Are You Dating A Cereal Killer?
August 24, 2011 
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I love reading the comments on my blog. I have to confess yesterdays blog was one of the best in terms of conversation.
When I was at the Dentist today, and by the way nothing more fun than a deep cleaning.
Love being poked and prodded under the influence of novacaine.
So when I left the Dentist today I had this big fat lip and I kinda looked like a crazed Serial killer, not knowing that yesterdays blog was heading in that direction.
So while we are on the topic of Serial killers, I though I would share some of my favorites.
And by the way.
A Real Cereal Killer
Tom, I do not think you are a serial killer. Maybe a cereal killer and your anger really is directed at Tony The Tiger and the Froot Loops guy Toucan Sam.
Or you may have some serious anger with Capn Crunch and I know you never got past the idea of crunch berries.
See its all about humor, having fun and letting go of all anger.
Back in the 70s there was an actual Serial Killer who appeared on the dating before he got caught for his murdering ways.
Oh Dexter,
If there’s anything better than you I don’t want to know about it.
So David-If you were to give Tom one phrase of advice, it would be to ‘let go of your anger’?…..
@John C
It would take more than one phrase. Let go of the anger, live in the moment.
So many levels of frustration on his part.
Lmfao,,,
Dave, tom knows I only am concerned about the road he is going down with this seeking “REVENGE” (his words), on women.
Tom only hears what he wants to.
Tom might be at home killin’ some cereal right now. Who knows.
I’m not going to respond to tom anymore because it’s pointless. But I really hope he gets the help he needs.
And you always accuse ME of being angry. I’ve been frustrated, but never angry.
@John
At times you been angry and frustrated. Not on the level that Tom took it.
We are get angry at times its how we manage our anger.
And John…Hows the Tuna:)
Lol,,,chunky.
At least, you have to admit I am always fun.
That guy was anything but fun.
Tom, did you do the exercise??
How is everyone getting pictures to show up lately? (guess I’m the conversation killer with this comment)
It seems only a selected few have their comments responded too
@JJ
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Or Serial Killers…
@kjd,,, i’ll bet they are oogling me right now. That’s why they aren’t commenting now. Too hard to type with one hand!
Does no one like my O.S.U. hat, serious, staring off into space look?
This Saturday, my 35th birthday I will start my quest of making art until a woman’s heart is broken. I will be the 1st fully functional heart breaking player, who isn’t confident at all. women deserve a different class of men, and I’m gonna give it to them.
I am not no serial killer, I do not like killers, back in the day, I was very pissed that OJ didn’t get found guilty, when it was pretty obvious he kill Nicole Brown, I hope OJ rots in hell, so don’t ever accuse me of being crazy. I’m not, I’m not crazy. There’s only a few people here who give me good opinions, and that is David and Collin. John is a homicidal nut, I refuse to continue debating with him. but like I said I cannot make an omelette without breaking some eggs, in other words, I cannot find the woman I desire until I break some hearts.
As I said before “I’m not a monster people, I’m just ahead of the curve. I’m not insane or cruel as perceived by John…, I’m just clever enough to recognize that women are sickeningly predictable and shallow, especially when faced with a guy like me.”
I get how an avatar works, I just meant I apparently don’t know how to add one on here, unless there’s somewhere to sign up that I’ve avoided for months..
Http://www.howstuffworks.com/serial-killer.htm
Why didn’t the link work,, let me try again,,
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@kyle,,just go to http://www.gravatar.com and sign up. Select a photo to upload. Enter the email address to the left that you used to register with gravatar, and it will show up here.
June 1992, I was 15 years old, about a year after the fight at the bus stop. I called out women, so bad that year. I called them out on their hypocrisy, shallowness, craziness, and impossible expectations. But this particular woman who made me this way, the one from the bus the previous year. I told her off again, she was already broken up, so there was no fighting with any of her boyfriends. she asked why I am how I am, and I told her that she made me. she didn’t get it, so I told her that she made me the unconfident asshole because she was a shallow slut. I am the new class of men. women deserve it, and I am what they created, I will make art until a woman’s heart breaks, see? I am the first fully functional heart breaking player, who isn’t confident at all. they made me, and now I’m changing the game.
If people want to classify me by cereal, then I will too. John is foot loops because he is sick in the brain, David is cap’n crunch because he could lead men into getting women, Mel is trix(if you understand what I’m saying, Collin is honey smacks he is a cool dude. Shogo is Cheerios, because he is disrespectful and boring. What am I you ask? I am frosted flakes, I look to be this monster, this looney guy, when I am not, I’m just ahead of the curve. just like frosted flakes, it looks ugly, but the taste is tremendous. I am a frosted flakes type of guy.
I meant Fruit Loops, John is crazy, he’s coo coo for cocoa puffs.
^^ man, this guy just doesn’t let up.
@davidwygant,, somehow I knew Tom wasn’t going to find humor in today’s blog topic.
You know,, I’m starting to change my mind about Tom. I’m starting to think Tom is a little kid pretending to be an adult, and is posting stuff just to get a reaction.
Besides, if a manager at best buy threatened to fire employees for “looking at a woman he is interested in.”, there would be complaints to corporate. He would be removed fast. There would even be lawsuits.
If you guys ignore him, he might just go away. I know I’m not going to respond to him anymore.
Besides, a grown up in his 30′s doesn’t talk like this, unless he is very, very sick.
@John she was fired due to “Budget Cuts” as I added, that was the excuse I used. I did find humor in David’s blog… “If people want to classify me by cereal, then I will too. John is foot loops because he is sick in the brain, David is cap’n crunch because he could lead men into getting women, Mel is trix(if you understand what I’m saying, Collin is honey smacks he is a cool dude. Shogo is Cheerios, because he is disrespectful and boring. What am I you ask? I am frosted flakes, I look to be this monster, this looney guy, when I am not, I’m just ahead of the curve. just like frosted flakes, it looks ugly, but the taste is tremendous. I am a frosted flakes type of guy.”
I didn’t mean that in a serious offense, I did that for the humor of it all. You look to be the one who is offended because I said you were like fruit loops.
@Kyle
Follow my previous post
@ Tom
I have never called you a serial killer / monster / any other bad thing
I have said your attitude and anger is unhealthy. As Collin said in the other post, seeing a therapist doesn’t make you crazy / a serial killer / a monster… They are people that are trained to listen to problems, analyze them and help you come up with solutions that are beneficial to you and those around you. They help make you a better you. Most of what David practices and preaches is all fundamentally rooted in psychology… Getting away from the voice inside all of us telling ourselves we can’t do something and replacing it with a “go for it” (building confidence) breaking down the obstacles that stand between us and our goals.
@KJD “Getting away from the voice inside all of us telling ourselves we can’t do something and replacing it with a “go for it” (building confidence) breaking down the obstacles that stand between us and our goals.”
What voice? I am not schizophrenic, the only voice that tells me what to do is me. I proclaim myself as the first fully functional unconfident player, who makes art until a woman’s heart is broken, and that makes me screwy? like I said a million times already, women deserve a different class of men, and I’m gonna give it to them. must I explain to you what I mean by different class of men?
Hmmm… I didn’t get a cereal?
Guess I’ll be ” All Bran” or “Fiber1″ you know it’s good for you even if you dislike the taste
@KJD You’re Cocoa Pebbles, could be cool sometimes, and could be bitter.
Lol,,, just for the record people,, I don’t care what Tom thinks, or says about me. Doesn’t change my life one bit. I have had LOTS of great, beautiful women, and will again, if I ever get in the mood to GO OUT. And I love all women. I would never seek women for revenge. Every woman you meet is a fresh start.
And besides,, I’m cute as shit. Just look
<<< ,,, lol.
P.s. FUCK tom and FUCK anything he says,,,, lol.
Man, this comment thread has REALLY been a sausage fest. Lol. They must all still be trying to type with one hand.,, lol.
@John Somebodies angry… saying you get women to make me feel bad and better yourself. I think you need some therapy pal. Telling me to fuck myself, and everything I say, that shows you listen well to David Wygant, I don’t remember David saying make others look bad to make yourself look better. you just proved to me John, that you do not get women, but you aren’t like me see. I don’t get women, now… but I break the rules. you John don’t get women and you are a homicidal, delusional nut. that’s the difference between me and you John.
Starting to think is doing this just to get a rise out of everyone, and your all falling for it.
I think Tom really thinks this way. This is way too crazy to make up.
