WPUAS By David Wygant
Happy memorial day to everyone.
Today we are going to lose all routines forever, check out the video below. But first do women talk in a secret code like men?
So many men have been tortured by pick-up artist material – they see a woman and they have to go in and think about 17 different things – instead of just realizing that all you need to do is observe what a woman is doing. What is she doing? Where are you? What is she doing – is she eating? Do you want a bite of her food?
Are you in a museum and is she looking at a picture? You want to elicit an emotion – go up to her and ask, “what do you think about that guy with the sheep hair?” if the guy in the painting has one of those old wigs from the 1700s.
If you listen to some of the crap that’s all over the internet – The Phantom and all the other dating methods that are out there – you have to think about escalating. How do you escalate – how do you sexually escalate?
Let me tell you something – do you think a group of women ever sit around and say:
“Hey Jill?”
“Yes, Mary?”
“How do we escalate our conversations with men? Can we escalate?”
Do you think women actually use these terms? In the pick-up industry there is something called ‘puas’ – pick-up artists. Are there ‘wpuas’ – women pick-up artists? No – they don’t sit there and use this terminology. I can’t even imagine women sitting around and talking about escalation.
Women would never say this: “how do we get them to escalate? What do I say to him in the first minute to get him to escalate this so that they like me? How do I create an emotional response in him in the first minute?”
How do you create an emotional response in a woman? You fucking listen! Women want you to listen. That’s all they want you to do – they want you to listen to them. They don’t want anything else.
I’ve said this a thousand times – walk up to a woman and do three things. Walk up and observe: what is she doing? Where is she? Is there something you can comment on? Is there something with which you can bond with her?
After you make the comment on something you’ve observed, you listen. If you listen to her, and you go in there with energy, and you smile and you’re having a good time – you go in and say it like you own those words – she’ll get turned on. You own those words, instead of going over there and saying, “excuse me…” like a little wimp. That ‘excuse me’ terminology doesn’t work.
Escalation my ass! The only thing that escalates is an escalator. You don’t need to escalate – all you need to do is listen, smile, be excited about her, and you will turn her on.
Otherwise, they would have something called wpuas – women pick-up artists. There should be a website – wpua.com. I’d love to see women hang out on the internet with funny nicknames. Can you imagine a woman dating expert, how much fun she would be?
She would be called ‘The Manstigator’ – manstigatormethod.com. Can you imagine if women sat around and said:
“oh my god, you study the Manstigator method? That’s unbelievable! But the Manstigator method doesn’t talk about escalation the right way – I heard that the Manny method…”
“The Mannie method? M-a-n-n-i-e?”
“No, no, no – I know M-a-n-n-y, the other one.”
“Oh – there are two Mannies? Wow…”
Can you imagine if women had nicknames and dating experts, how funny that would be? “The Manny Method: the Manny Method teaches you a four-prong method to get a man to be excited about you in four ways.” Think about how funny that would be!
Can you imagine that instead of Keno, there was a woman’s version of Keno? Keno is the thing in Vegas, the card game that they play. “Keno? Keno? Keno?”
Come on guys, stop trying to nickname everything and grow up. Start becoming men, and learn that you escalate a woman the second that you walk over and say hello. It’s a Hugh Grant romantic comedy right from the get-go. From the second you walk over to her, you basically create a moment in her mind.
This is why you talk about what she’s already doing and it will be this serendipitous, incredible moment, and she’ll start thinking, oh my god, he understands me! If you’re interested in her, and you’re excited about her, guess what you’ve done? You’ve escalated.
And here we are: we did this blog in the London Portrait Gallery! We’re in the Portrait Gallery where I just proved to two guys from London who said you can’t meet somebody in a museum – and how many women have we met in here guys?
Client: Two. No, three if you count the French woman. And the woman that was into the portraits!
David: Yeah, let’s go meet some more portraits in here!
And it’s really quiet in here too; you didn’t think we’d be able to record a blog in a museum, did you? Remember what you said to me? You said, “man, you can’t talk to people in the Portrait Gallery?” Not only have we talked to people, but we also recorded a blog in the Portrait Gallery! There’s so much you can do in this Gallery.
So let’s go back to hitting on REAL portraits. That’s another great one – ‘hitting on’ women. What are you going to do, slug her in the face? “Oh man, I just hit on somebody,” “really? Let me see your knuckles – oh man, they’re all bloody! You really did hit on her!”
Todays video will show you how to become that natural confident man that women desire.
Lose the routines forever.
dave,
i remember that day clearly!
i’ve lost the routines long time now and i make fun of PUAs now… with the girls i meet. that’s an xcellent convo topic when i talk to them and they enjoy it!!
chris
Hey chris
That day was a blast in the musuem hanging out and coaching you!!
