Comments on: A Limited Environment http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/a-limited-environment/1308/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Thu, 17 May 2012 06:51:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: JasonChaos28 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/a-limited-environment/1308/#comment-23640 JasonChaos28 Sun, 22 Feb 2009 14:46:51 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1308#comment-23640 Fun and playful in a bar is definitely the key. There are a few things to keep in mind though about girls in bars. First of all...dont worry about if they think you are hitting on them...they already know you are. Second..you are at a complete disadvantage at bars, night clubs etc etc, like I said before they already know you are hitting on them, girls get approached by a lot of tools at bars so you might run into a lot of resistence at first..like david said, challenge her. The third thing to keep in mind is dont take rejection to heart at a bar. As i stated before you're already at a disadvantage, but then you have to add on to the fact that a lot of girls go to bars to have fun with their "girls", grind on guys and get some attention, a few may be looking for some booty or a one night stand..but not too many look for a boyfriend at a bar. Im not saying that to discourage you by any means. You should approach immediately when you see a girl you wanna talk to or are attracted to. But keeping these things in mind helps you get in the right playful mindset. Fun and playful in a bar is definitely the key. There are a few things to keep in mind though about girls in bars. First of all…dont worry about if they think you are hitting on them…they already know you are. Second..you are at a complete disadvantage at bars, night clubs etc etc, like I said before they already know you are hitting on them, girls get approached by a lot of tools at bars so you might run into a lot of resistence at first..like david said, challenge her. The third thing to keep in mind is dont take rejection to heart at a bar. As i stated before you’re already at a disadvantage, but then you have to add on to the fact that a lot of girls go to bars to have fun with their “girls”, grind on guys and get some attention, a few may be looking for some booty or a one night stand..but not too many look for a boyfriend at a bar. Im not saying that to discourage you by any means. You should approach immediately when you see a girl you wanna talk to or are attracted to. But keeping these things in mind helps you get in the right playful mindset.

]]> By: Khiem (DW Coach) http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/a-limited-environment/1308/#comment-23214 Khiem (DW Coach) Mon, 16 Feb 2009 21:23:32 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1308#comment-23214 I don't mind bars. I still go to them but I like lounges better. I don't look at bars as a place to seriousliy meet people. I look at bars as a place for me to have fun at the detriment of other people.. lol j/k. I just look at bars as a place to have fun with random and new people. By thinking like that, I take all pressure of talking to someone b/c all I do is entertain myself first. If they are lucky, they can join in the fun with me :P I don’t mind bars. I still go to them but I like lounges better.

I don’t look at bars as a place to seriousliy meet people. I look at bars as a place for me to have fun at the detriment of other people.. lol j/k.

I just look at bars as a place to have fun with random and new people. By thinking like that, I take all pressure of talking to someone b/c all I do is entertain myself first. If they are lucky, they can join in the fun with me :P

]]> By: Tony888 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/a-limited-environment/1308/#comment-23208 Tony888 Mon, 16 Feb 2009 20:40:18 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1308#comment-23208 But I do have great ideas for a solution to the Israel/Palestine issue and I want to try my ideas out on barhopping girls before I present these proposals to the President & Sec'y of State. You know how smart & deep those party girls are? Tongue firmly in cheek here. But I do have great ideas for a solution to the Israel/Palestine issue and I want to try my ideas out on barhopping girls before I present these proposals to the President & Sec’y of State. You know how smart & deep those party girls are? Tongue firmly in cheek here.

]]> By: Vlad http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/a-limited-environment/1308/#comment-23196 Vlad Mon, 16 Feb 2009 05:06:41 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1308#comment-23196 >> Would you stop texting me? I'm here. You can talk to me now! haha. I just wrote this one down in my journal. I love it and I am fully intending on stealing it. A healthy arsenal of playful lines like these are great, since women are texting ALL the time at bars. ... >> Client: So when you go up and do the “I read today in the paper” thing, do you think that in her head she’s immediately thinking that you’re hitting on her? Does she know that it’s just an opener I think most clubs and bars are meant to be a flirt fest. There is absolutely no need to hide your intentions. The "motivations" are crystal clear and all implied. It's expected for women to be approached and it's expected for guys to do the approaching. Most people don't go to clubs for the ear deafening music, $12 long islands and poorly lit corners. And women know you aren't there to debate the causes of global warming and how to spread peace in the middle east. =P >> Would you stop texting me? I’m here. You can talk to me now!

haha. I just wrote this one down in my journal. I love it and I am fully intending on stealing it. A healthy arsenal of playful lines like these are great, since women are texting ALL the time at bars.

