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	<description>Sex. Relationships. Dating. That&#039;s what I&#039;m talkin&#039; &#039;bout.</description>
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		<title>By: David Wygant</title>
		<link>http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-you-a-wpua/512/#comment-15188</link>
		<dc:creator>David Wygant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2008 20:15:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Eric

Great post!!

Very funny and I totally agree with your analogy guys who scam women fuck it up for others.

But women have a choice as well and some will buy into anything.

That&#039;s what&#039;s makes the world fun and if we were all the same the world would be boring!


Do you think the CIA would embrace the pua lingo:)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Eric</p>
<p>Great post!!</p>
<p>Very funny and I totally agree with your analogy guys who scam women fuck it up for others.</p>
<p>But women have a choice as well and some will buy into anything.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s what&#8217;s makes the world fun and if we were all the same the world would be boring!</p>
<p>Do you think the CIA would embrace the pua lingo:)</p>
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		<title>By: Eric</title>
		<link>http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-you-a-wpua/512/#comment-15187</link>
		<dc:creator>Eric</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2008 19:51:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Me a PUA?

Good god that is funny! You do like to keep things on the lite side don&#039;t you. 

I see nothing honorable in trying to seduce women by tricking, boring or guilting them in order to get into their pants.

PUA&#039;s only serve to fuck things up for the rest of us. PUA&#039;s remind me of the selfish immature guys that ruin women, you know, &quot;I promise baby I won&#039;t cum in your mouth&quot; and do it anyway.

Keep up the good work David.

P.S.

Let&#039;s keep the code speaking to programmers and professional spy&#039;s.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Me a PUA?</p>
<p>Good god that is funny! You do like to keep things on the lite side don&#8217;t you. </p>
<p>I see nothing honorable in trying to seduce women by tricking, boring or guilting them in order to get into their pants.</p>
<p>PUA&#8217;s only serve to fuck things up for the rest of us. PUA&#8217;s remind me of the selfish immature guys that ruin women, you know, &#8220;I promise baby I won&#8217;t cum in your mouth&#8221; and do it anyway.</p>
<p>Keep up the good work David.</p>
<p>P.S.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s keep the code speaking to programmers and professional spy&#8217;s.</p>
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		<title>By: David Wygant</title>
		<link>http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-you-a-wpua/512/#comment-15184</link>
		<dc:creator>David Wygant</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2008 18:20:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Eric

When opening a woman at a bar or club it is always a blast to use the text opener.

As you know bars and clubs are last on my list for meeting women and I feel the worst place to meet them!

Thus creating a fun game to play keeps things really lite and takes the pressure off.

As for PUA I don&#039;t dislike all that they teach.

It is grown men talking in childlike codes that turns me off.

I have seen 42 year old men use the term sargeing and call them self a PUA


The same guy has a 14 year old son that uses the same terms!

I don&#039;t find that bonding I find it really immature.

You don&#039;t need fancy lingo to meet women.

You don&#039;t need to use terms to make sense of all of this.
When I speak to a PUA I always ask him to speak English and not code.

Plus the PUA community is the minority most men speak in non PUA terms.

This blog was also meant to be funny and it was a what if scenario.

What if there really was WPUA?

Do you consider yourself a PUA?

If so do you like to speak code and what do you enjoy about it?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Eric</p>
<p>When opening a woman at a bar or club it is always a blast to use the text opener.</p>
<p>As you know bars and clubs are last on my list for meeting women and I feel the worst place to meet them!</p>
<p>Thus creating a fun game to play keeps things really lite and takes the pressure off.</p>
<p>As for PUA I don&#8217;t dislike all that they teach.</p>
<p>It is grown men talking in childlike codes that turns me off.</p>
<p>I have seen 42 year old men use the term sargeing and call them self a PUA</p>
<p>The same guy has a 14 year old son that uses the same terms!</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t find that bonding I find it really immature.</p>
<p>You don&#8217;t need fancy lingo to meet women.</p>
<p>You don&#8217;t need to use terms to make sense of all of this.<br />
When I speak to a PUA I always ask him to speak English and not code.</p>
<p>Plus the PUA community is the minority most men speak in non PUA terms.</p>
<p>This blog was also meant to be funny and it was a what if scenario.</p>
<p>What if there really was WPUA?</p>
<p>Do you consider yourself a PUA?</p>
<p>If so do you like to speak code and what do you enjoy about it?</p>
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		<title>By: Eric</title>
		<link>http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-you-a-wpua/512/#comment-15179</link>
		<dc:creator>Eric</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2008 13:56:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>David

