the $ as much or even more than clients but you continue to make a meaningful impact on the lives of others and I want to say thank you for that. You deserve the money you charge because your products are helpful. I know there’s a lot of competition out there and that’s why you gotta go crazy with the website and all the words…I’ve seen it throughout the community…and I still wonder though…who actually reads all these words!?
Thanks again David. Also, how does one become an intern for you??
My goal has always been for me to walk out of the room afterwards and when I come back in… for her to look at me with the look that says:
“What the hell just happened? (and how can I get MORE)”
Yeah, yeah, sick mind game… but whatever.
Cary
If you want to intern for me email me.
david@davidwygant.com
always looking for a new intern.
David I’d love to hear how you (and your coaches) go smoothly from from talking to kissing. Could you write a blog about it?
Justin
would someone please explain what the cube and strawberry thing is?? i think the other girls on here would appreciate it too!
whoa.. typed that too fast.. please explain what they ARE…. thanks!
C – You should google them. They’re all routines for helping men to “pick up” women.
Here’s a comment/question:
I know how to satisfy a woman; so please tell me how I go from being seen as “the nice guy” to actually satisfying her?
K
Actually listening to women gets me stuck in the “friend zone”
Really? What were you talking about? Were you listening to her boyfriend tales of woe and commiserating with her? Change the subject! Were you really stuck in the friend zone or were you just getting to know each other without the stress of solo dating so you assumed that that’s where it would end? Some of us welcome the opportunity to get to know guys in a friendly, group setting before it gets more personal on a date without an entourage. Were you really interested in these women who supposedly stuck you in the friend zone or just testing the waters and discouraged because you thought that you struck out? Are you holding back and keeping them at a distance without realizing it? Just curious.
K
I’ve had females TELL ME that I’m in the “friend zone”. There’s no guessing about that.