You guys all need to read the Marty post on the last blog its great!
I’m not falling for it,, I don’t care what he says. I figured now he is just a bunch of b.s. I’m just having fun with him now. Lol.
@Kevin no… I like David Wygants blog’s. I love how he shares his true thoughts and opinions. I am following in his ways, I give my true thoughts and opinions, whether anyone likes me or not, whether people agree or not, and whether people like yourself, call me an attention whore. at least I give my true thoughts, and that should be respected.
@Maryanne so what if I think this way? I am a person, just like you, and everyone else in the place called earth.
And in case you’re all wondering, the F’, tom line, comes from something I said to Chris a while back.
@John no John, you tried to offend me, no hiding that. shows your insecurity.
Oh no,,, tom doesn’t like me,,
Click……………………….
BANG.
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thump.
@John…..
Your cute as shit. I still think thats problamatic. Have you seen how shit looks like?? lol… Its brown, big, squishy and it comes out of your ass!!
Joking side. Thats awesome improvement John. Keep it up and keeping your cute as shit!. Your not cuter than me though Lol!
Fuck John and Fuck everyhting he says.!
@maryann,,, Nah. ,,no one is THAT crazy. Don’t buy into it. It’s all bs.
Let him keep attacking me. I’ve been laughing so hard my sides hurt.
And ,, maryann,,,,, WHERE’S THE DAMN PICTURE!!!,,,
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@chris,,, lol. I thought you would crack up when I said that to him..
You know,, before, you were right. I was just in a CRAP mood and down on myself.
Haven’t been lately. Just been having fun and not worrying about it.
@John…
Quit picking on Tom it wasn’t long ago, that you were in his same position a short while ago. We all gave you advice and you twisted words against us. Even showed some anger.
Have some compassion to your fellow troubled man who needs help too. Your cute as shit! lol
@John..
Thats great to read. ANd thats great to know. Iam glad you realized it was your mood.
All my typing wasn’t in vain. A bunch of other people also gave advice. It takes a man to say “Your right”. Good for you John. I am happy for you.
Hey,, I have never thought up a master plan to take revenge on all women, and have never come up with the weird CRAP that this guy has.
Chris,, we have all tried to help him. He said there is nothing wrong with him, and he doesn’t need help.
At first I thought he was serious,, but now I really think this is all an act.
Yeah, I’ve been down on myself before,, just in a funk, but I have never really been angry.
But, good luck trying to help tom. It’s gonna be a tall order.
I’m out, because frankly, I have better shit to do than this.
Peace.
@John who said I didn’t like you? I don’t dislike you. However I don’t like you either. you’re neutral. but the fact of the matter is that you can’t stand me because I speak my mind. you’re the one who told me to F myself, that was disrespectful. All I did was show how much of a schemer you really are.
Ok,, Chris,, you did get me ticked when you jumped on me that one time,, but I was over it in like 5 min.
Maybe I needed it.
Got out of my funk tho. Things couldn’t be better.
So… Tom… you’re basing your revenge plot fantasy off of a Batman villain?
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! Seriously?
Quick someone get Commissioner Gordon on the red Bat Phone with Batman! The Joker’s escaped from jail!
@John So I need help for being myself? if that’s the way you see things, then I guess everyone should be fake in your eyes.
@John there is no “master plan”, do I really look like a guy with a plan? I just… do things, that’s who I am. I’m an agent of heartbreak.
@John
I knew I needed to kick that ass, RAPE that ASS!! Take huge garden scizzors and tear that ass apart. Your ass is on me now and it stinks! All asses stink.
Ok tom. I really hope you have been messing with all of us.
If not, please do the exercises that David recommends. Ok?
I don’t want you to go through life bitter, seeking revenge. Life is too short for that kind of nonsense.
I really have to go,, I’ve been doing this too long tonight.
Good luck.
Lol. On that note,, I’m outta here.
Oh and FUCK Chris, and FUCK anything he says..,,,
@John “If not, please do the exercises that David recommends. Ok?
I don’t want you to go through life bitter, seeking revenge. Life is too short for that kind of nonsense”
That’s not what you said before John, you said this “P.s. FUCK tom and FUCK anything he says,,,, lol.”
So suggest you take yourself, your lies, and disrespect and just skadoodle.
Everyone, see what happens when I try to be nice to him.
That’s why I’m done with this guy.
Good luck.
@John That is the millionth time you’ve said you are done with me. you don’t get women, so don’t pretend. at least I’m not anti social… John… you may not get women like me, but at least I have the courage to just… do things. see John you’re just a man with a plan that can’t be done. I don’t have plans John, I just do things, and when I say I do them, I do it. unlike you.
@Tom…
“The world needs confident and unconfident people to exist” hmm…..
what a load of bullshit. Everyone can be confident and amazing if you work on it. It can be yours.
Its those people who are living scared behind excuses and blaming the past for where they are in life who don’t become confident.
Tom if you believe this and choose to be one of these shy, pussy,loser guys. Your an idiot and I feel no pity for you.
Your life is what you make it. If you don’t like your life. Its your fault. Laugh at yourself for your own stupidity.
Today we put our family dog to sleep. He was old and had a tumor. But I always thought he walked fine. As long as he was alive it didn’t matter how he look. A dog ahouldn’t be put to sleep just because he looks ugly or if others think he should die.
At the pound, He was walking more than ever before. He had life. He had a lot of energy more than before. Maybe because of the smell and the hearing of all the other dogs in the place. He was alive and far from death.
They put him to sleep and I thought it was a mistake. I walked in and saw his body. His tung was sticking out and his death looked pretty pathetic. He didn’t know it was going to happen. It was such a mistake but its too late.
Death is sad and tragic, but its a part of life. I cried. But whats worse than death is living-dead. Or living with wasted potential. Living while dying. Death is natural. Living-dead is unnatural.
@chris
i have been there tough tough day.
how old was your dog?
always hard to lose a loved one but your right the living dead really have no excuses.
@ David
He was 17. What has me sad more is that he really shouldn’t have died. We were pressured by animal cops to do it. He had a alot of life in him. Its very sad
@Chris, sorry to hear about your dog man. I had 2 dogs who died, so I know it sucks, it’s very sad.
But onto the other point, you didn’t read what I said, I never said “The world needs confident and unconfident people to exist”
I said this: ” if every guy was confident, then women would get bored. there once was time where chivalrous men got women, but those days are over because most men became chivalrous, after that, women became bored with chivalry and wanted more, so women fell for confidence and arrogance, because that is rare with men, when most men are confident, then they will get bored again like they did with chivalry and want something more.
So no, if everyone was confident, women would want more. so it wouldn’t work. we need good guys so we could point our little fingers at the bad guys. the world needs guys like me, un confident guys, because un confident people like me, make confident people like David look a million bucks. women need a different class of guys, and I’m gonna give it to them.” Too much of something isn’t good.
Like for example, when I start breaking hearts, after a while, I will feel satisfied, and want to settle down with a wife and kids, before I’m 40. I am 34 now, and will be 35 Saturday. I will do all things to get the anger out. and the way to do it is, break hearts. I make art until I break a woman’s heart, see Chris? I will be the first fully functional confident player. Women deserve a different class of men, and I’m gonna give it to them. I’m an agent of heartbreak.
but thanks for the advice. David is right, I should get rid of the anger, but getting rid of it my way, and that is getting revenge by breaking hearts of women who have hurt me before, it is the only way I see fit to get it out.
See there? ^ I spoke my mind, that is truly what I feel and will do in order to become happy again.
Let me correct myself… I will be the first fully functional UN-confident player.
@Tom http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5hfYJsQAhl0
Shogo, Please note. I understand you are an attorney. I suggest you advise David in case of legal consequences by “certain” posts from a reader, in case of some sort of “incident” that may possibly occur in the future. Is notification of proper “sources” prudent, to lesson liability or unwanted questioning? Maybe time to mediate certain postings? Just a question from a layman, who would not want any unnecessary future problems for David.
@Bob what do you mean bob? why is everyone assuming that I’m this crazy psychopath? all I do is take the game of dating, turn and twist it and make it my way.
@Chris
The animal cops made you put him down?
@Bob. I think Tom is just getting his day in the sun. He is just loving the attention everyone has been giving him.
Are you jealous of all the attention?
