One of the things that is so great about this blog is that it draws so many great comments, interesting dialogues, invites all sorts of opinions and perspectives, and even features great blog fights now and again. I love that this is an open forum. I love that I don’t censor my blog commenters. I love that people who post their questions and problems not only get my comments, but tons of other advice from all of you.
While there are certainly people who like to speak up more than others, or people who really have trouble staying on topic, in general it all seems to work in the end. Every once in a while, though, we have people who seem to forget that this is a blog community and not their personal blog.
Although I would never mention any names of course, anyone who read the comments on yesterday’s blog no doubt saw that we had someone who chose to try to make a point in their anger by posting their comments one word at a time. This became pretty disruptive and caused people to complain not only right in the comments, but in barrage of emails into my inbox.
We all need to be mindful of others’ opinions and that this is a community blog. When there is an amazing discussion going on, contribute . . . and don’t always feel like you need to change the conversation to be about you. When you do that, you are making others uncomfortable and throwing off the chemistry of the blog.
So to our ‘one word at a time” poster – you know who you are – please do not feel like you are being 86′d like a meatball sandwich at an Italian restaurant. You’re not being voted off the island . . . but please start being more mindful of others and try to keep your personal battles from monopolizing the blog.
If you really feel the need to work out personal issues not pertaining to the blog, and you need personal attention, then might I suggest you give coaching a try. In the meantime, keep the all the great comments coming and let’s continue to have great dialogue!
Have a great Saturday!
Sandra what the fuck is wrong with you? Let me be the first to call you out today on this. We all know that it is you who is causing this blog today. You actually caused a blog to be written about you.
Congrats are you that attention starved that you needed David to write about you?
You post some psycho babble on the blog acting like we really give a fuck about you.
You always write shit all over the blog acting like this is http://www.pyscholtrailorsandra.com
I mean really why bother.
Somethimes you have great posts and they are really amazing to read but other times you post 30 comments before anyone else can get there word in. Its time that you learned how to share and play with others. It really is not that hard. David is cool enough to let all comments up and relly if you dont have something to contribute hold back.
And one last thing. Everyone can do what you do but we learned as kids to share the playground.
I miss you Dr. Bob … Where ya been?
Oh and what you wrote … ditto!
Gauld is still not a word.
Sandra, it does seem like you have trouble playing well with others…
Maybe David’s coaching suggestion is a good one for you.
Sandra, the first day I posted was to comment about your posts. Things haven’t changed a few months later. We are not saying your mom was wrong to teach you to stand up for yourself, but not everything is a personal attack that you have to defend. We as a community are asking for the respect that we use for the blog (and I’m guilty of throwing the whole blog off track, but not everyday). Everyone has a bad day once and a while. I’ve used the blog to assert my own negative feelings and it is one of the aspects of my personality that I am actively trying to change.
One of the biggest things I have learned from David is that the more we act negative in our lives and in our connections with others, the farther away from our goals we are going to get. I was bullied A LOT as a kid growing up. I was taught to defend myself (which I did learn eventually) but more importantly I was taught to walk away when things are out of control (or run if it was violent). But when it comes to sharing words with others, I don’t believe solving your problems by making more problems is a healthy, viable, and even dare I say, Christian thing to do. God and Jesus teach about compassion. Jesus never got up once when the shit was being beaten out of him, so that 2000 years later when Sandra is upset at comments on the blog combinging with feelings of fear in her own life, she would feel guiltless about acting out on a blog cyberspace.
I am your friend now. We shared some moments on this blog and I am here to try and help you. We just want to see this community grow and evolve to be a safe place for all the people of the world who want to date. You are a part of that community and your stories can be very entertaining. But we are asking nicely for you to behave like an adult and not worry about how many times people are going to insult your posts, or how many times we can see how often Sandra posts.
Just trying to help you help us help you.
Bertie – Thought your comment on yesterday’s blog was so good that I’m pasting it on today’s in hopes that Sandra will be SURE to see it:
Oy! I see I didn’t miss much while I was gone.
Sandra, you and I have a lot in common, but you go off in such bizarre tangents, that its practically impossible to follow your point, and then you flame people, and end up looking foolish. Its a bit tedious that you hide behind your excuse of not needing validation while accusing those who you feel are detracting from you of needing validation from David. I will say that I think you’re an awesome marketing tool at this point because this entire blog looks like a a hideous motor vehicle accident, and as everyone knows, humans can’t always just pass that by. Let it go.
