Comments on: Are You A Relationship Gypsy?

By: Wes

Wes — Wed, 27 Oct 2010 15:44:24 +0000

Once I heard there are such kind of people but didn’t believe until I met one of them.

Actually she is pretty normal person, its just that she dates non stop different guys and typically is in love with each of them (but not at once).

I though this is a pattern suiting young teenagers, however it seems – not always. I wonder if those people are aware of their situation…

By: Khiem/Ken (DW Coach)

Khiem/Ken (DW Coach) — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 03:51:45 +0000

I think after every relationship, it’s important to take time for yourself to really redefine what you want.

Relationships are really your opportunity to choose whatever kind of person you want to be when in that relationship with the other person. It’s so great!

By: Mike-Ro

Mike-Ro — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 19:24:36 +0000

I can say I am one but…at 18 I thinks it’s ok to experiment as much as you can BUT I noticed that I can’t manage to pull of anything recently. I got 4 phone numbers and all of them canceled out or didn’t respond. Why do people give out they’re phone numbers if they don’t want to get to know each other?

I know you can get a lot of phone numbers with pick-up crap but I actually did it David style .Still don’t get it. Anyway I’m gonna write this down .It was a real wakeup call.

Recently I keep a journal but I note everything I learn that day or the things that I remember Took a lot of time but that post with the window shoping really did the trick.

By: Will

Will — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 16:15:28 +0000

I think taking a set amount of time off between relationships/dating before getting into anything again is healthy as it gives us time to reflect on where and why things went wrong.

No dating, no relationships, just time for yourself and getting used to being single again. Any baggage effect would be nullified as you’re more aware and grounded in who you are before getting into anything again.

By: charly2009

charly2009 — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 15:10:51 +0000

There’s this girl i started dating almost like 2 years ago, but we never got to be into a relationship because I didn’t feel 100% confortable. We decided to be friends, well this took some time and talking from both parts, and since we are in our 30s, it was done.
But, from time to time, we kind of date, you know, we go out, there’s some makeout, and some sex at the end.. is this considered a gypsy relationship?
There’s some attraction for sure, but at least from my part, I dont feel like having a serious relationship with this woman.

By: Lydia

Lydia — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 01:01:51 +0000

I am a realtionship junkie wanna be- but in reality I am a freedom junkie. I choose only men who are incapable of having a realtionship- saving me from ever having to deal with a third date let alone a relationship! Seems like the benefit is that I am not carrying consistant baggage- or oh wait- maybe I am….See in or out constant or inconsistant we bring it on.

By: James Y

James Y — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 23:16:33 +0000

Dave,

I feel ya on that one. It’s sometimes like, if your not in a relationship, there’s something wrong. Like you arent worth being in a relationship with.

Similar to not having a job. It’s easier to find one, if you already have one.

So why don’t people just think for a second, and say “hmmm… why not give this person a shot?”

David, TK, or anyone else have a thought on that?

By: Dave

Dave — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 23:05:13 +0000

This is a very interesting blog, David. It seems that our society tells us that unless we are in a relationship, something is wrong with us; we are outcasts. I have nothing against being in relationships; in fact, they can be a great thing; however, sometimes I wonder if we are in a relationship is our life our own. I suppose freedom is scary for those not accustomed to it.

By: UWAOMA CHUKWUDI

UWAOMA CHUKWUDI — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 22:56:58 +0000

I am more than a relationship GYPSIES and I want to break that.If you can recall David, I sent you an email that related to that. Looking forward…..Cheers