@Chris http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5hfYJsQAhl0 to you, two could play at that game. see my frown is only skin deep, inside I am the happiest guy you’d ever know, the problem is… I have only one way to get it out, and that’s break hearts.
And see Chris you putting that video shows how you want to make me look as if I’m stupid, every word I say has a meaning. Think again when I say that, I make art until a woman’s heart is broken, think hard, and you will see the sense it makes, I will not kill my quotes(Joker inspired me ) by revealing their meaning, also look close to the meaning when I say that I will be the first fully functional UN-confident player.
See with a guy like me, David Wygant will be the #1 dating coach worldwide. while the schemers, the guys who have plans like Mystery and those PUA guys, will be looking for food in the trash cans when I start my art. see I’m a guy who doesn’t have plans, much like David, I just… do things. I will record in writing from here on out, next time I approach a woman(after my birthday of course) to show how I make art, until hearts are broken. I will break alot of women’s hearts, make them love me so much, it’s uncontrollable, I will maybe get a stalker or 2. but that is what I do. I’m an agent of heart break. my heart has been broken so many times, that I am an artist of breaking hearts.
@Maryanne I don’t care who pays attention, I love to speak my mind, even if it hurts.
@Maryanne By the way Mary, if you met me, I’d rock your world, just saying. I have enough money and etc to fulfill your requirements.
Maryanne, sorry baby, but I get plenty of attention, here in my pond (I am somewhat of a big fish, in my little bowl here… surely don’t need it from this blog. I was just thinking about some of the “odd” things being said by a certain someone, and was worried about what could happen to David, if he is negligent in what would be “prudent” reporting of “irregularities” being published on his blog. Only trying to help out. Ignore my comment if I was overly concerned. Was just trying to help…
@Bob it’s David’s blogs, he chooses what he wants to write and say, there isn’t anything wrong with being prudent, and there’s no such thing as irregularities because it’s David’s website. so skadoodle bob.
@Chris D: That was hilarious.
@Bob: I’m not working in any legal capacity whatsoever here on the blog or otherwise, but good of you to point this out, very thoughtful. That having been said, and all teasing aside, we’re fine. Though it would be good for Tom to reassure us… You’re not planning on engaging in any illegal activity, are you Tom (aside from firing that poor Best Buy girl for no reason)?
Last I heard, “breaking hearts” as a pity player isn’t a crime. But would make a damn good country song.
And Tom, I really am by your side
I’m just seeing what you’re made of.
@BillyMadison: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jMo_HcRBnUY
@ Chris D… that was funny!!
@ Tom… Your wrong!
And thanks for the concern for my dog.
If All men in the entire world were confident. Lets imagine it. It would be the MEN who would be unhappy and bored not the women.
Every single man would be bored because there wouldn’t be enough confident women to go around. Were in this together. Men and Women.
WHy do you think there is a women’s mastery series. Women coaches, women resources and dating advice in magazines everywhere. Women must learn to be confident or else we don’t want them.
Whats up with giving women so much power anyway Tom. Just because they got boobs!! The Vagina has no power. Its the PENIS!!
And like I said before If you choose to sacrifice yourself for the good of all men
to keep some idiotic balance. Thats your fault we won’t be grateful for it. Because we don’t care. Give it up!!
WHat!! You won’t be known, for messing around with like 2 women. We wouldn’t have wanted them anyway if you managed to do this. you would be affecting nothing.
Are men aot less confident today in comparison to earlier times?
Someone sent me this today.
Thought it was funny.
@ Bob- I read ur concern for David’s well being loud & clear, makes total sense to be cautious with loose cannons.
@ Tom- LOL I know you are trying to insult me but I have a Trix shirt I love! Actually it’s a logo short with the classic line in Spanish. “Conejo Tonto! Trix son pero los ninos” The bunny is doing a centerfold side lying pose, its great & I love it!
Now Tom, I left you a msg on the previous blog, & I’m curious about ur view on that one…
@John- left u a msg too, no worries
@David…
No they didn’t put him down. They just suggested it to my parents to do it today. It was a family decision, but I regret it at the end. I am gonna think of the good of him than how he died.
Thanks for your concern David.
Hey All.
Been hanging on sidelines reading all the posts. I must say fucking hilarious and really cool. LOve the characters that are on this blog.
Chris you rock with your comments.
Tom your a freak and I love you for it.
Bob your strange but real and I respect that.
John you hate how you look but you seem like an amazing guy.
Maryanne no one ever calls you out but your a slut and proud of it!
Dan your so sweet and real and in tune with life and see all the good in the world.
Shogo, cmon a roomate are you kidding. Your a role model here live alone and share with us all your humping stories.
David, thanks for keeping it real and letting it roll as it does.
@chris
I am a huge dog lover so know how this felt for you.
Dogs have the most pure souls and they are so amazing to be around.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CsNgRmsx-14
More Billy madison!! laugh
Your rights, Dogs do have pure souls!
@Raging. You are so rigfht, I am a slut and damm proud of it!
Good night boys enjoyed the posts today and had fun reading all of them.
And my tech friend was over tonight so now you can all see how ugly I am:)
Maryanne, there’s nothing wrong with being a slut, but please keep it in check.
I mean, do you have to go around parading your sexuality and being so proud of it?
@Shogo she was fired in 2009, she doesn’t even know why, she believed me when I said I had to release her due to budget cuts, I did see anger in her eyes, but I didn’t care, just like she didn’t care when she did what she did to me, I bet she kinda regrets it now.
So no shogo, no illegal activities, only me speaking my mind. and haha very funny with another Billy Madison scene.
@David very fun with fatal attraction, but I will not be ignored David… Just kidding I am no Glenn Close lol
Tom I keep hearing how you speak your mind and whatever, but you lied to a girl about firing her and everything that you type is cribbed from movies and comic books… You couldn’t be less real!
You need to drop the protective shield of the Joker and start being the real Tom. Take off the makeup and let’s see what you’ve really got under all that clown paint.
@Dan This is the real Tom, I grew up with comicbook movies, helped my personality, it makes me original. I am Tom, with a little kick is all. I am behind no protective shield, if anything I am telling everyone how I feel and expressing it in art. like poetry. And yes I did lie to her about releasing/firing her, I did it for my benefit, otherwise I would be unemployed right now, and that was in 2009, there was no way I would lose a job during the recession. that was my revenge against her, if I ever see her, and she needs a job, she will get it, cause she faced the consequences already. Dan it’s not who I am underneath, but what I do that defines me.
I’m not down with being “slutty” but a woman should be able to enjoy sex & be confident in her sexuality. With some of these frustrated guys it can seem cruel, yet they are entertained by it & probably use her as masturbation motivation. Whatever. As long as they don’t get so distracted & stop trying to get out & meet real chicks. In Tom’s case to torture.
BTW- sorry bout ur dog Chris, my beagle has had tumor issues & its scary. By the way you care, I bet you gave your dog tons o love & ur dog was happy til the end knowing that.
Great video clips, I own quite a few Adam Sandler movies & that silly humor can definitely lighten the mood
@Mel you want some Adam Sandler humor Mel? Well I’ll reply to your post with what I feel, however I won’t say it… you’ll have to watch it -> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yMQhXc1dHIQ
This has happened with a girl who I thought liked me in 1991. what she said could’ve been useful in the beginning instead of leading me on, then rejecting me, then going out with someone who bullied me.
Also masturbation was fun in the beginning, but after 20 years, it tended to get a bit fucking bored to be honest. I would like to make art with a woman, 2 kinds of art. the art of having incredible sex and being in love with a woman, and the art of breaking hearts, the 2nd work of art must be painted first in order for the 1st piece of art to become a masterpiece.
Right on the money shot, Dan! You read my mind bout all these movie crutches. Tom, will you start handing us scripts? How is mimicking, original?
I tend to get my art inspiration from other artist, such as The joker, Batman, riddler(if necessary), Gary Oldman from the professional, and so many more, such wonderful artist. I still wonder though, where does Batman get all those wonderful toys?, but back on track,
They were inspirations to my art, being inspired doesn’t make you unoriginal Mel, it makes you extraordinary, much like yourself, I love your disputatious-ness, that’s your art right there Mel. also that photo of you(if it is you) is very sexy.
@Raging Man, I am not a freak… I am simply an artist of fairness and truth.
@ tom
keeping trolling hard man. your doing excellant work
@maryanne,, there. See, now we all know you really are cute,, (and female!), lol.