Isn’t there a way to screen comments before they get posted?
Thank you Bill…I occasionally have a flash of eloquence. It was never meant to be harsh. It was more about pointing out that whilst some of us have a glorious lack of sophistication, we are not narrow minded….Oh, and as long as I’m opening my thoughts on this…
What’s up with using the term cocksucker as an insult? If it weren’t for those of us who truly enjoy engaging in the particular activity, there would be a lot of unhappy men in this world!
Wow, I totally missed the drama. Of course, I’m new to the blog but how does anyone find the time to post one word at a time? I could think of a million other things I could be doing!
As I was saying all along about…
Regarding the term cocksucker, back in my glory college days, there was another student who was into dirty talk A LOT….I remember she loved to be called cocksucker and she look up and say smiling, in a naughty way, “thank you”…Oh Bertie, the memories:-)
And hello to Lindsay the Queen, very nice blog you have.
Oh Yeah Let Me Call U Out Dr. Bob number one like we don’t give a care about u does that mean David also do you speak for the whole blogging team or just yourself. So what u are saying is that Dave does not care for those he helps…..What the fuck is wrong with me is all you all have to do is sit in front of that comfounded computer of yours and look up people to hurt their feelings well let me tell you this I have received more respect from guys in real life and that is why I don’t get into online dating…So there!
I have better things to do in reality than sit back and fight with a bunch of people who have nothing to do but cause problems?
Does what Dr. Bob says mean everyone if you check some of the blogs I did not blog on some of them for I moved on to the next one…HA fooled you….How about those who want to monopolize the site well I can bring up a few names let see I received alone fifty emails from each of you and lets see each of you may have blogged more than once then I look into it again and guess what more emails from this site so when you talk about someone better look at yourself and Pete tell it to someone who gives a shit.
Well all I can say is this most of your blogs are boring and stupid so I overlook them and go on until you say the name of Sandra in them…You know something I don’t care if u hate me then that keeps you out of my business doesn’t it. Oh talking about personal stuff on the blog I read about some of the people who went out on dates and what is the question some of you ask tell us the juicy details and here I go reading them talk about yourself. Then you all have the nerve to say I am a boring writer yeah right look at yourself in the mirror before you do your typing.
David, I had hoped that Sandra’s silence was an indication that she understood the general feeling of the readers of this blog, but judging by the above comments from her, that is obviously not the case. Perhaps it may be worth putting the blog into moderation for a while in order to block these senseless comments.
FYI Sandra, what you (and everyone else) write here is called a ‘comment’. David is writing ‘blog posts’, and all of this is appearing on his ‘blog’. The only person here who is ‘blogging’ is David. I am sure you don’t mean that most of David’s posts are boring and stupid, but that is the meaning of what you have written. That said, I doubt that anyone would be influenced by anything that you write anymore – unfortunately your comments now are really only useful as entertainment value, in the same way that someone might stand by and watch the aftermath of a car smash.
Sandra, I’ve just seen that you’ve started commenting on today’s blog post. Since what you wrote is a continuation of your comments above, it would make more sense to just add them here. I don’t think its fair for you to pollute so many posts with irrelevant comments.
In my opinion I think that Dr. Bob probably does speak for the vast majority of the community here, but of course its impossible to tell. However, I’ve noticed that not one person has made a comment in support of you continuing to write irrelevant comments – perhaps you should take that as a sign that you have overstepped the mark and need to either behave like an adult or go.
Has anyone heard of the word DISCRIMINATION well it looks like the guys who made the comments about me have not been chastised and made a fool of that is right…..Since then I feel like I have been discriminated against…because I am a female vs males and who is helping David promote this Peter. Look it up in the dictionary DISCRIMINATION
To a degree this has to work both ways. I have been called an old seahag which is totally uncalled for, there have been several other Fuck this or that one. I think what Sandra is going at is that those people has not been called out in a way she has been. I think she feels she has been singled out as being the only one who has had moments that rubbed the wrong way on others.
I happen to think most what Dan’s says is funny, I am sucker for sarcasm but he is also a shitster. He knows he is pushing Sandras button and then you can argue, is that right.
In the end I personally think within reason I it’s funny with some of these off topic comments that comes from everybody. But if we have to talk censorship then it really has to go for everybody who comes with offensive comments, which I am not a fan off.