I&#039;m a little confused here.

In your blog video you demonstrate a manufactured scenario, the text message, in order to open women.

My question is, how is this any different than any other canned routine opener that PUA&quot;s use?

Keeping in mind that I do understand that the next step beyond the opener differs from your approach to a PUA&#039;s.

Wouldn&#039;t a person&#039;s time and energy be better spent in developing more novel approaches to getting women interested in you than to have fun and keep things lite at the PUA&#039;s expense?

I appreciate all the hard work and the insights you&#039;ve given us guys, but, hacking on PUA&#039;s is wearing thin.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>David</p>
<p>I&#8217;m a little confused here.</p>
<p>In your blog video you demonstrate a manufactured scenario, the text message, in order to open women.</p>
<p>My question is, how is this any different than any other canned routine opener that PUA&#8221;s use?</p>
<p>Keeping in mind that I do understand that the next step beyond the opener differs from your approach to a PUA&#8217;s.</p>
<p>Wouldn&#8217;t a person&#8217;s time and energy be better spent in developing more novel approaches to getting women interested in you than to have fun and keep things lite at the PUA&#8217;s expense?</p>
<p>I appreciate all the hard work and the insights you&#8217;ve given us guys, but, hacking on PUA&#8217;s is wearing thin.</p>
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		<title>By: Officer Naughty</title>
		<link>http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-you-a-wpua/512/#comment-15130</link>
		<dc:creator>Officer Naughty</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2008 15:11:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Coby</title>
		<link>http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-you-a-wpua/512/#comment-15113</link>
		<dc:creator>Coby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2008 04:20:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Lance  - Also, why expect kissing at the end of a date if you haven’t touched her hands/arms/shoulders etc?? You have to go through a process.&quot;  Oh, see this is where I get into trouble. I&#039;m a super touchy person 90% of the time, and it&#039;s incredibly hard for me to turn it off, even when I don&#039;t like someone. It&#039;s gotten me in pretty awkward situations, let me tell you. A guy thinks I adore him, except that I won&#039;t make make eye contact with him. If he&#039;d had read my eyes- which I believe can tell you anything you want to know- he&#039;d have known. But yes, it&#039;s goofy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Lance  &#8211; Also, why expect kissing at the end of a date if you haven’t touched her hands/arms/shoulders etc?? You have to go through a process.&#8221;  Oh, see this is where I get into trouble. I&#8217;m a super touchy person 90% of the time, and it&#8217;s incredibly hard for me to turn it off, even when I don&#8217;t like someone. It&#8217;s gotten me in pretty awkward situations, let me tell you. A guy thinks I adore him, except that I won&#8217;t make make eye contact with him. If he&#8217;d had read my eyes- which I believe can tell you anything you want to know- he&#8217;d have known. But yes, it&#8217;s goofy.</p>
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		<title>By: Joan</title>
		<link>http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-you-a-wpua/512/#comment-15103</link>
		<dc:creator>Joan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 18:55:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LOL Well I think Wanda Sykes has some great things to say to us in this video ladies...LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!! I laughed too hard at this when it was shared with me, and it made me think of this blog...so here I would like to share the fun with all  ;) Thank you daddio for freedom to share...don&#039;t worry it is not THAT bad...just pretty funny.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R8FfFwtL91Q</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LOL Well I think Wanda Sykes has some great things to say to us in this video ladies&#8230;LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!! I laughed too hard at this when it was shared with me, and it made me think of this blog&#8230;so here I would like to share the fun with all  <img src='http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  Thank you daddio for freedom to share&#8230;don&#8217;t worry it is not THAT bad&#8230;just pretty funny.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R8FfFwtL91Q" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R8FfFwtL91Q</a></p>
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		<title>By: Joan</title>
		<link>http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-you-a-wpua/512/#comment-15086</link>
		<dc:creator>Joan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 02:06:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dan;
LOL haaaaaaaaaaaa you make me laugh  ;) You escalate my resting heart rate when I laugh so hard...lol  :P