@mel,, isn’t it funny how tom pretends to know everything about Me, and my life, and how I think, when we have all only re-posted and broke down things HE has said. Anything you say to him he will only flip around and try to make it about you.
@bob,, no, I think your concerns are absolutely justified.
@davidwygant,, how’s the tuna Dave?
Tom I think you’ve done http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cd9rACzLq-U&feature=related
@Jeremiah I am not trolling, I am speaking my mind, the reason why is it you think I am trolling, is because my views are very different, I am a very different person than the rest. this is who I am, I simply give my honest thoughts in an art form. trolling when you go off topic, I stay on topic, and say my beliefs on things I am very different than others yes, but I speak the truth and do not have to lie. I express my thoughts through inspired art. I say how I feel. you must agree that it is good I give honesty instead of holding what I truly feel back. you may not agree with my beliefs, and that’s ok, I accept that.
tom is trolling you all so hard its not even funny
@Chris, you didn’t finish your sentence, what you should have said is “Tom I think you’ve done http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cd9rACzLq-U&feature=related” but express yourself.
@Jeremiah you are the one trolling me right now, I cannot say what I mean without someone calling me crazy or a troll.
Why thank you. Yes, I am jealous of Batman’s toys. (check out videos of Batmobiles on http://www.dvice.com they kick ass) Therefore, Cat Woman is my artistic inspiration, she plays with Bat shit crazy guys & one day I shall purrrrfect capoeira to be the ultimate sexy nemesis!
@John I used logic, think, why would someone call another a crazy psychotic person if he’s only expressing his thoughts and harmless things he will do in life. you used what happens in your life to make me look bad. that’s what bullies do, they use their own fears on others. if you wouldn’t have made out of this world assumptions about me, then I wouldn’t come to conclusion that you are the one who is in fact crazy.
@Mel Haha, I think I found my Harley Quinn/Catwoman mix
@ mel
Thanks mel. So your beagle had tumor probs too huh?! I hoped things worked out. Mine is gone and I learned from his death.
On a side note Mel, I read before you had leg surgery, and was worried before. I too had knee surgery and just recovered from it about 3 months ago. I had all the fears you had, maybe some crazier ones. How is your rehab??
@ tom…
Allright I’ll express myself. I think you read too much comics and watched too much movies and lived in them than live your own life. SO let Will ferrel scream at you a bit!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cd9rACzLq-U&feature=related
Responding to Tom is pointless.
@bob,, hey bob, , how’s the tuna?
@mel,, so when are you gonna follow maryanne’s lead and let us see the REAL Mel?
@John why is it pointless? I give my opinions like everyone else, it’s just that mine are different. no ones opinion is better than another, we are all equal.
@Chris thank you for being honest, I like that. my turn, I have read too much comics and watched too much movies you are right, but nothing, and I mean nothing has made me who I am the most than my life experiences, which were mostly bad. you could say my life is based on cartoons and what not, but the stories of my life that I have shared are not even a quarter of what I’ve been through. so when I hear Will Farrell in that video, I fell as though the message is that I’ve done nothing, nothing great in life, and it’s right, I may have been a nobody for years, but things will change. 2 pieces of my art are in development that will change my life,
the 1st piece is falling in love and having great sex like any happy couple, and the 2nd piece of art is breaking hearts, now I can’t make the masterpiece of the 1st art without being satisfied with the 2nd piece. I respect everyone’s thoughts, hell, even you John, as much as I disagree, I respect that you give your thoughts. all I ask is for my thoughts to be looked at closely for it’s meaning, and to be respected as I respect others thoughts equally.
Hey Chris, thanks for askin! Turns out I only had 43 staples (felt like 60) that all were removed as well as immobilizer Monday & PT starts Thurs. I was pretty athletic to begin with so guess it helps. Tried takin my dogs on walk 2 days later & that’s like 80lbs of torque on arm & they don’t know heel (my bad). It’s more like sniff slowly in circles or chase after random rabbit. To make matters worse a new neighbor moving in & their pit bull not on a leash or collar & bum rushed,,, in friendliness says the owner, but my female beagle takes all threats seriously & will fight to the death. Needless to say panic and leg pain ensued.
On a better note here’s a fight you boyz will enjoy watching
http://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=vwG7JwXtUSI
@Mel you know kisses heal the pain and scars right? I master in many arts, but kissing isn’t one of them, perhaps a woman of sorts could help me master that art huh?
I never talked about Rodney James Alacla did I? see thank you @David, Rodney is a good example of what crazy is. people see a guy like me… and they think I’m a freak, or that I’m crazy, I am not crazy and I do not cause others harm. I am simply, honest. whereas Rodney who looked like a “normal” person, was actually as very sick evil person. he was actually crazy.
Rodney proved that what you percieve as normal, or crazy may not be what they truly are. see a guy like me, people think I’m crazy, when in fact I am not, I am a smart civilized and honest person. unlike scum such as Rodney Alacla who looked to be a normal guy, yet was very sick, crazy, uncivilized and dishonest. Rodney was scum.
now I ask, do you see what a crazy person really is? we really do not know who is crazy or not, so we do not know who is “normal”. never judge if a person is crazy or not due to his personality, because most likely, you will be wrong.
But also remember, an eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth in terms of discussion. see @John made assumptions about me, so I what I did was turn his game around, and just logic to make a conclusion(which I stay) that he is the crazy one and not me. he’s just hiding his craziness withe this fake personality of him being a “normal” guy.
Correction: where I said ” and just logic” I meant, and just used logic
and where I said “(which I stay)” I meant, (which I stand by)
No Tom, what you did, and what you continue to do is make an ass out of yourself.
No John, what you did, and what you continue to do is Try and make me look like an ass, to better yourself. at least I’m honest, your very shady John.
Apparently what I think of Tom is very important to him, seeing how he keeps bringing me up over and over again. Even after all of my attempts to ignore him.
— just when I thought I was out,, they pull me back in.
– Al Pacino.
@John you started it, you wanted a debate, so I gave you one, and instead you turned it by trying to step all over me, you made it uncivilized. well guess what? I’m turning the game around, I want a civilized conversation. you are a bad role model. be like @David you could discuss anything with him, unlike you John.
Tom doesn’t need dating advice, tom needs a straight jacket and padded walls.
Congratulations tom, you ruined Davids blog.
Tom makes me think of suicide…
@John because I spoke the truth? people like you, who try to control others are the ones who need straight jackets. I say what’s on my mind, if you don’t like it politely disagree or get some help.
@Kevin relax, don’t be crazy.
Tom, do you ACTUALLY think that women deserve your ‘class of guy’? A guy who is insecure and gains pleasure from breaking their heart? Thats just dumb.
And if they get to know you because they pity you, I doubt they will be heartbroken when you go away and leave them alone….
When you say you don’t plan, isn’t saying “i will break about 50 hearts then get married and have kids” a plan? sounds like one to me buddy.
Who did I try to control tom. Who? You tell me now. Go ahead tom.
Tom fired a poor girl from her job because she didn’t want to date him.
Tom threatened to fire employees if they talked to a girl he was interested in. He tried to control who they could choose to date.
Who tries to control people tom?
Tom, stop trying to debate me. I will use YOUR WORDS everytime against you. You will only use bullshit and baseless claims. You cannot win.
Tom doesn’t need a bootcamp, tom needs the guys in the white coats.
Geez so much tension here the past few days. Come on everyone, lets take a breath, calm the f*** down and take you’re mind off it by looking at this…
http://cheezdailysquee.files.wordpress.com/2010/06/129207398492815421.jpg
Now smile and be happy dammit!
@Pat nope, see with plans, it may not happen or will happen, I see what I will do as a contract, there’s no breaking a contract.
@John They tried to control my emotions, so i played mind games on them, and controlled her wallet, sorry but that’s fairness, I didn’t want to do it, but I must do what is necessary to ensure fairness. I’m an artist, that’s what I do.
You say I should be in a white coat/straight jacket because I speak my mind? that really shows your true colors of trying to control. I haven’t done anything but counter your insults, so no your controlling isn’t fair, if I did something to you, then it would be fair for you to say what you say. if anyone is trying to control, just because they like to, it is you. I never said I liked or wanted to control people, I don’t want to do it, nor do I like it, I just do what’s fair. I just have to. you try to control, because in your sick twisted mind, you like it. I’m for fairness in the world, when you are selfish. I would have respect for you if you were honest John.
So I’m trying to control you tom,, huh.