I recently went through something here that was personal for me and there I felt at the time David just made it out as a joke by putting up the War of The Roses video. Yes, my comment on it was very sarcastic. Maybe Daavid should have put his foot down there firmly too. David at this point I really don’t care off that episode, I am past it. But it’s all those little things that make Sandra feel that there is a feeling of discrimination.
When you want people to change or you feel they have offended you, its often the way you convey that message that is the most important. I am not here to say right or wrong but if you put up a blog like this towards one person, then I think you have to understand that you might really hurt the person.
It’s a great blog keep the good job.
Ultimately this is Davids blog. Him and his coaches put a lot of work into it. I think you should respect his wishes and if that is something you dont feel like, then maybe you should not post here. But just make the ‘rules’ equal for everybody.
Sandra, we can always cry discrimination when someone does something we don’t like, but in the end we all have to be responsible for our own behaviour. Your comments went well beyond what anyone else did here, so it shouldn’t be a surprise that eventually people had had enough. Its a bit concerning that you still haven’t seen how your communication annoyed other people, or made any attempt to apologise for the hate-filled things you wrote here. If someone had directed towards you the equivalent of what you wrote here, then you would have been apoplectic with rage.
Marina, I understand your point of view, and yes, there were other comments elsewhere that maybe should have been called on. However, they were never to the extent of what Sandra committed to writing.
You correctly pointed out that if you want people to change the way you convey the message is very important. Personally, I don’t know how that message could have been better directed to Sandra. I have always been polite with what I’ve written, as have most people – even Dan’s comments were much more tame than what Sandra wrote herself.
To be blunt about it, if what we read from Sandra in the past few days continues, then it is going to drag down the whole tone of the blog. I think the important thing to stress here is calibrating to the people around us. How Sandra wrote may be fine with one group of people, but I don’t think it works here. For example, if I spoke the same way around a girlfriend’s parents as I do with my friends from Australia, then I perhaps wouldn’t be a preferred choice of boyfriend.
Its all about being aware enough of your surroundings and how you’re communicating within them. We all get it wrong from time to time, but Sandra seems to get it wrong too often unfortunately.
Sandra, any respect or sympathy I had left for you went straight out the window the minute you claimed “discrimination” … Anyone who defaults to claiming discrimination in a situation where it so clearly does not exist just minimizes it in the public perspective for when REAL discrimination occurs.
On top of that, instead of taking even an iota of responsibility for causing problems on this blog, you react like a 5 year old holding her breath after being sent to stand in the corner by lashing out at David and calling his blog “boring and stupid.” If it’s so boring and stupid, then why are you spending any of your oh so valuable time reading and commenting incessantly on it?!
Marina thanks for the kind words but what exactly is a shitster?
Peter and all, why bother? I think what we should do (and I am going to do from now on) is ignore those posts and keep saying to myself only “WTF”:-)
Dan
It’s some one who likes to push buttons to get a reaction out of people. Personally I think it’s funny. You know I have a soft spot the times where I vented personal things you were one of the few you responded with empathy.
You said it will become better, still not there but I am progressing.
Damn you Peter
An Aussie boy in touch with his softer self….that’s pretty hot. (-:
Marina, –
I often joke that I had to leave Australia because the women were too ‘harsh’. 
Actually, I do like Aussie women, but they behave like men a bit too much. Women from Eastern Europe are a lot more feminine (and by that I definitely don’t mean submissive!). Its an interesting point though about having a softer side – I think its quite important for a guy to be in touch with both feminine and masculine energies if he wants to relate completely to a one. Of course I’m not talking about a complete balance between the two! 
Dan, in Australia we call that kind of person a ’shit stirrer’.
Actually, I thought your remarks were an excellent counterweight to Sandra’s ramblings. Hopefully we’ve seen the last of them, but I’m doubtful.
Peter
I totally know what you mean, I am a tomboy in class a. When I worked on Wall Street the most amazing women were to ones who were tough, but still had kept their feminine side intact. Too many went the other way and were too butch.
But really for both sexes it’s about taking the best from both sexes and create a balanced individual.
Ok I work from home….just in case I get accused of blog hogging..
Peter, “You correctly pointed out that if you want people to change, the way you convey the message is very important.”
You said this on the comment page. You can’t make people change. They have to change themselves. It is also not your responsibilty to see them make that change.
