All Men Are Racists
April 20, 2010 
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All men are racists. That’s right, you heard me correctly. You are all a bunch of racists, every one of you.
Do I have your attention yet? Are you intrigued as to how I can possibly make that statement? Do you have any idea about what I’m talking?
You are thinking to yourself right now that you are not a racist. You have friends who are black, white, purple, yellow and green.
You are a racist though. Do you want to know why? The reason why all men are racists is because they will only talk to one race of people: pretty women.
Men think that if they just go out all day long and talk to pretty women, that they are going to understand how to communicate with people. Life doesn’t actually work that way though.
If you walk around as a racist all day long only talking to the women to whom you are most attracted, then guess what is going to happen? You will not be able to talk to those women.
The stuff that comes out of your mouth will sound like a three year old’s garble. You won’t be able to put together a full sentence.
If you want to become less of a racist and free yourself, you need to realize that talking to everyone all day long warms you up, creates traction and makes it simple to talk to those pretty women. The reason is that you will end up talking to them like you would to any other person.
That pretty woman you see will be just like any other person to you. It will help you take away the ridiculous fantasy version of her you have made up in your head. And keep in mind we all have so many different tastes so what I think is pretty you may think otherwise.
Do you want to stop being a racist and start realizing the importance of talking to everybody, or do you want to continue to walk around with the attitude that you only talk to blonds who you are attracted to?
Do you want to continue to act like you only like that one kind of woman and you hate everyone else? If you do, then when your friends ask you how many woman you’ve talked to who look like that, your answer will still be “None, because when I saw one I wanted to talk to I had no idea what to say.”
So, it’s time you stopped being a racist and started opening up your energy to people of all shapes, ages, looks and styles. Life is so much better when you expand your horizons.
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yeah, I am racist I guess. I only talk to blondes, brunettes, and redheads. Guess I need to talk to more blue-haired older ladies. lol
thanks for pointing this out, david!!
damn, i’m guilty as charged… no wonder i only had mental masturbation as a reward for such a discriminating mindset. fortunately, i can start over every day!
Very good point I never seen it that way I guess I am a racist too. I should starting talking to unusual people.
“Pretty woman” is subjective to a certain level, so let’s be clear i had to talk to that woman.
“Life is so much better when you expand your horizons.” I totally agree about this and will keep this in my mind throughout the day.
its funny how too often we can become really racist and love the twist to the blog today David:)
When we see a hot women we get so in our head about how to seduce her and what’s the perfect thing to say. But like you said if you just enjoy our self and meet everyone this should be really easy.
This is hard I think. You can’t just change right away when you have thought like this for long time.
anonymous- who said it would be easy man, it all requires some work but i tell you this the end result are amazing!
Don Juan
Its really about being open everyday and talking to everyone. Are you meeting new people?
Hey that makes me a racist as well and I gotta watch out from this bad habit of mine. So I am going talk to everyone:)
Clint
It’s a bad habit and I guess we’re all guilty of that from time to time. But seeing people beyond their beauty opens up a new level of communication and that is powerful.
JACOB- I’m going out and meeting people like you guys have prescribed me lol…At first it was kind of hard but I find it that taking baby steps really helps!!
Wygant Fan- are you into blue-haired cougars?
Diego R+R
Tomorrow is a new day and you’re discharged:)
Do you feel lot of mental masturbation when you are out to meet people?
I love when a man walks over to me and talks to me like a person not a another piece of cute ass:) I am so used to man walking up to me and always telling me how beautiful I’m. So guys be unique and be yourself. And most of really care about what women have to share and then you will not have problem about what to say next.
hahaha, hit it right home again David!
I admit: I am a racist. Another monkey-chatter thing.
But little by little, I start to talk to other people that aren’t that pretty, and they’re pretty cool!
you gotta consider everyone!
in your personal/social life, in business… everywhere!
@ Coach Jacob:
when i mentioned mental masturbation, i was referring to the fact that i’ve mostly been talking only to the attractive females at any given situation. i have been chasing when i should have been attracting. women everywhere sure can feel when a guy uses his penis for thinking! i sense my own unease as well (monkey chatter comes to mind), and it doesn’t lead to a great night for anyone involved.
the idea of creating attraction often leads to very, um, fictional outcomes (“i’m gonna walk into the bar, whisper something into that hot thing’s ear, make her laugh and then it’s EPIC WIN time!”). however, the practical experience to achieve a deep connection with someone definitely takes more time and knowledge.
blogs such as this one (and a recent one about all women having the same emotions and thoughts, looks notwithstanding) have made me realize that looks are only skin deep, and that there’s something special in everyone.
a young wannabe model i met online turned out to be shallow and ignorant after two dates. she may have dressed sexy (low-cut dress and high heels), and i may have been able to attract her (she found me online and asked me out on those dates), but i hardly think i’ll build a relationship with someone who actually thinks fruits make her fat! all i wanted to do was treat her to some ice cream…
i have experienced better results when i take charge and live in the moment, outside my head. i met this brunette at a barbecue three weeks ago. she walked in, i just went up and said “hi” (usually i think it over), offered her a drink, and we didn’t talk to anyone else for the rest of the night! we have been chatting online for about ten straight days (according to her, she feels like she’s met me before.)
this young lady may not look like she stepped off a magazine cover, but the attraction is mutual, and i feel like i can trust her. i will give ME permission to enjoys. i’m tearing down my walls. i’ve been sitting on the ladder of the dating pool’s kiddie side for much too long.
thanks for your interest, Coach Jacob! the support and knowledge i’ve found in here are priceless!
Great blog,
Talking to allot of people warms you up. Men, women, old men and women, children. Gets me into the state of just talking to anyone and so making it easier for me to talk to the attractive girls.
Hey, it isn’t my fault that the attractive women swarm me. Sure it can be insulting to be oggled like a piece of meat all the time, but that’s just the price I pay for being this good looking!
Diego R+R
You’re welcome for the interest and I’m always delighted to have you with us!
It’s interesting what you said about the wannabe model and I don’t think it will turn into something meaningful especially when she thinks fruits will make her fat:)
The brunette sounds like a cool girl for you. Now it’s time for you to step it up and not let life pass you by. Continue to tear down all the walls and you will astound yourself of what you’re really capable of!
Collin-how do you deal with all these women treating you like a piece of meat? do you let them taste some of that meat of yours? lol
Once I get them to look me in the eyes, I tell them that they can’t expect me to hop in bed with them just because they throw out some compliments, and that they at least need to buy me a drink. Then, maybe if they’re interesting enough, I might let them take me out to dinner. Not all ridiculously attractive guys are easy you know.
Collin- i love that comment by you that’s what attitude is about:) we’re men and we are a gift!
Clever title dave, yea men are racists… but so are women lol
David, so true….so are women lol.
Howe, what’s great is that most 8s and 9s have never had a guy talk to them like that. It’s so different (and confident) that they eat it up!
Collin- you’re so right about that because they are not used to guys with attitude:)
For some reason I find talking to cute girls easier than I do talking to grandma…it’s weird.
I bet eating a lot of Durian will make you fat :p.