Everyone, I am controlling poor tom from a thousand miles away on the internet. I have immense power people.
Tom, will you listen to how stupid you sound. Please.
I am losing my patience with you tom.
@ david. Nope just making a point of what I see everyday in the blogs. It’s what I learn from the blog that intrigues me and not comments that go way off topic by a selected handful
Tom says “I controlled het wallet, and that’s fairness.”
Well I have a news flash for you tom.
Do you know what they call taking disciplinary action against an employee for refusing your sexual advancements? Huh tom?
They call that SEXUAL HARASSMENT tom. That constitutes sexual harassment. That is a federal crime tom. You are a criminal tom. You admitted here to all of us that YOU are a criminal.
You don’t think that what you did was wrong tom. You don’t know that comitting crimes is wrong. You don’t know right from wring tom. That is why I think you are a danger to others tom.
You know why I don’t like you Tom,, I don’t like criminals.
@Maryanne
Your very beautiful.!
You look exactly like a history teacher I had that wrote all the answers for the test on the board. You look just like her.
@Joss
Made me smile!!
Sorry Dave, I tried to lay off tom. But he keeps pushing.
I know he’s got problems by the things he says here, and all of the weird Batman stuff, and his silly little plan, oh I’m sorry,, contract with himself to take revenge on women.
But I can’t stand the way he talks about, and has a history of treating women. I think tom needs to hear it like it is.
He fired that girl for refusing his sexual advancements. That is sexual harassment any way you cut it.
He sexually harassed that girl, and sees nothing wrong with his actions. I’ve just had it with that guy.
@John Sexual Harassment? No one was forcing her to have sex with me, she wasn’t fired because she didn’t have sex with me, she was fired for her shallowness, I should sue her for “putting a arrow in thou heart”
There was no sexual harassment, my emotions were played with, and that’s personal. It’s not specifically that she rejected me, it’s just that she showed her shallowness. she rejected me, and I could’ve let it go, but she then was making out with a worker of mine, she wasn’t even in a relationship with him, just to put it in my face that I am not good enough. maybe just maybe if she was honest and said that “Tom, the real reason I do not like you is because you are just not good looking, you’re ugly” then she would’ve been able to do her job another day.
So don’t you dare say I sexually harassed any woman, if anything she harassed my emotions.
@John Thank you John, for once again spinning my words around, I never “I controlled her wallet for sexual advances, and that’s fairness.” don’t ever put words in my mouth. I said “She hurt my heart, I hurt her wallet, that’s fairness, now me and her are even”
“He fired that girl for refusing his sexual advancements. That is sexual harassment any way you cut it.” You are a low life John, I lost all respect for you, putting words in my mouth, I would never condone any woman being fired for sexual harassment, it isn’t right, what I did, isn’t even similar to sexual harassment. You John are low.
@ Mel!!
First of all I am AMAZING!! not to brag. but had to get that out of the way.
Second. Mel. Thats great. You got back on your feet pretty quickly. Good for you. Keep up with the excercize.
When we go through accidents like leg surgery we appreciate our legs and other parts of the body too. So I think its good. its good to have leg surgery, thats how I see it.
I have walked my dogs before forcefully by my side. I listened too much to the dog whisperer and the bigger one took some rage on me. After we were done walking he was actually unhappy, the point of the walk was for him to be happy.
Now I just let him do what he wants as long as he follow me.!!
Just for you Tom. For all rejection you had. Cry about it!
I don’t know how to embed a video like david does from youtube. it tried.
Hers the link
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xVYxKRXDT2I
FUCK off Tom, , you make me sick.
@John no no john, you make me sick.
@Chris Be nice…
@chris,, lol, that’s too funny.
Tom makes EVERYBODY sick. Read the comments.
Tom says I make him look bad.
Look how many people on this blog were telling him to get help, before I ever even said a word to him.
No one here, not 1 single person agrees with tom, and he thinks he’s winning some argument. Not a single person thinks his plan for revenge, or contract, or whatever he wants to call it is a good idea, or even sane.
What a joke people.
Great link Chris! Made me smile
I liked the kitty picture earlier too.
Gotta ask, did anyone even peek @ my link I posted earlier?
http://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=vwG7JwXtUSI
Apparently wasn’t the diversion & diffusion as I’d hoped it would be… slightly confused…
@John- your zeal for establishing right vs wrong is understandable. Wish you didn’t allow it to pull u down. Be confident knowing what you know & unfortunately can’t do a thing to rectify some injustices. Let the case rest.
@Mel The kitty always made me smile.
@Chris Thanks I love when a man compliments me and its sincere. So many guys walk over and use that as a line and us women know it is a line.
Tell us we are sexy and look into our eyes and let us see if you really mean it.
If you can do that I am all yours!
“Tom makes EVERYBODY sick. Read the comments.
Tom says I make him look bad.
Look how many people on this blog were telling him to get help, before I ever even said a word to him.
No one here, not 1 single person agrees with tom, and he thinks he’s winning some argument. Not a single person thinks his plan for revenge, or contract, or whatever he wants to call it is a good idea, or even sane.
What a joke people.”
So because no one agrees with what I do, that makes it wrong? we all have different opinions, and if you really believe a persons thoughts are wrong because no one agrees, then I have lost all faith, that you even have a microscopic piece of logic.
@Maryanne Trust me tuts, you wouldn’t want a guy like me being sincere with you, I know women don’t like when my compliments are sincere… I compliment on what I truly feel needs to be complimented, and I am too sincere for women, to the point of where they think I’m weird.
See I would like to be an artist in many different things with women. I want to make art until a woman reaches an orgasm, I want to maker art until a woman’s heart is broken, and I want to make art until I find my soulmate.
I am the first fully functional unconfident player, I make art until a woman’s heart is broken. women need to see my many different artistic talents.
Good to see you’ve got a picture up, Maryanne. If you tried to buy me a drink at a bar, I’d probably say yes. Unless it was a Blue Moon…
Tom, you aren’t in comic books or movies, you’re in real life.
But since I like playing make-believe, let me be Batman and ruin your scheme.
You don’t want to be a schemer but you’ve got this master scheme of becoming “the first fully functional unconfident player, I make art until a woman’s heart is broken.”
That’s a plan Tom, a scheme. Not very Jokerish.
Second, and most important… you won’t get any girls without confidence. Even the stupid PUA stuff is based on the idea of confidence. If you go over and do a silly magic trick, you know, make a pencil disappear or something, you still NEED to have confidence in what you’re doing.
Your revenge scheme will never work because you won’t be able to get any women to fall for it. They’ll be able to smell your evil intentions a mile away.
Listen, I know the safety and security of a fantasy world… I’m a recovering World of Warcrafter myself… but eventually you have to step into the real world again.
We can’t change what’s happened to you, it’s done and over. Leave the past behind and start living today.
@Tom I don’t like plans, more likely than not, things don’t go according to plan. I like to think of what I’m going to do as something else, but not a plan, maybe you could come up with a proper word for it because what I will do, will happen, it is no plan, it is set in stone. these PUA guys, they’ve changed things forever, there’s no going back. we have people who think they have to be like mystery to get women. well now I will take his little game and turn it on itself. this isn’t the real world either dan, this is a website, in the real world, like I am doing now, is expressing myself in art, inspired art.
* meant @Dan, so much typing made me @ myself lol
@maryanne,,,
you are unbelievably…sexy.
<——— eyes.
@mel ,,, I know. thx. ,, it’s not bringing me down. I was working all night, so I had all night to deal with him. Finally,I just couldn’t take any more of his bullshit. I thought he needed to hear it straight.
When you want a woman to DATE you, that is LEGALLY a sexual advance. When you take corrective action against an employee , ex. FIRE HER, for refusing to date him, that legally, constitutes SEXUAL HARASSMENT. period. I tried to make him understand that what he is doing is wrong. He won’t listen to anyone. All he does is take everything you say to him, and try to turn it around on you. He thinks he is winning some argument, but everyone on here only thinks he is an ASS. He is too frustrating to deal with anymore.
I hope he gets sued. If not by this girl, or the other employees, then someone else.
He’s 32 damn years old mel. He Thinks he is a freakin’ comic book character. He quotes BATMAN constantly. And I don’t think he understands that no woman is ever going to take him seriously.
Now watch,, he’ll answer me and give me some bullshit, and tell me how mean, and cruel I am, and try to turn everything around on me, trying to get another answer out of me.
