Comments on: Are You A Mental Masturbator?

By: Stephany Rochholz

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By: Charlie Belt

Charlie Belt — Tue, 25 Jan 2011 17:15:14 +0000

I do agree with all of the ideas you have presented in your post. They’re very convincing and will certainly work. Still, the posts are too short for newbies. Could you please extend them a bit from next time? Thanks for the post.

By: jk

jk — Thu, 24 Sep 2009 00:55:12 +0000

That blog totally describes me

By: rob

rob — Mon, 21 Sep 2009 22:23:52 +0000

yo mike that is to true man and i can relate to that cause im in high school as well

By: Mike

Mike — Mon, 21 Sep 2009 14:28:38 +0000

I’m curious. Beeing in highschool it’s hard to meet actuale people and by that I mean ‘doers’. Most people my age are, how you say, full of ego and all happy and cheerfull on the outside,and miserable on the inside. The bottom line is that most of them don’t actual try new things, they talk about it but never do it:ohh that’s too hard,what who x,y,z say then? and other excuses like that.My friends circle care too much about what other people think about them and don’t to things that maybe they would love.

And another special in a way question.
So you’re in a group:dance studio(my case)and I teach new people to dance and every 2 months comes a diferent set of people. What happenes when you have a fight with the guys that were there before ,cocky ones? By going to that dance class I really meet all kinds of people.BUT what happens when guys who want to get back at me start telling the ones I teach bad things about me? I’m not a bad person, I don’t do mean stuff but some people like me some hate my character.

Do you understand what I mean?Should I defend myself or don’t give a damn?

By: Justyna

Justyna — Sat, 19 Sep 2009 02:28:37 +0000

Great topic. Learned lots. I like all the changes you made to your webpage/website.

By: clayhalo

clayhalo — Fri, 18 Sep 2009 15:34:10 +0000

I couldn’t agree with you more, David. Just as some men read only the title of your entry, “We’re Pregnant” and proceeded two congratulate you, these same men will only skim the surface of a woman and make assumptions, instead of being curious and getting to know her.

In fairness to men, this is difficult, because it is not their biological mindset. Men’s brains are wired differently. Their instincts are to be focused and make quick decisions on relatively little information. As nurturers and caretakers, women naturally seek connection. But, your work proves that we have the capacity to be more than our biology.

As Kim points out, if a man knows and addresses a woman’s proclivity for connection and communication, he will build sexual trust, and this will allow a woman to relax into her body so that sex is a mind-blowing experience for her AND her partner. There’s a southern saying that goes, “If Mama’s happy, everybody’s happy.” This may sound selfish. Many men will think, “Why can’t Papa be happy?” And I’m not saying a woman isn’t responsible for her own happiness or shouldn’t meet a man halfway. But the fact is, if your woman is happy and feels connected to you, ain’t nothin she won’t do for you in or out of the bedroom. uhh…sorry..getting into character a little too much.

By: Charles

Charles — Fri, 18 Sep 2009 03:46:58 +0000

Hey David. Like Diego says you hit it on the nail everytime. I was a talker so this brings back memories. As far as the people that surround me, it seems to be in a transition phase. It feels like I have inspired my close friends to stop talking about what they want and ‘wait for the right time’ and to just make it happen! Great video, ‘Kim tells all part 2′. Hello coach Kimberly. Thx David.

By: David Wygant

David Wygant — Fri, 18 Sep 2009 01:11:02 +0000

Diego

Thanks!!!!

I just read your post and really enjoyed your honesty.

By: Diego R+R

Diego R+R — Thu, 17 Sep 2009 22:46:02 +0000

David! How is it that you always nail it??

I have been surrounding myself with a bunch of mental masturbators. The only thing I want to do with my life is have a band and get gigs. I’m good for it -I got chops! For four years, I have been dealing with a guy that just doesn’t take it so seriously. I have seen people that started out at the same time, and I have been a spectator to their accomplishments, all result of commitment and hard work (that’s 90 percent of talent).

I declare myself guilty of prolonged mental masturbation in the first degree… Hell, I should have the hairiest hands in town! I keep dreaming of getting signed by a record label, playing major gigs, etc, but days go by and I don’t find the support and validation I need. A band is like any old regular table: it can only stand when all four legs share the load…

Anyway, yesterday I got my ears around the latest record by my favorite band. The first song killed me! Here’s a bit of the lyrics (translated from español)

“What will take me to the end
It’s my steps, not the way
Don’t you see you’re always behind
When you’re chasing fate?”

“I won’t feel bad again
If things don’t go my way
I’ve learned to careen
And slam right into the wall
Life drifts away from us
Like the smoke of that train
Like a kiss under the portal
Before I count to ten”

“I won’t feel like a stranger again
Even though I may not know myself
And I won’t love you so much
And I won’t stop loving you again”

These words kicked something open in me. It’s all I can say.
The point is, I am a doer, and I should start attracting some other doers, too. Thanks for this blog!