Comments on: Are You Constantly At Their Beck And Call? http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-you-constantly-at-their-beck-and-call/4937/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Thu, 17 May 2012 06:51:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Anonymous http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-you-constantly-at-their-beck-and-call/4937/#comment-42487 Anonymous Wed, 25 Aug 2010 19:43:57 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=4937#comment-42487 I know the gurus make it sound like it's normal to go out alone....but in real life, I do notice that people (especially women) notice this. They're always pointing it out to me that some guy is out there alone. It leaves the question of if they have any friends, being out alone on a Saturday night. The social stigma is there for a reason. I know the gurus make it sound like it’s normal to go out alone….but in real life, I do notice that people (especially women) notice this. They’re always pointing it out to me that some guy is out there alone. It leaves the question of if they have any friends, being out alone on a Saturday night. The social stigma is there for a reason.

]]> By: Ken http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-you-constantly-at-their-beck-and-call/4937/#comment-42486 Ken Wed, 25 Aug 2010 17:09:05 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=4937#comment-42486 To AS, It takes a confident man to go out by himself and befriend strangers. I understand your point, but maybe try to see things in a positive light and not make him feel weird for not being out with friends. To AS,

It takes a confident man to go out by himself and befriend strangers. I understand your point, but maybe try to see things in a positive light and not make him feel weird for not being out with friends.

]]> By: AS http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-you-constantly-at-their-beck-and-call/4937/#comment-42484 AS Wed, 25 Aug 2010 13:47:21 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=4937#comment-42484 You make some valid points, but on the otherhand as a female, if I am out a bar for example and a guy approaches me and I ask who he is here with, I would find it kind of strange that he is out by himself. Immediately, I start to question how genuine he is and whether he is out by himself to try and get laid... You make some valid points, but on the otherhand as a female, if I am out a bar for example and a guy approaches me and I ask who he is here with, I would find it kind of strange that he is out by himself. Immediately, I start to question how genuine he is and whether he is out by himself to try and get laid…

]]> By: Bryce Johansen http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-you-constantly-at-their-beck-and-call/4937/#comment-42483 Bryce Johansen Wed, 25 Aug 2010 10:52:41 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=4937#comment-42483 Hello David It's funny you should say this because I learnt this once when I was going into town with a friend of mine...for a large part of the night I was glued to sticking with him and not socialising with the opposite sex or basically anyone else. But then something happened...after a while we both got lost while moving from night club to night club...we tried contracting each other but texting while under the drink isn't easy... and then all of a sudden I started talking to girls randomly and it was fun. Nowadays girls actually approach me (mainly in groups but..meh) in bars and clubs, I guess it's signals that I'm not a threat and open to meet in a normal and natural way. I'm no "Mac-daddy pimp" or whatever and I'm still a virgin but the fact that not having a friend around or hanging around them does make it a better opportunity to socalise with new people. Hello David

It’s funny you should say this because I learnt this once when I was going into town with a friend of mine…for a large part of the night I was glued to sticking with him and not socialising with the opposite sex or basically anyone else.

But then something happened…after a while we both got lost while moving from night club to night club…we tried contracting each other but texting while under the drink isn’t easy… and then all of a sudden

I started talking to girls randomly and it was fun. Nowadays girls actually approach me (mainly in groups but..meh) in bars and clubs, I guess it’s signals that I’m not a threat and open to meet in a normal and natural way.

I’m no “Mac-daddy pimp” or whatever and I’m still a virgin but the fact that not having a friend around or hanging around them does make it a better opportunity to socalise with new people.

]]> By: Bob http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-you-constantly-at-their-beck-and-call/4937/#comment-42480 Bob Wed, 25 Aug 2010 04:09:50 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=4937#comment-42480 Yes, and I hate it when I am visiting IN PERSON with someone, and they continually answer the blasted phone, right in the middle of our conversation, meal, event, or whatever we are doing. It is rude and offensive to me. Because, I took the time and effort to get in my truck, drive to see the person, take valuable time from my schedule, while they are placing more importance on someone (even a stranger calling) by answering the phone, and litterally putting me on "hold", while they complete their sometimes extended conversation. It is Rude, and unacceptable to me. I have indeed just left without saying a word when this happened to me. Yes, and I hate it when I am visiting IN PERSON with someone, and they continually answer the blasted phone, right in the middle of our conversation, meal, event, or whatever we are doing. It is rude and offensive to me. Because, I took the time and effort to get in my truck, drive to see the person, take valuable time from my schedule, while they are placing more importance on someone (even a stranger calling) by answering the phone, and litterally putting me on “hold”, while they complete their sometimes extended conversation. It is Rude, and unacceptable to me. I have indeed just left without saying a word when this happened to me.

]]> By: Farley http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-you-constantly-at-their-beck-and-call/4937/#comment-42475 Farley Tue, 24 Aug 2010 21:34:16 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=4937#comment-42475 This is awesome. Great reminder for me not to send out emails as soon as they come in, or text messages for that matter. All about being a little unavailable, a challenge. This is awesome. Great reminder for me not to send out emails as soon as they come in, or text messages for that matter. All about being a little unavailable, a challenge.

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