We also had a blast in soho as well!!
I met a friend for life in London that day!
Hi, I use the Phantom Method
Suddenly I appear and talk to you!
Wow! I can disappear too! *POOF*
David, we are all POOAHs in our own ways
Have a great day!
David,
WPUA…haha ..wait i should trademark that term and start selling ebooks for women!
I totally agree..you can talk to women everywhere!
Haha See, if you punch me, I return the favor. And don’t think I’ll hold back or that I’m a wimp. You’ll see. Or rather, you won’t see.
Related to the blog and what Vince said, be careful creeping up on a woman. Some of us have a slightly violent reflex for sneak-attack tries at conversation. But note that hovering for six hours before you approach makes me want to kick you in the shins.
dont ruin the blog.this is my new favorite blog david.David do you like art?abstract paintings?
David;
The best thing that you teach men is the whole concept of listening. Women…well this woman I will speak for…listen. My memory doesn’t serve me well on a lot of things, but if a man has said something of impact to me…good or bad…it is stored in the memory bank. I empty the bad, if any so as not to drown the good. I think the worst is behind me as far as letting negative words even be stored really….I would like to hope so anyway.
Listening….best thing you can do guys. You might even LIKE what you hear
I have to comment on the “their” and the “there,” David, because I am a grammatical fiend when I see something spelled wrong…especially by me! lol
“Their”…….I believe shows possession (possesive pronoun?)
“They’re”…..contraction of “they are”
“There”…….refers to, say a place, maybe a locale
“There’s”….contraction of “there is”
Ehhhhhh mmmmm don’t quote me on any of that, but I think that is correct Alex! lol
I was plagued by the word(s) for tooooooo many years of my life!
Hey…”to” “too” and “two” used to tick me off and I had a lot of trouble putting to and too two gether…LOL
Joan,
Concur mostly, but with this caveat–don’t listen too much.
For example, the man doesn’t want to be listening to her boyfriend problems. She will quickly think of him as just another of her girlfrinds, and the fact that he has a penis quickly becomes irrelevant. Guys–you must quickly steer the conversation away from this topic so as to avoid becoming her therapist, unless you are getting paid your normal hourly rate (mine is $250 per hour).
You instead want to respond appropriately, with energy and passion. If you fid you can’t get a word in edgewise, interject. If you still can’t, eject and move on, because you can’t imagine what it will be like 10 years from now if you spent the intervening time with someone who just can’t shut up.
As for the vagaries of English, well, women are easier to figure out than English.
vince
that phantom always knows:)
Dunga;
Yeppers…as a friend of mine would say
A woman or a man talking about their X crap is not very appealing. I think if they ask you a question…answer it and hit the ANYWAY…My focus is on you right now. I have done this a lot of times. I find the X becoming more Xed out of me everyday…LOVE IT!!!
Lol…yes Dunga…women aren’t really that hard to figure out. Speaking for myself…if a man is honest, open and up front with me…yanno…none of this vague crap/foggy shit?
Honesty…..works like a charm guys
Communication……” ” ” ” “
David,
I love your stuff but I really don’t understand why you are so bitter about the pick-up community terminology. Having words to describe things just makes it easier to discuss. Every science has its own set of terminology. Why should social dynamics be any different?
Geoffrey
Geoffrey
Its about having a sense of humor.
I like to poke fun at things and keep things lite.
Read deeper……..this was a fun little blog.
Bitter…why would i be bitter about anything.
I have seen it all. I used to be a pickup artist in my 20s and learned the art of connecting deeper with women.
I do think some of the terms and so called science is a waste of time…….way too much thinking about things and not reacting to what is really going on.
Are you PUA?
If so do you like being a pick up artist?
And what is your favorite part of the all the terminology?
Geoffrey
One last question….as you know me from reading all my stuff.
I do think a lot of the so called PUA language is way too much and in my years of doing it have found that it tends to complicate things more than help a lot of men.
This is why i am really curious about how its worked for you.
Did you find me first or did you learn the pickup world first.
I also think it does give some guys a good foundation on things….but eventually you need to really work on deeper real confidence.
DRC
Just kidding about the code terminology:)
I am also friend with a lot of the PUA gurus and will make fun of the terms right to their face……..its all in good fun.
I’m for sure a WPUA. I pick up women all the time! In fact just the other night me and this hot guy (we all know who) were in his hot tub with a smoking hot girlfriend of mine. One thing lead to another and the next thing you know the three of us were in his bed having an extremely erotic time. I love being a WPUA!!!