Anything he says to me i’m just going to tell him to fuck off. I see Dan is wasting his time on him now. I’ll let Dan have a go at it for a while. I’m really done.
I really am done now. I tried my best. he’s a lost cause.
@interndan,, if he is confident this scheme will work, then how is it possible for him to be unconfident. lol. it’s the stupidest thing I have ever heard.
@mel,, I can’t get the video to play. it just gives me a list of four videos. I think it is the mobile homepage. :/
I too have fired someone for not liking me and making out with a co-worker! I told her she had to be let go do to “budget cuts”. Then I told all the people who worked underneath me that if I ever see them making out with a girl that I liked that they would be fired on the spot because fair is fair. My broken heart equals their wallet!
@Tom………..you’re dumb.
lol people…. stop feeding the troll. Toms just trying too piss you all off to masterbate himself cuz he cant seem to get a girl to do it and its working extremly well.
@Tom I think you may have invented a new type of pick up! It’s called the Pity Method.
If some of you have not seen Dexter before, drop whatever you are doing now and start watching it!!!
@John “When you want a woman to DATE you, that is LEGALLY a sexual advance. When you take corrective action against an employee , ex. FIRE HER, for refusing to date him, that legally, constitutes SEXUAL HARASSMENT.”
I completely agree, but look you lowlife, I never fired anyone for sexual harassment, she wasn’t fired for not dating me, she was fired because she broke my heart, plain and simple, it wasn’t about dating, it was about respect, for years women have disrespected me, she wanted to put it in my face that I am not good enough, and that hurt my heart, so she was fired.
she wasn’t fired because of sexual harassment, she was fired because what she did was disrespectful, basically she was fired for hurting my feelings, by showing me I’m not good enough, that’s the reason why I fired her. hell if I ever did that to my boss, I’d understand, because you do not disrespect the boss. do not try and cross the boss.
Stop trying to make me angry or whatever, because your efforts to are not working, the only reason you keep saying I fired her for sexual harassment, when I explained 10x times already that it was because of her hurting my feelings, is because you are trying to make yourself look better. It was sexual harassment, so stop accusing me of that crime, you low life.
also, why bring up sexual harassment? when what I did had nothing to do with forcing her to date or have sex with me? if you were the boss of a company, and someone said something, or showed disrespect to you, your saying you wouldn’t fire them?
I think the only reason why your going so left field with these sexual harassment allegations is because you have done that to others, remember, bullies not only like to use what they fear to bully, but say something about someone when in fact the bully themselves is the true person who would do such a thing, all because of insecurity.
@John Also John, stop disrespecting David Wygants advice, even though I do not use his advice because I will be the first fully functional unconfident player(If I change my mind, I’ll buy David’s program.), David’s advice and programs have been proven to work countless of times.
by you saying “He’s 32 damn years old(I’m 34 for your info, going to be 35 this Saturday)mel. He Thinks he is a freakin’ comic book character. He quotes BATMAN constantly. And I don’t think he understands that no woman is ever going to take him seriously.” see by what you said there, your just in other words saying “Don’t be yourself, because women won’t take you serious”
so wait… I have to hide myself, and that fact that I like comic books to women? I think David teaches people to be themselves. I don’t know who you listen to, maybe you listen to that PUA jerk mystery, but you do need some serious advice, buy David Wygants program, or if you already have, use it again, because you haven’t learned.
I’ve lost Everyone, seriously. the people I love in life are far away from my heart. I have nothing to do in life, pretty bored, and I’m looking for some fun, if you wanted to know, that is another reason why I need to break hearts, but it isn’t the main reason. the main reason like I said, you can’t make an omelette without breaking some eggs.
when I say I lost Everyone in life, you know I’m telling the truth.
Tom you’re a fuckin’ psycho. You’re NEVER going to get a lady to fall for your insane revenge fantasy. Hell, you don’t have the balls to live in the real world what makes you think you’ll magically grow a pair to pull this stupid shit off?
Besides, you chasing women is like a dog chasing a care. You wouldn’t know what to do if you caught one.
@Steven Round of applaud, steven, your insecure, so you have to try and bring me down to your pathetic little pathetic world, I have more balls then you ever would, I have and continue to say the things I say here to women, because I don’t give a fuck, at least i have the balls to say what I want, regardless if women think it’s crazy. yes I may not be the most confident guy in the world, but unlike you, I could talk to women as myself, not a mask of normality like yourself. then you say that “Besides, you chasing women is like a dog chasing a care. You wouldn’t know what to do if you caught one.”
what dogs chase a care? whatever that means, but I could say something for sure about you, you’re Like A Dog Chasing Cars, you Wouldn’t Know What To Do If you Caught One, and I’m also sure that you are like a roach running from a human. you run from the pussy steven. wanna diss me? I could diss back. go back to your room child.
@Everyone Show some respect, as I do. I am tired of the disrespect I get, from the likes of @John and @Steven. If I respect you, you respect me. If you disrespect me, I disrespect you back. that’s how it is.
@ Tom
hey tom i dedicate this video to you. this kinda looks like you!! unreal
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FMEe7JqBgvg
@Jeremiah the only troll here is you. you keep asking for my attention, and keep on going off topic, much like @John.
I wrote this to @Kat in the previous blog ” Just because a woman rejects you doesn’t mean she’s a horrible being. I would make you love me. Spend money on me. Just really f you up in those ways…. Now that is a cruel woman”
Nah, both are cruel. see Kat, it’s now that they reject, it’s How they reject. I’ve never in my life been rejected politely, I’ve always been rejected due to my looks, or because I was “not good enough”, women want to be shallow, well guess what? they made guys like me, I didn’t come out of no where, it’s just isn’t fair, and you know, i’m not going to whin about it not being fair, that’s pathetic, what I do is make things fair, cruel women, took a guy like me, and made me cruel. don’t blame me for their creations. see I’m not blaming all women, when I say women, I mean the women who did something to me.
see guys like @John try to spin things around, saying I try to force women to date and have sex with me, no… no.
All I care about is respect, but I’m always getting disrespected, that’s why I do the things that I do. things like being rejected for my looks or being “I’m not good enough” are disrespectful. things like leading me on, only to play me is disrespectful. I don’t force women to have sex or date, that’s their choice and I respect that.
things I do not respect is disrespecting me, if I’m going to be rejected, I want a good reason, I respect if I was rejected due to no chemistry or because she’s not into my personality, but to reject me by saying I’ not good enough or I’m ugly, while putting yourself on a pedestal, I hate that, I really do. I hate shallow people.
that’s where fairness comes to play, I can’t just let them disrespect me without repercussions, they have to face the consequences in order for fairness to work, and so that justice is served.”
@Tom- you said you were raised right. What does that involve? Do you believe in God? Karma? Any higher power? You speak as if it was all up to you to solve injustices
Tom- Shallow people suck, absolutely. How did these particular girls you despise, lead you on? Any chance there was a misinterpretation of signals?
I was teased in school & other times in my life. I’m curious, how many other people in this forum got teased or picked on in their life? Gotta funny feeling a great deal more people have experienced getting picked on than Tom may realize. We all decide how we live & can’t blame others for “making” us do something that is wrong, morally, ethically, whatever. If it was ok to say other people made us do something bad, that would render the judicial system obsolete. Is that a fair or just belief?
@Tom
Aww, Tom. I feel for you; I really do. =)
Even if they are shallow and do have a bad reason for rejecting you.. there’s a reason why they are that way. The environment they grew up in made them be that way.. That doesn’t mean it’s your problem to be put down like that though but think of it this way! Who cares!
Why worry about those girls that were wrong to you when you could enjoy/pay attention to everything around you AND notice that girl who is right for you! There are SOOO many girls out there, some people have their own issues in their head.. You can’t really blame them, sometimes people grow up in an environment that is sick and I really empathize with these people. I hope all works out for you Tom. Take Care =)
@Mel I believe in God, but not all of his rules, I love him and believe in him, but I am not doing things his way, I do things my way. I respect other peoples beliefs, and when I talk to people, religion doesn’t get in the way. I believe in God, but I know praying won’t bring any fairness or justice to my feelings. back in high school, and in some instances after high school. they made me to believe we were to go on dates, they gave me numbers, and etc, but then when I did the asking out to be sure, I would find that they did it for fun… they never really liked me, and were really shallow, they just wanted a reaction out of me.