What you can do is provide posts that describe how you feel and hope that it affects the person’s views of the world and of themselves to make the change they need to make. Since I was one of the other blog offenders, I don’t see anyone continuing to tell me that I am out of line. David posted a video to describe my actions and I decided to take a look in the mirror and actively try and correct that behavior. I also was describing how I felt at the moment and that is something NO ONE does on this blog spot, excpet for Sandra. And obviously I mean when we are upset. I don’t have anyone that I can share with at this level and I appreciate and value this site for providing me a forum I can reach out to but yelling at someone is only going to create more yelling.
My advice is when Sandra acts out, don’t respond. Her mind acts like that. She is not a bad person. Just fiesty.
How would you feel if the person you are connecting with quite well, suddenly turns on you for no reason and writes about how mad it made him feel on the blog to have the urge to push away? Not too good right.
How would you feel if you try and voice your opinion in the style you are used to and the next thing you see is a bunch of comments telling you to change because you are making people feel uncomfortable with an honest voice swearing like a sailor? You don’t punish a whiny kid by putting him in the corner, that will just make him/her more whiny.
David remains neutral to a point, but he also has to listen to his forum. He only posted that blog because he knew if he didn’t it had the potential to drive people away. But he should have written an opposition blog asking the eye for an eye bloggers to come up with a new way to announce their displeasure with a fellow community member.
Everyone has a right to their voice, especially when a forum is offered to voice their opinions.
Btw, I picked up the four agreements. I’ll let you know how it is.
If we all acted with an “eye for an eye” we would all be blind.
There is a time where you might not forgive what people said or did as it hurt you but, you realise they were not acting in the way they really want to live. You forgive them for that moment.
Give Sandra time and a chance, I think she needs a little break from non nurturing comments.
Personally, once Sandra joined the blog I stopped reading the comments and only read the blog posts. I got tired of hearing incessently one person’s ramblings. It seemed like it was her personal site and we were all just visiting it. I’m glad David said something today about it because it did feel like it was at an extreme level.
Marina: no problem…about that term, guilty as charged:-)
I saw “The Reader” last night and I could not help buy cry (just a little, hope noone saw me!)…does that make me a male with a soft spot:-)
Mike, the decision for people to change is up to them, and them alone. But there is nothing wrong with holding up a mirror to someone’s behaviour, which is essentially what I and a number of other people have done in this instance. I think its fair that there are rules for being part of a community, and constantly spamming blog posts with irrelevant comments that often make no sense shouldn’t be encouraged.
I have to disagree with a lot of what you wrote. As there were a few things you said that didn’t make sense to me (and as I’m short on time), I’ll only refer to a couple here. Firstly, if someone’s ‘honest voice’ is them telling someone else who made a reasonable point that they’re a ‘cocksucker’, what sort of honesty is that? is it ok to just call someone whatever you want because you’re being authentic with your ‘honest voice’? If I was to use my ‘honest voice’ it would sound a lot less polite than I do now!
Secondly, you mention yelling a couple of times – perhaps you could let me know when I did this? I guess you may be referring to someone else’s ‘WTF’ comments, but at least with that its quick and to the point, not some endless ramble.
Finally, I don’t think the whiny child analogy works in the quite the way you’d like. If you’re having a good conversation with other adults and a kid comes into the room demanding, screaming for attention, do you then start doing the same in order to make the kid feel more comfortable? No, you point out that you’re having an adult conversation, and that if they want to join in they have to behave like an adult.
For your part, you accepted that there was a message for you, looked at it and came back and apologised for your previous communication. What we’re hoping for is that Sandra will do the same.
Dan
That might be pushing it a bit
I disagree.
You are reading what you want to read out of my post.
Don’t treat her like a child, is my advice. Treat her like an adult.
I’m going to stop reading the blog because I think all of this is kind of ridiculous. I came here to find a community that I could believe in and while I believe in David fully, I have to let this part of the experience go. I’m not interested in hearing opinions. I want to hear voices and no one is willing to let theirs speak. We all want to feel safe. I didn’t come here to feel safe, I came here to feel challenged.
Enjoy the blog. I’m sure Sandra will leave you alone and let you have your “adult” conversation if you ask her nicely next time. That’s what I did and now I consider her a friend.
You guys were ready to walk over Sandra, but you pushed me away instead. This reminds me of high school, not an adult conversation.
