Comments on: Are Dating And Relationships Just A Pain? http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-dating-and-relationships-just-a-pain/3891/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Thu, 17 May 2012 06:51:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Cathy J http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-dating-and-relationships-just-a-pain/3891/#comment-39365 Cathy J Thu, 25 Mar 2010 11:08:49 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3891#comment-39365 I do like your mum's advice! What is strange for a woman is when the man, even in a committed relationship, does not share his heartache. eg With my ex, it was only through my ex's closest confidante that I found out how much he hurt over me. I often think if he had shared those feelings, that things would have been different. Guys, let your softer side show. It is a genuine need to have male friends to discuss and process the relationship with of course (men discussing with men). Thank God for that. But men, open up to the woman you love, guaranteed she won't think you're a loser. Sometimes I do think the hurt is just an excuse to run away... could it be that one of you is just petrified of rejection? Of course love hurts, it can also heal, trust, and give hope. I do like your mum’s advice!

What is strange for a woman is when the man, even in a committed relationship, does not share his heartache. eg With my ex, it was only through my ex’s closest confidante that I found out how much he hurt over me. I often think if he had shared those feelings, that things would have been different.

Guys, let your softer side show. It is a genuine need to have male friends to discuss and process the relationship with of course (men discussing with men). Thank God for that. But men, open up to the woman you love, guaranteed she won’t think you’re a loser.

Sometimes I do think the hurt is just an excuse to run away… could it be that one of you is just petrified of rejection?

Of course love hurts, it can also heal, trust, and give hope.

]]> By: Khiem/Ken (DW Coach) http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-dating-and-relationships-just-a-pain/3891/#comment-39326 Khiem/Ken (DW Coach) Wed, 24 Mar 2010 22:31:20 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3891#comment-39326 Wygant Fan, If it doesn't matter either way, do you really want us to answer your question? The first step is be honest with yourself. I think it DOES matter to you... so what do you want? Wygant Fan,

If it doesn’t matter either way, do you really want us to answer your question? The first step is be honest with yourself.

I think it DOES matter to you… so what do you want?

]]> By: wygant fan http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-dating-and-relationships-just-a-pain/3891/#comment-39323 wygant fan Wed, 24 Mar 2010 22:25:43 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3891#comment-39323 I am really good friends with this girl, but I don't think I am anything more than that. Should I just walk away? Or just hang around? It doesn't matter to me either way... I am really good friends with this girl, but I don’t think I am anything more than that. Should I just walk away? Or just hang around? It doesn’t matter to me either way…

]]> By: Vic http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-dating-and-relationships-just-a-pain/3891/#comment-39315 Vic Wed, 24 Mar 2010 09:40:40 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3891#comment-39315 Thanks Coach Kim, No I didn't have a recent breakup but a few that I could remember like yesterday though. But yeah, you're right - going through something like that is a right of passage in the human condition. Hopefully we can all feel better knowing that ultimately we are not alone when we go through this. I guess there is a bit of solace in that. Thanks Coach Kim,
No I didn’t have a recent breakup but a few that I could remember like yesterday though. But yeah, you’re right – going through something like that is a right of passage in the human condition. Hopefully we can all feel better knowing that ultimately we are not alone when we go through this. I guess there is a bit of solace in that.

]]> By: Coach Kimberly http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-dating-and-relationships-just-a-pain/3891/#comment-39314 Coach Kimberly Wed, 24 Mar 2010 06:41:14 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3891#comment-39314 Vic--what a great insight! I totally get what you are saying. Because when you are in pain about someone, that means you still feel for them and are connected. After the pain subsides, you start losing that connection you once had so it makes sense. Have you had a recent breakup? it's a rights of passage... Vic–what a great insight! I totally get what you are saying. Because when you are in pain about someone, that means you still feel for them and are connected. After the pain subsides, you start losing that connection you once had so it makes sense. Have you had a recent breakup?

it’s a rights of passage…

]]> By: yours howe http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-dating-and-relationships-just-a-pain/3891/#comment-39312 yours howe Wed, 24 Mar 2010 06:17:49 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3891#comment-39312 Clint-you don't remember much about your childhood or what? were you drugged:)? Clint-you don’t remember much about your childhood or what? were you drugged:)?

]]> By: yours howe http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-dating-and-relationships-just-a-pain/3891/#comment-39311 yours howe Wed, 24 Mar 2010 06:17:19 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3891#comment-39311 I remember the very first time my girlfriend broke up with me, i felt like the world without love is an empty place. I remember the very first time my girlfriend broke up with me, i felt like the world without love is an empty place.

]]> By: Clint http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-dating-and-relationships-just-a-pain/3891/#comment-39310 Clint Wed, 24 Mar 2010 06:15:40 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3891#comment-39310 I am amazed how you remember all the little details of your childhood. I am amazed how you remember all the little details of your childhood.

]]> By: Tantra http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-dating-and-relationships-just-a-pain/3891/#comment-39309 Tantra Wed, 24 Mar 2010 06:14:58 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3891#comment-39309 I also think its very important to keep our heart open no matter what, eventually all the pain will be gone. I also think its very important to keep our heart open no matter what, eventually all the pain will be gone.

]]> By: Rick http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/are-dating-and-relationships-just-a-pain/3891/#comment-39308 Rick Wed, 24 Mar 2010 06:13:49 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=3891#comment-39308 very well said David. very well said David.

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