Comments on: Approach Anxiety Be Gone! http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/approach-anxiety-be-gone/2514/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Fri, 10 Feb 2012 02:15:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Collin http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/approach-anxiety-be-gone/2514/#comment-33873 Collin Tue, 15 Dec 2009 09:45:39 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2514#comment-33873 Eric, I'm far from an expert, but here's my opinion anyways. I feel like, "How are you?" and, "How was class?" are empty phrases. The answer to either one will inevitably be, "Good. You(rs)?" Before you know it, you're right back where you started, trying to come up with something else to ask. And how many people are going to ask that girl the same question? Five? Ten? Commenting on the scarf or shoes she's wearing, the books she's carrying, the earrings she has on, that giant purse she's hauling, the kid who just got tripped, or anything that stands out is going to be different. From there, you just have to go with the conversation, joking around, poking a little fun at her, and getting to know her. The hallway between classes is great since it's completely natural to say, "Hey I've gotta run to class. Give me your number and we'll continue this conversation later," or something similar. Hope this helps! Eric,
I’m far from an expert, but here’s my opinion anyways. I feel like, “How are you?” and, “How was class?” are empty phrases. The answer to either one will inevitably be, “Good. You(rs)?” Before you know it, you’re right back where you started, trying to come up with something else to ask. And how many people are going to ask that girl the same question? Five? Ten?

Commenting on the scarf or shoes she’s wearing, the books she’s carrying, the earrings she has on, that giant purse she’s hauling, the kid who just got tripped, or anything that stands out is going to be different. From there, you just have to go with the conversation, joking around, poking a little fun at her, and getting to know her. The hallway between classes is great since it’s completely natural to say, “Hey I’ve gotta run to class. Give me your number and we’ll continue this conversation later,” or something similar.

Hope this helps!

]]> By: Eric joseph Rizzo http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/approach-anxiety-be-gone/2514/#comment-33821 Eric joseph Rizzo Fri, 11 Dec 2009 03:37:01 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2514#comment-33821 Congrats David, good luck! YOU DA MAN! Congrats David, good luck! YOU DA MAN!

]]> By: mannypac http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/approach-anxiety-be-gone/2514/#comment-33817 mannypac Thu, 10 Dec 2009 23:21:38 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2514#comment-33817 respect everyone and everyone will respect you. -Confucius respecting everyone like children, men, women etc. if you approach anyone approach them with respect and not say anything offensive or too sexual and you will get enough respect back when you are respectful. but if you are disrespectful that is the only way you could really actually be rejected by anyone. respect everyone and everyone will respect you.
-Confucius
respecting everyone like children, men, women etc. if you approach anyone approach them with respect and not say anything offensive or too sexual and you will get enough respect back when you are respectful. but if you are disrespectful that is the only way you could really actually be rejected by anyone.

]]> By: Tony888 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/approach-anxiety-be-gone/2514/#comment-33816 Tony888 Thu, 10 Dec 2009 20:35:04 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2514#comment-33816 Congratulatins David, I hope this time it works for good. All the best to you both. :) Congratulatins David, I hope this time it works for good. All the best to you both. :)

]]> By: Nelson http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/approach-anxiety-be-gone/2514/#comment-33815 Nelson Thu, 10 Dec 2009 17:45:41 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2514#comment-33815 Congrats David....wish you the best! Congrats David….wish you the best!

]]> By: Fernando http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/approach-anxiety-be-gone/2514/#comment-33813 Fernando Thu, 10 Dec 2009 13:50:32 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2514#comment-33813 *Change the way you look at things, and the things you look at, change *Change the way you look at things, and the things you look at, change

]]> By: Fernando http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/approach-anxiety-be-gone/2514/#comment-33812 Fernando Thu, 10 Dec 2009 13:48:32 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2514#comment-33812 In the words of Dr Wayne Dyer: "Change the way you look at things at the things you look at change." :) In the words of Dr Wayne Dyer:

“Change the way you look at things at the things you look at change.”
:)

]]> By: Kevin http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/approach-anxiety-be-gone/2514/#comment-33811 Kevin Thu, 10 Dec 2009 13:18:15 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2514#comment-33811 Thanx for the complient Khiem..btw..."Wanna Race?" :)~ Thanx for the complient Khiem..btw…”Wanna Race?” :) ~

]]> By: Reece http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/approach-anxiety-be-gone/2514/#comment-33808 Reece Thu, 10 Dec 2009 10:25:54 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2514#comment-33808 oh yeah and big congrats on your engagement David :-) oh yeah and big congrats on your engagement David :-)

]]> By: Reece http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/approach-anxiety-be-gone/2514/#comment-33807 Reece Thu, 10 Dec 2009 10:24:19 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=2514#comment-33807 The thing is that years of untamed monkey chatter eventually forms negative beliefs in your subconcious. When you go to approach a woman your mind automatically triggers those negative beliefs, so that even if you do acheive a fairly thought-free state of mind the underlying beliefs are still running their destructive programs in your subconcious and recalling those feelings on anxiety, inferiority, and lack of control. I think clearing your mind of monkey chatter is extremely important but if those beliefs don't change then 'real' changes wont happen. The thing is that years of untamed monkey chatter eventually forms negative beliefs in your subconcious. When you go to approach a woman your mind automatically triggers those negative beliefs, so that even if you do acheive a fairly thought-free state of mind the underlying beliefs are still running their destructive programs in your subconcious and recalling those feelings on anxiety, inferiority, and lack of control.

I think clearing your mind of monkey chatter is extremely important but if those beliefs don’t change then ‘real’ changes wont happen.

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