Are You A Commodities Broker With Women?
August 11, 2009 
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Today is going to be a blog about the male “commodities brokers” in the dating world.
What’s up with all these men who keep getting busted because they can’t keep their dick away from the yum-yum? It’s amazing.
Look at all the high-powered men from Eliot Spitzer to Bill Clinton, and even back as far as Ted Kennedy and Chappaquiddick. Really, what’s up with men and their endless pursuit of the blow job or the new indecent woman?
The downfall of a man is always when their hand gets caught in the yum-yum cookie jar. Just look at Eliot Spitzer. He went from being New York’s Governor to being a scumbag who will always be remembered as the guy who was a customer in a busted prostitution ring.
I mean, men need to understand something: You are special and there are PLENTY of women to meet. With the right amount of confidence, you can go out and get any woman you want . . . and you can find some really cool ones too.
The problem with a lot of these high-powered men is that they’re addicted to the rush. They’re addicted to business. They’re addicted to lifestyle. They’re addicted to money. Women are just another commodity to them, so they use women and don’t respect women.
So a lot of these guys have a lover whom they use. It’s no different from anyone else on their payroll. What these men do is use women for their own sexual favors.
The problem in this scenario is often times the women are using them too. This is where it starts to get ugly, because there’s nothing worse than having a worthless whore. So all these men who go out there in the pursuit of having their dick sucked basically have their careers thrown away as well.
Throughout history, the downfall of some very powerful men has been their choice in women. They had a wife and kids, got bored, sought a lover . . . and found someone who actually could play the “commodities” game smarter than they could.
Living in Los Angeles has allowed me to see all sorts of women. Look at the recent TV shows, “The Millionaire Matchmaker.” Good show . . . and a lot of fun to watch.
If you saw and remember the last episode, the guys were feasting over the women who were just hot instead of picking the really amazing women. Look at the women these guys chose. One of them was, according to tmz.com, an ex nude model, and the other one was actually an escort that you can get for $300 an hour. The rest of the women in the room were intelligent and interesting, but maybe not as hot as these other two.
No matter what, men will always go for eye candy. Similarly, these powerful men (male “commodities brokers”) think that because they’ve made money, that they have a right to and deserve the hottest piece of ass . . . exactly like they think they have a right to and deserve the hottest car, best plasma TV and the coolest phone. It’s no different to them.
David,
Very good discussion to get started. Do you think that guys will always go for the eye candy because its in our biology to want the hottest women, or do you think its society telling us those ones are the ‘best?’
I think that the saying that power corrupts is generally true (not always ofcourse). When people get money and power, ego generally takes over and reality falls by the wayside hence women being just commodities.
I think if your rich (or not for that matter) you have the right and freedom to do whatever you want. But if you have a wife and kids and you are hooking up on the side then your being selfish and stupid because of everything youre risking. like you said, a lot of these guys ruin their careers over getting a BJ ..not worth it
good topic!
Really great post, David! =)
Hi David,
Men like this annoy me! they have everything a guy could ever want and they throw it all away. I have allways thought to myself that to not have money and power is sometimes a blessing in disguise. But there has allways been the feeling that because i don’t have these things that i am unable to attract the attractive women. However thanks to your fantastic blogs and vids you have opened up a world to me i once could only of dreamed of. I realise now that not all women are gold diggers and many attractive women are actually out there waiting for guys like us to engage them. My life is changing fast and women are actually starting to notice me and its all thanks to you mate . DON’T BE FOOLED money and power does not make you happy just comfortable.
Great observation.
Men are not the only ones to blame though. Some women too are sometimes prepared to be treated like commodities – it’s what they’ll give up to be seen with a man with money. They too enjoy climbing up the greasy pole.
It’s one thing to have a well-balanced preference for a man who can provide, quite another to be a gold-digger.
I always love to read your articles because it is well written and gives good thoughts about anything that relates to dating. Keep good post coming!
You are so right on about this. I worked for a commodity/futures brokerage (FCM) for years! You would not believe the stupidity of these guys, barely out of highschool with little more than a high school diploma. Seriously, one guy out of 30 had a degree, and it was in computer sciences (unrelated to online trading). They knew nothing about futures, and even less about women! I’m not sure any of them will ever know what it’s like to have a good woman who truly loves them for themselves, and not their money.
Have just found out that what I thought was an amazing romance was indeed an affair. A man with a wife and kids. I had to tell him that I couldn’t be someone’s mistress. He mentions he is filling for a divorce. This is hard for me to believe. His wife is gorgeous! And, how can I believe him when he lied to me from the very beginning? I now have to see to believe… it sucks. By the way, this guy isn’t rich, just average, but hot, so that’s what probably gives him the “right” to do what he does. I wasn’t his first affair, I pray that I was his last. He has some soul searching to do… men with daughters, what is WRONG WITH YOU? =(
Tired of men…