Oh I see what I have wrote ruffled some feathers and no one called down Dr. Bob lets see first things is first right! Lets see what I have found from this blog:
People who will go as far as to get others off the blog even if it means getting David’s attention but still I fee like I have been an object of ridicule, abuse from those who don’t know me in real life and another thing it was not against what David blogs it is against his bloggers so my comments don’t mean a thing Dr. Bob! Who is we: meaning everyone who does not want me here how do you base your findings oh I plan on doing my homework once I am off this computer. It does not bother me what David said he might be trying to figure out what is wrong with me but maybe he did not mean it to be for the bloggers to use me as target practice….But I will see what my homework tells for I do have legal rights in this Country…Oh Pete Welcome to the United States where women are treated equal and not like dogs or cattle or breading purposes.
Sandra, there’s no point in rebutting your comments. If you seriously think you have legal resource for something someone wrote here then you are living in a fantasy world. All I can advise you is that ‘if you keep doing what you’ve always done, then you’ll keep getting what you’ve always gotten’. Start taking responsibility for your own actions instead of blaming others for the reactions you’re getting.
Mike, you’re a smart guy, so its a surprise when you write things like you’ve written. I don’t think anyone has treated Sandra like a child, but that is how she is communicating. Anyway, its clear she’ll never get the message, so its up to David as to whether or not he wants the comments section of the blog to be drawn down to the lowest common denominator. For my part I’m thoroughly bored by this now. The silly thing is that I could see that it was quite pointless getting involved in this – there is rarely anything good to be gained from ‘feeding the troll’. I think I should have stuck with Dan’s one liners – they were funny and to the point.
Oh since I can freely blog and I am the star of this blog:
Bill
I don’t care about what you said about loosing respect for me the last person who said that to me left five years ago…to go and sleep with his sister…..One night I caught him on the web cam jacking off while his sister watched and when I came into the room she was getting herself ready for you talk about that guy loosing respect from me….In other words what is respect or disrespect according to you? You don’t even know me….I have two daughters and he went after my oldest one guess what he went after her physically and sexually….Talking about disrespecting the family name…Lets see ye without sin cast that first stone…So I would not be throwing any stones at any windows soon…Lets see I see a halo with devil horns sticking out of that head are you saying that you are better than I.
Dr Bob
You just been hired on as David speaker and this blog when you said WE! and you agree with Peter about all that was said about me is that called harassment.
David
I thought this blog was going to be where we can get along not fight like kids and when women come here the men don’t make comments about us leaving because they don’t like what we said…Maybe the foreign guys better wake up they are now in my Country and women do have rights like when you hit a woman look out jail time.
Dr Bob
In the Constitution of the United States did I read we the people I am sure you know the definition of we: So what I understand is what you are saying We the people of this blog hereby state Sandra has no right to comment or comment as much as the blog will allow since I have seen men blog on this site more than I have….So that means women are silent and not allowed? So you speak for David all the way down to the last blogger on this site…Well is that not a discriminatory remarks you just made when you blasted me…Well I just wait and see what happens next….Men are allowed to blog more on this site than women.
Sandra,
You really are starting to sound like you are “losing it” … and you really do sound like a child who has been sent to the corner and who is holding their breath until they turn blue.
Incest?! Harrassment?! The Constitution?!
You have some serious issues — and, frankly, you are very hypocritical. You trumpet the free flow of ideas and rail against any censorship on comments in this blog unless someone dares say “boo” about yours….Hmmmm…..
Sandra, guess you didn’t listen to my advice off blog either.
Peter, I am quite intelligent. I have my own orbit, in fact. But the point I was trying to make to you, you seem to have stumbled into on your own. You can’t beat a dead horse, so why bother picking up the stick? You can’t feed negative energy with more negative energy, it is a recipe for backfire. Just like you can’t cure loneliness but trying to close yourself off even more, and that is my lot in life right now.
David, I was just expressing myself through a description of action. I’ll still read the blog, it’s too damn good to pass up.
Hi all,
I discovered this blog quite recently and about a week ago left a comment on the post regarding men needing friend’s approval or opinions on how they spend their time with a woman. Since then, I have steered away from commenting – and sometimes even reading altogether – because the tone of the comments seems to be hostile, defensive, and at times overly personal. I was hoping this was an exception rather than the rule…hopefully your post here will help clear the air. It seems to be a good forum to discuss advice, and ideas, for communication in dating/relationships, but reading all the attacks and defensiveness against imagined slights is, frankly, kind of tedious.