Daviiiiddd;
Mmmmm don’t ya wish you coulda been there with Naughty? Then it could have been a fantastic foursome!
Yes darling…I know the man in the middle of the bed was you…lol!
I have to pick on you every once in awhile just to see if you are “listening?”
hey joan
i am always listening and it was a really fun sensual erotic night.
Hey DW, haven’t commented in awhile…my apologies! This post truck a chord though. I have to agree about the PU terminology, much of it is the pits, although I will freely admit I use it. For example, I think the terms AMOG and kino are very contrived.
Okay, the other issue I have is this. You talked a lot about escalating in this post. IMO escalation and kino (physical touching) is absolutely key to establishing a sexual relationship and not a platonic one, which is where the vast majority of male daters go wrong. People have the idea that touching is disrespectful, when in actuality it’s comforting, sensual, and conveys interest. Also, why expect kissing at the end of a date if you haven’t touched her hands/arms/shoulders etc?? You have to go through a process.
The reason I’m bringing this up is physical escalation can be uncomfortable and nervewracking for many men. It was for me before I got into PU. The good PU products out there break down escalation and turns it into a manageable process.
Also, I’m a big believer in routines, although we might have a slightly different definition of routine. I think any story from your life you tell multiple times is a routine, because, well, it’s routine. I tell stories all the time and I play games too. Routines? Maybe, but it’s how I have fun.
>>>>>>>Escalation my ass! The only thing that escalates is an escalator.
you crack me up you pua hater!:-)
Dan;
You escalate my resting heart rate when I laugh so hard…lol 
LOL haaaaaaaaaaaa you make me laugh
David;
Details darling details! You need to make a video of THAT! lol I am sure the ratings would soar for both genders side.
Just a suggestion….eheeemmmm..lol
LOL Well I think Wanda Sykes has some great things to say to us in this video ladies…LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!! I laughed too hard at this when it was shared with me, and it made me think of this blog…so here I would like to share the fun with all
Thank you daddio for freedom to share…don’t worry it is not THAT bad…just pretty funny.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R8FfFwtL91Q
@Lance – Also, why expect kissing at the end of a date if you haven’t touched her hands/arms/shoulders etc?? You have to go through a process.” Oh, see this is where I get into trouble. I’m a super touchy person 90% of the time, and it’s incredibly hard for me to turn it off, even when I don’t like someone. It’s gotten me in pretty awkward situations, let me tell you. A guy thinks I adore him, except that I won’t make make eye contact with him. If he’d had read my eyes- which I believe can tell you anything you want to know- he’d have known. But yes, it’s goofy.
David
I’m a little confused here.
In your blog video you demonstrate a manufactured scenario, the text message, in order to open women.
My question is, how is this any different than any other canned routine opener that PUA”s use?
Keeping in mind that I do understand that the next step beyond the opener differs from your approach to a PUA’s.
Wouldn’t a person’s time and energy be better spent in developing more novel approaches to getting women interested in you than to have fun and keep things lite at the PUA’s expense?
I appreciate all the hard work and the insights you’ve given us guys, but, hacking on PUA’s is wearing thin.
Eric
When opening a woman at a bar or club it is always a blast to use the text opener.
As you know bars and clubs are last on my list for meeting women and I feel the worst place to meet them!
Thus creating a fun game to play keeps things really lite and takes the pressure off.
As for PUA I don’t dislike all that they teach.
It is grown men talking in childlike codes that turns me off.
I have seen 42 year old men use the term sargeing and call them self a PUA
The same guy has a 14 year old son that uses the same terms!
I don’t find that bonding I find it really immature.
You don’t need fancy lingo to meet women.
You don’t need to use terms to make sense of all of this.
When I speak to a PUA I always ask him to speak English and not code.
Plus the PUA community is the minority most men speak in non PUA terms.
This blog was also meant to be funny and it was a what if scenario.
What if there really was WPUA?
Do you consider yourself a PUA?
If so do you like to speak code and what do you enjoy about it?
Me a PUA?
Good god that is funny! You do like to keep things on the lite side don’t you.
I see nothing honorable in trying to seduce women by tricking, boring or guilting them in order to get into their pants.
PUA’s only serve to fuck things up for the rest of us. PUA’s remind me of the selfish immature guys that ruin women, you know, “I promise baby I won’t cum in your mouth” and do it anyway.
Keep up the good work David.
P.S.
Let’s keep the code speaking to programmers and professional spy’s.
Eric
Great post!!
Very funny and I totally agree with your analogy guys who scam women fuck it up for others.
But women have a choice as well and some will buy into anything.
That’s what’s makes the world fun and if we were all the same the world would be boring!
Do you think the CIA would embrace the pua lingo:)