I can’t pray for things to happen, I must do things… see Mel, I will be the first fully function unconfident player, I will make the women of the past feel like shit, just like they tired to make me feel like. see? I make art until a woman’s heart is broken.
Basically, I’m going to rectify certain inequities…
@Johnny Those girls can’t be let off the hook, they have to face what’s coming, justice has to be served, I will play them in ways unimaginable, I will break their hearts so bad, that they become crazy, like Glenn Close in fatal attraction, I might get a stalker or 2, who knows.
Tom, I’ve tried to be understanding of your situation but you sound like a stalker. You are gonna track down these girls & find out whatever you can about them & somehow POP up & somehow convince them to go out with you?? Then you will somehow make her feel insignificant & in emotional pain… that’s stalker talk. What if she has protective vengeful family & friends or is happily married to a guy that would enjoy rearranging your face, or a cop? Odds are against anyone who tries this. Use your creative energies for more productive pursuits. Since its so real in your head, then write it into a movie script & send in to Director & producer of SAW. They will enjoy this twisted shit.
@Mel The married ones don’t get the revenge by me, I have faith that they will face the consequences, hopefully they are in bad relationships, but the married ones/in relationship ones I won’t bug, because they have people that care for them.
And I am no stalker, I know all those women to this day. my mother likes to throw parties and they always come. they are still douches to me. but I don’t sweat it, because their heart will be broken, and I believe in the future I will have a wife and family, be rich and famous, and laugh at all of them, then life goes on because justice was served and I brought fairness. hell, after I serve justice, if they want to, they could be my friend afterward.
Just like the best buy woman I fired, if she wants the job, I’ll re-hire her no problem, because she already faced the consequences, and we are even.
@Mel Also, is that picture of you real? I like your picture and your personality, your a woman I could hook up with, if it is ok with you, Mel.
Not to burst your bubble, Tom, but Mel’s photo is from Battlestar Galactica.
And I think this is a bad place to pick up women, because all you do is seem to discuss why you hate them and want to ruin their lives for mistreating you years and years ago.
Well, I was gonna let him have sweet dreams at least… maybe he’d wake up happier & more positive. She & I share some similar features tho. Thanks for the compliments Tom & if you get off this revenge kick & try David’s advice towards loving the good in women you have hope of getting that happy family in the future. May your 35th be a time of setting positive goals to attain long lasting deep joy!
I’ve found a video of Tom making his art, guys! Check it out:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ijg9F_Dh0ZI
Mel, you are just the sweetest thing!
Kudos for the positivity!
@Paula R, I don’t all women, only the ones who’ve done me wrong. see Paula I ain’t no sexist, I’m just sick of human society in general and how it is ran, things need to be shaken up.
Tom doesn’t believe he is a SEXUAL HARASSER. Tom doesn’t understand Quid Pro Quo sexual harassment. When tom fired an employee of Best Buy because she refused to “date” him, meaning she refused to FUCK him, tom doesn’t believe he sexually harassed that poor girl.
Tom doesn’t understand title VII. Here is text describing Quid Pro Quo sexual harassment:
The EEOC defines sexual harassment as:
Unwelcome sexual advances, requests for sexual favors, or other verbal or physical conduct of a sexual nature when:
1. Submission to such conduct was made either explicitly or implicitly a term or condition of an individual’s employment,
2. Submission to or rejection of such conduct by an individual was used as the basis for employment decisions affecting such individual
Quid pro quo sexual harassment
Quid pro quo means “this for that”. In the workplace, this occurs when a job benefit is directly tied to an employee submitting to unwelcome sexual advances. For example, a supervisor promises an employee a raise if he or she will go out on a date with him or her, or tells an employee he or she will be fired if he or she doesn’t sleep with him or her.
Do you see that TOM,, Sexual harassment occured when a supervisor “tells an employee he or she will be fired if he or she doesn’t sleep with him or her.”
Tom fired an employee because she wouldn’t “DATE” him,, she chose to date someone else. Tom fired that poor girl because she wouldn’t FUCK him,,ain’t that right Tom?? YOU FIRED HER BECAUSE SHE WOULDN’T FUCK YOU TOM.
Tom is a dusgusting human being. Tom has SEVERE mental problems. TOM IS SICK. TOM IS A SEXUAL HARASSER OF THE WORST KIND.
@shogo,
You’re a lawyer,, why don’t you explain to TOM what Quid Pro Quo sexual harassment is?
@clarissa,, lmao,, that is Tom. That’s tom in the backroom of best buy, after he got done sexually harassing his employees! That’s great!
@Paula- thanks!
& your message was spot on too. This is a site to learn how to communicate better but not to be hooking up on the chat after bragging to break hearts. Not the way to go. Definite turn off. When Tom stops getting in his own way & getting held back by past & rewriting his future in positive pursuits, his eyes will open to see great things life offers. Tom will bring out the best in women when he believes it can exist. Don’t we all want to be around someone who looks for the best & not worst in us?
@John- think I’ll copy & paste that info, should I personally encounter a similar situation. Let the defense rest & the F words & anger with it, please.
@John “Tom doesn’t believe he is a SEXUAL HARASSER. Tom doesn’t understand Quid Pro Quo sexual harassment. When tom fired an employee of Best Buy because she refused to “date” him, meaning she refused to FUCK him, tom doesn’t believe he sexually harassed that poor girl.
Tom doesn’t understand title VII. Here is text describing Quid Pro Quo sexual harassment:
The EEOC defines sexual harassment as:
Unwelcome sexual advances, requests for sexual favors, or other verbal or physical conduct of a sexual nature when:
1. Submission to such conduct was made either explicitly or implicitly a term or condition of an individual’s employment,
2. Submission to or rejection of such conduct by an individual was used as the basis for employment decisions affecting such individual
Quid pro quo sexual harassment
Quid pro quo means “this for that”. In the workplace, this occurs when a job benefit is directly tied to an employee submitting to unwelcome sexual advances. For example, a supervisor promises an employee a raise if he or she will go out on a date with him or her, or tells an employee he or she will be fired if he or she doesn’t sleep with him or her.
Do you see that TOM,, Sexual harassment occured when a supervisor “tells an employee he or she will be fired if he or she doesn’t sleep with him or her.”
Tom fired an employee because she wouldn’t “DATE” him,, she chose to date someone else. Tom fired that poor girl because she wouldn’t FUCK him,,ain’t that right Tom?? YOU FIRED HER BECAUSE SHE WOULDN’T FUCK YOU TOM.
Tom is a dusgusting human being. Tom has SEVERE mental problems. TOM IS SICK. TOM IS A SEXUAL HARASSER OF THE WORST KIND.”
See you are trolling me now, what did it have to do with sex?… she disrespected me, plain and simple. she basically in a way told me I wasn’t good enough, so I needed to serve justice, I do not see how that in any way is sexual harassment. if I fired her because she didn’t want to date or have sex with me, then that would be sexual harassment. but I fired her because she made me feel bad, she bullied me, so she got fired.
and if any sexually harassed anyone, it is you. Yes John it is you, because you bring up sexual harassment out of no where, when YOU KNOW I FIRED HER BECAUSE SHE HURT MY FEELINGS BY DISRESPECTING ME, and NOT BECAUSE SHE REFUSED TO HAVE SEX WITH ME. you are what we call a punk. your the kind of bully who takes what others say and twist them around into what your life really is. see your trying to take whatever is in your life, and trying to bring me down with it, so stop saying I’m crazy or I sexually harasssed someone when in fact you are the one who does those things.
Didn’t your mother teach you not to bully and switch up words? if not, then your mother was a not a good one. I was raised right to know that I shouldn’t be stepped over on. see me being rejected was me being stepped over on, it was that she inadvertently showed that I wasn’t good enough, trying to say she’s better than me. she disrespected me so she was fired. another reason why you try and make me look bad is because I made you look stupid before, and you couldn’t handle it. now you’re trying to make me look stupid, because I embarrassed you.
@Mel don’t take John’s side, please look up what sexual harassment is, she was fired for disrespecting me, not because of the actual rejection. she was fired for making me look like a fool who “wasn’t good enough” there were better ways she could’ve done things. she was fired for hurting my feelings, I couldn’t care less if she wanted to date or have sex with me. hell the same thing goes with friends, if a friend at the job disrespected me, and hurt my feelings, he would be fired too. you can’t let your employee’s walk all over you.