David;
Details darling details! You need to make a video of THAT! lol I am sure the ratings would soar for both genders side.  ;)
Just a suggestion....eheeemmmm..lol ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dan;<br />
LOL haaaaaaaaaaaa you make me laugh  <img src='http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  You escalate my resting heart rate when I laugh so hard&#8230;lol  <img src='http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>David;<br />
Details darling details! You need to make a video of THAT! lol I am sure the ratings would soar for both genders side.  <img src='http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
Just a suggestion&#8230;.eheeemmmm..lol <img src='http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Dan</title>
		<link>http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-you-a-wpua/512/#comment-15084</link>
		<dc:creator>Dan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 01:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;Escalation my ass! The only thing that escalates is an escalator.

you crack me up you pua hater!:-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;Escalation my ass! The only thing that escalates is an escalator.</p>
<p>you crack me up you pua hater!:-)</p>
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		<title>By: Lance</title>
		<link>http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-you-a-wpua/512/#comment-15082</link>
		<dc:creator>Lance</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 May 2008 23:59:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey DW, haven&#039;t commented in awhile...my apologies! This post truck a chord though. I have to agree about the PU terminology, much of it is the pits, although I will freely admit I use it. For example, I think the terms AMOG and kino are very contrived.

Okay, the other issue I have is this. You talked a lot about escalating in this post. IMO escalation and kino (physical touching) is absolutely key to establishing a sexual relationship and not a platonic one, which is where the vast majority of male daters go wrong. People have the idea that touching is disrespectful, when in actuality it&#039;s comforting, sensual, and conveys interest. Also, why expect kissing at the end of a date if you haven&#039;t touched her hands/arms/shoulders etc?? You have to go through a process. 

The reason I&#039;m bringing this up is physical escalation can be uncomfortable and nervewracking for many men. It was for me before I got into PU. The good PU products out there break down escalation and turns it into a manageable process. 

Also, I&#039;m a big believer in routines, although we might have a slightly different definition of routine. I think any story from your life you tell multiple times is a routine, because, well, it&#039;s routine. I tell stories all the time and I play games too. Routines? Maybe, but it&#039;s how I have fun.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey DW, haven&#8217;t commented in awhile&#8230;my apologies! This post truck a chord though. I have to agree about the PU terminology, much of it is the pits, although I will freely admit I use it. For example, I think the terms AMOG and kino are very contrived.</p>
<p>Okay, the other issue I have is this. You talked a lot about escalating in this post. IMO escalation and kino (physical touching) is absolutely key to establishing a sexual relationship and not a platonic one, which is where the vast majority of male daters go wrong. People have the idea that touching is disrespectful, when in actuality it&#8217;s comforting, sensual, and conveys interest. Also, why expect kissing at the end of a date if you haven&#8217;t touched her hands/arms/shoulders etc?? You have to go through a process. </p>
<p>The reason I&#8217;m bringing this up is physical escalation can be uncomfortable and nervewracking for many men. It was for me before I got into PU. The good PU products out there break down escalation and turns it into a manageable process. </p>
<p>Also, I&#8217;m a big believer in routines, although we might have a slightly different definition of routine. I think any story from your life you tell multiple times is a routine, because, well, it&#8217;s routine. I tell stories all the time and I play games too. Routines? Maybe, but it&#8217;s how I have fun.</p>
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