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>> Client: So when you go up and do the “I read today in the paper” thing, do you think that in her head she’s immediately thinking that you’re hitting on her? Does she know that it’s just an opener

I think most clubs and bars are meant to be a flirt fest. There is absolutely no need to hide your intentions. The “motivations” are crystal clear and all implied. It’s expected for women to be approached and it’s expected for guys to do the approaching. Most people don’t go to clubs for the ear deafening music, $12 long islands and poorly lit corners. And women know you aren’t there to debate the causes of global warming and how to spread peace in the middle east. =P

]]> By: Sandra http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/a-limited-environment/1308/#comment-23172 Sandra Sun, 15 Feb 2009 05:08:05 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1308#comment-23172 Tony Don't be so down on yourself. See I made the first ice breaker. Lets see the guys I work with speak to me sometimes about things that are usually happening at the store or their families. I sometimes will speak first to the guy if I have something to talk about with them. Tony
Don’t be so down on yourself. See I made the first ice breaker. Lets see the guys I work with speak to me sometimes about things that are usually happening at the store or their families. I sometimes will speak first to the guy if I have something to talk about with them.

]]> By: Tony888 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/a-limited-environment/1308/#comment-23169 Tony888 Sun, 15 Feb 2009 03:48:44 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1308#comment-23169 To K: Hey, if the women want to initiate the "first contact" instead, that's fine. No complaints from me and it takes the pressure off of me. Go for it! :) But at least 9/10 times that doesn't happen, and it falls on the men to make the approach, or in this case, initiate the conversation in the airport or plane. And because I'm a lot more plain than handsome, that makes it even more unlikely. If I looked like Brad Pitt, I couldn't fight you and 10,000 other women off(not that I would want to). But since I look like I do, it'll never happen. That's why I'm here. And honest to God, I don't know if there's any hope for me. To K:

Hey, if the women want to initiate the “first contact” instead, that’s fine. No complaints from me and it takes the pressure off of me. Go for it! :)

But at least 9/10 times that doesn’t happen, and it falls on the men to make the approach, or in this case, initiate the conversation in the airport or plane. And because I’m a lot more plain than handsome, that makes it even more unlikely. If I looked like Brad Pitt, I couldn’t fight you and 10,000 other women off(not that I would want to). But since I look like I do, it’ll never happen. That’s why I’m here. And honest to God, I don’t know if there’s any hope for me.

]]> By: K http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/a-limited-environment/1308/#comment-23164 K Sun, 15 Feb 2009 03:03:53 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1308#comment-23164 Tony - does that mean that you have to make the first move and/or that you don't want women initiating the "first contact?" Tony – does that mean that you have to make the first move and/or that you don’t want women initiating the “first contact?”

]]> By: K http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/a-limited-environment/1308/#comment-23163 K Sun, 15 Feb 2009 02:56:07 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1308#comment-23163 DanTheOriginal - Heading to California for pleasure to visit one of my siblings. But geez, after what you wrote, I may not be able to face anyone without thinking of that and busting out laughing! DanTheOriginal – Heading to California for pleasure to visit one of my siblings. But geez, after what you wrote, I may not be able to face anyone without thinking of that and busting out laughing!

]]> By: Tony http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/a-limited-environment/1308/#comment-23147 Tony Sat, 14 Feb 2009 18:52:57 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1308#comment-23147 I think a better question for the guys at least would be for the women here to tell us what they would like us to say in striking up a conversation for chit-chat at the airport, or better yet, on the plane during that 2+hr flight. I think a better question for the guys at least would be for the women here to tell us what they would like us to say in striking up a conversation for chit-chat at the airport, or better yet, on the plane during that 2+hr flight.

]]> By: DanTheOriginal http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/a-limited-environment/1308/#comment-23143 DanTheOriginal Sat, 14 Feb 2009 14:52:28 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=1308#comment-23143 Airports: So, where are you heading to? Flying for business or pleasure? Let me guess...both:-) (smiling while having images of the person you are talking to masturbating and screaming your name". I honestly don't remember the last time was in a bar! Airports:

So, where are you heading to?
Flying for business or pleasure? Let me guess…both:-) (smiling while having images of the person you are talking to masturbating and screaming your name”.

I honestly don’t remember the last time was in a bar!

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