Oh come on… can’t we all get along? I have some sugar candy, anyone want some?
Kelly,
Don’t let the “drama” from the last few days dissuade you from reading this blog. My suggestion is to do a little search through some of the past blogs and see that what David is writing is worth reading — even if that means having to ignore the commments now and again
Mike
I did read ur blog earlier this but I had to get some thoughts out of my head first and not post them on the blog that is how I deal with issues but thank you for your advice though…
I know what the problem is:
When someone says something don’t keep up the shit! When you do it keeps that flame of the sagebrush going and going so the best thing to do is drop. If no one would say my name then I wont pay you attention speak my name and I will come back with whatever comes to mind I just happen to be an outspoken person.
Oh David where was that blog about communication I need some skills by now or do I have to go and wake up Christian Carter oh matter of fact I did receive an email from your long lost buddy of the inside the mind of a man loved that pretend meatloaf….UM UM
Lots Of Laughs
Sandra, any chase you could explain what this means -
“… I did receive an email from your long lost buddy of the inside the mind of a man loved that pretend meatloaf”
I swear that has to be one of the most surreal sentences I’ve read in a long time ….
my bad, any CHANCE you could explain …
Bill and Peter what were you saying I must have had my eyes shut for that one and if I was going to do anything legal one of you better be threatening to come to TN to kill my family.
My dad owns his own business and I think to myself how would I fell if someone did that to him…and another thing losing it better get an education in law did you know I can do your book work and your payroll I was once the Secretary of Records for The United States Coast Guard Auxilliary…Did you know I could set in one of David’s bootcamps and do the minutes of the meeting hey I am no dumb dumb….I have been blinded by the light wrapped up like a douche in the roller of the night blinded by the light….She went down but she never lost time she is going to make it through the night…I want to hear some tunes David can you put some tunes on your blogs I am in Heaven…….Oh something my dad said to me if you wrong someone it will come back to you and let me tell you it does
Peter – your comment cracked me up!
Peter
When will you ever learn…;)
Peter
David was a guest speaker at one of the conferences of Christian Carter’s and that is between me and Dave just thought I would remind him he said something about Communication Secrets….Oh Chris Carter helps women just like Dave they are too damn good…..I thought Love was prison a place I did not want to be not long ago I made decision to be footloose and fancy free now you came and I was so tempted together in love just one time I never thought I would get caught it seemed like a perfect crime baby you left defenseless I am guilty of Love In The First Degree…Alabama
Oh Peter
I am going to put you on the ignore list like I have Dan The Original on Ignore Pete Ignore Pete…..
Marina
Ignore Peter list he sounds like DTO
OH DTO my darling where are you come to ur momma
Sandra
Peter is alright he is just too used to being exotic flavor in Prague….
Sandra
Are you drunk?
This is starting to sound crazier and crazier.
Believe it or not, I start writing a book on productivity and time management this week, so this is like that last guilty tub of ice cream before the diet to end all diets.
“Bill and Peter what were you saying I must have had my eyes shut for that one and if I was going to do anything legal one of you better be threatening to come to TN to kill my family.”
I can’t keep track of what you write, so I’m not surprised that you have a difficulty remembering. As for Tennessee, I’m sure its a most interesting place to visit, but its not part of my immediate travel plans.
No Dave
But something wonderful happened to me today the guy that I care for does this to me when I see him…He takes away my blues and worries with his smile…
“Peter is alright he is just too used to being exotic flavor in Prague….’
Marina, judging by the people I have heard about from TN, I suspect that I’d be considered exotic there as well. I remember what happened to that fat guy in Deliverance, so I’d be quite wary ….
Peter
On a productivity scale blogg’in here will be considered…Uh lets see a wild guess, wait wait I almost got it yes there it is inefficient.
I just caught up on the posts and still shaking my head:-)
Oh DTO
Did you come out for your momma my lover boy I have a song for you though Taylor Swift: Another Picture To Burn so what the fuck
Ya know, David always has enlightening posts about relationships and human nature but the only problem I see in the years of having been in a number of forums is that there is always
a few people who are having a crappy day (or life) then they want to come and spew their vomit all over the place to mess things up for everyone else and then there is the constant flame wars that
are everywhere. It gets to the point where most forums tend to be a complete waste of time.
Life is too short.
Times like these… I have to hang my head down in shame for being a woman… Please guys understand… we are NOT ALL NUTS !!! Thanks….