Tom, why do you assume that just because a girl picks another guy over you that she’s saying you’re not good enough? When two puzzle pieces don’t fit together, it doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with the piece itself. It just means that there’s another piece that fits it better. There’s plenty of awesome girls I know who I just don’t really feel it with and haven’t dated. I would never in a million years say it’s because they’re not good enough for me. We’re just different people.
You may have been hurt that she didn’t feel it with you, but what was she supposed to do? Date you even though she didn’t have the same chemistry with you that she had with the other guy? She wasn’t disrespecting you. She was just following her feelings. Firing her was wrong, and you know it. You can try to justify it in your mind, but if what you did was right, you wouldn’t have had to lie to her and corporate about why you fired her.
@Tom Do you even want David’s help or are you going to keep doing your own thing?
Let’s say you get married one day & u & wife get in disagreement. In process of disagreement, u feel she disrespected you. What do you do? Fire her AKA divorce? Flip out on her & disrespect her back? When would the disrespect cycle end? Or do you try to work it out?
Properly handling disagreements takes practice. If it becomes a pattern of eliminating people people from your life that you feel disrespect you & you look around one day & see people avoid you & all friends are gone, its time to evaluate the situation. Could there be misinterpretations? Could you be overly sensitive & taking yourself too seriously? Is ego in the way?
Don’t get me wrong, I don’t condone disrespect. However, there are ways to express to someone they went too far & still maintain a relationship if it is worth maintaining. Personally or professionally. Practice healthy conflict resolution, it works wonders & sky rockets your success.
@Tom because if you don’t want David’s help then why are you here making a fool of yourself?
Skyy rockets in flight! Afternoon delight! lol
Enjoy:
http://m.youtube.com/#/watch?v=LysBpySVn_g
@mel,,, did I upset you with my use of the F-word? This blog is filled with f words. Just read David’s famous “Fuckation” blog.
I figured a few more won’t hurt to get my point across.
If that girl had dated tom like he demanded, then she would not have been fired. Plain and simple.
I want tom to admit he wad wrong, the way he treats and looks at women is wrong, and that he needs help.
But tom lives in a fantasy world.
@Collin when did I try to justify firing her? I just do what’s fair, wrong or right. I kinda feel bad for firing her, but I can’t break my code of fairness, otherwise I’d be even more depressed because I’d feel stepped on even more. I didn’t want to fire her, it was just that it had to happen, otherwise 2 things would’ve happened:
#1. The guys at work would lose respect for me and think I’m a chump for taking disrespect. they’d basically look at me like a loser. as long as I have the respect from my co-workers, I still have a job. if I didn’t fire her, I would probably be fired myself for not sticking up for myself, my co-workers expect the people who work under me to respect me, otherwise they wouldn’t think I’d be good for the job. my workplace, whether I like it or not is all politics, I have to play the game for food on the table. I wasn’t going to let one woman hurt my feelings and make me look a fool, because I would lose respect from others.
Also, I didn’t lie to corporate, I only lied to her, the folks above me even knew the real reason why I fired her, they had no problem with it, because again, that place is all politics. I may dislike it, but that’s how you play the game
@Alex I’m confused at this point, I want to be the first fully functional unconfident player, who makes art until I break hearts, so I could prove a point. I want revenge, and that’s the only way I know to get it, perhaps @David has other solutions for my revenge, but I don’t know.
@John No… she would still get fired, sex and dating isn’t everything. at work the only thing I care about is respect and a paycheck. she could’ve dated me and had sex with me and STILL hurt my feelings. I don’t care if it was a male or female, anyone who works under me, and doesn’t show proper respect, and tries to embarrass me, will face consequences, whether it be a Demotion or release, she was in the lower ranks so it would be hard to Demote her, so she was released.
You never embarrass the boss, or disrespect him. anyone who has people working under them would agree, why would you hire someone who’s disrespectful, if you say you would then you are lying, because I like my workplace peaceful.
Wow this blog will not die. Maybe we need to call a cereal killer:)
Tom, if you say it’s fair, then you’re justifying what you did. You shouldn’t have fired her, you wouldn’t have been fired for not firing her, and you wouldn’t have lost respect. You know what would have gained you a lot of respect with those guys? If you had been like, “Whatever. It’s no big deal,” and just let it go. I mean, so you ask a girl out and she says no. That’s just not that big a deal. She hooks up with another guy. So what? You don’t have any sort of claim on a girl just because you like her, and if you move onto some other girl, that just shows that you’re the grown up.
Also, I really don’t get how her making out with someone else after she turned you down is that disrespectful. Again, you never had a claim on her. Was she just supposed to never date again?
@ tom
hey tom im out talking to girls and having a blast. just thought id let you know.
@Collin nope I made a point to everyone in the offices that I do not play the game, because I am the fucking game, ever since I’ve never been stepped over on. the politics in that place is crazy, if you play it, you will lose, if you become it, you never lose. that is exactly what I did for my self respect.
She could date again, I never broke them up, I never effected their relationship, I fired her, and that’s none of his(the worker under me) his business, just like it’s none of my business that they kissed. It is my business that I look like the alpha male in front of my co workers, and it is my business to keep my ego high and it is my business that she hurt my feelings, so I hurt hers. it’s like saying you get bullied, but won’t retaliate, I’m no pussy, I don’t take shit from anyone, especially a woman who tried to make me look stupid. if I let it go, I would be here crying, but no, I did what’s fair. Unbiased, unprejudiced fairness. everything in life has to be fair for me, or life just doesn’t work.
If I get treated kindly and do not return the favor, I will feel bad. same as if I get treated like shit, and do not bring them karma, I will feel stupid.
I just do not like to be embarrassed. I will do anything I can to prevent myself from looking like a joke & embarrassment to others, because it pisses me off. and why does it piss me off? because as unconfident as I may be, I am confident that I no joke or an embarrassment. I make art, that’s what I do, and fairness is one of my many arts I master in.
@Jeremiah “@tom
hey tom im out talking to girls and having a blast. just thought id let you know.”
That’s good to know, have fun, enjoy yourself because life is short. I’ll worry about my own life though, thank you for sharing your life stories
seriously tom this is all i got from the novel you just wrote on this page http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nfHOQAT0-Mk
i’m also having a hard time believing you’re 35 due to how many times you used lines from a comic book villain
@Chris D I’ve been reading comics since I could remember, the only thing I regret is not saving any. so since http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LxOeG3myCdU (since you like to use video lines, I could do it too) is attacking me, I should do the same to.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LxOeG3myCdU in the interest of fairness
but, I will hold off the fairness, until everyone starts attacking me with false accusations in the way that Low life John did,
At least I don’t harass women at MY workplace tom.
Tom fires everyone that hurts his feelings. Right tom?
How would tom like it if a new district manager, a 300 lbs., hairy, smelly, stinky, fat, sloppy woman started and told tom to date her. What if tom said no. Then she fired Tom because he hurt her feelings?
Only fair. Right Tom?
Tom says I sexually harass women. Tom says I do the things that HE SAID THAT HE HAS DONE. Tom told us about the girl he fired because she refused to date him. Tom says I brought it up.
Tom says I pulled sexual harassment out of no where. Tom read the LEGAL DEFINITION of sexual harassment above. It is exactly what tom says he did.
But tom doesn’t harass women. Tom is the joker from a comic book. Tom lives in a fantasy world. The joker would never do that.
Tom says I’m a low life.
Hahahahaha,,hahahahahahaha!,,,,, lol.
“Tom says I sexually harass women. Tom says I do the things that HE SAID THAT HE HAS DONE. Tom told us about the girl he fired because she refused to date him.”
Nope… again putting words in my mouth, again I didn’t fire her because she refused to date, usually when someone can’t counter an argument, they tend to either spew curses, or put words in the other persons mouth, much like your doing, really immature.
hahahahahah,,, yes you did TOM. If she dated you instead of the other guy, you never would have fired her.
The 35 year old guy who quotes BATMAN is telling ME I’M immature. lol
I swear tom ,, you crack me up. lol.
@John even if she fucked me 20 times and was my girlfriend, she would’ve still gotten fired for embarrassing me and disrespecting me.
Yep, I’m 35 now and I quote Batman, so what? see how you use those lame defense mechanisms, trying to make yourself look better because I proved your logic was of a 5 year old.
there are even people in their 70s who read comic books, don’t try to act like your all macho, kid…
You know what is funny about this blog. I bet none of you even read it.