Comments on: 5 Ways Your Lifestyle Makes You Instantly Attractive http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/5-ways-your-lifestyle-can-make-you-instantly-more-attractive/621/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Thu, 17 May 2012 06:51:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Robert http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/5-ways-your-lifestyle-can-make-you-instantly-more-attractive/621/#comment-59246 Robert Tue, 08 Nov 2011 03:32:20 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=621#comment-59246 Excellent advice David, it helped alot. I find this a huge step how I interact with others :) Excellent advice David, it helped alot. I find this a huge step how I interact with others :)

]]> By: Bob http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/5-ways-your-lifestyle-can-make-you-instantly-more-attractive/621/#comment-58682 Bob Sun, 30 Oct 2011 15:11:12 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=621#comment-58682 Although a rehash of former blogs, this information is excellent,and cannot be repeated enough. all one really needs to improve their lives, and start living happily and attracting people, is contained above. Unfortunately number one, is the hardestto implement and put into effect, especially in a hard economy. I worked at a job for 12 years, that I hated, before I could finally make a move, open my own businesses, become independent, and begin to live as I do now. I needed the job, to support my eventual plans of being independent, and living the lifestyle I truly wanted, which took that long to attain. If you have a miserable job, that you wake up every morning, and loath, the rest of your life will be miserable, as well. With responsibilities, it is impossible to quit your job, and make a move, sometimes for years. So if you are stuck in that situation, begin working toward getting out of it, whether it requires more education, or just time to save up and attain the independence you will eventually gain. Sometimes you have to stick it out, be miserable for a while, and just remember why you are doing it and the eventual payoff from all your efforts. Do not make a hasty move, quit your job, just to make a lateral move to perhaps an even worst position, that will make you even more unhappy. Although a rehash of former blogs, this information is excellent,and cannot be repeated enough. all one really needs to improve their lives, and start living happily and attracting people, is contained above. Unfortunately number one, is the hardestto implement and put into effect, especially in a hard economy. I worked at a job for 12 years, that I hated, before I could finally make a move, open my own businesses, become independent, and begin to live as I do now. I needed the job, to support my eventual plans of being independent, and living the lifestyle I truly wanted, which took that long to attain. If you have a miserable job, that you wake up every morning, and loath, the rest of your life will be miserable, as well. With responsibilities, it is impossible to quit your job, and make a move, sometimes for years. So if you are stuck in that situation, begin working toward getting out of it, whether it requires more education, or just time to save up and attain the independence you will eventually gain. Sometimes you have to stick it out, be miserable for a while, and just remember why you are doing it and the eventual payoff from all your efforts. Do not make a hasty move, quit your job, just to make a lateral move to perhaps an even worst position, that will make you even more unhappy.

]]> By: brede http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/5-ways-your-lifestyle-can-make-you-instantly-more-attractive/621/#comment-56199 brede Sun, 25 Sep 2011 22:47:07 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=621#comment-56199 Hi there David. Im an 17 year old young man living in norway. and ive got the problem probably many other has too. Ive got this girl, im really into her, but hen i hang out with her i just cant find anything to talk about so there "akward silences" always apear. Im always nervous and insecure on what she will think of me. Im trying my very best to seem confident, but inside me im a wreck ready to sink... Please respond :) Hi there David.
Im an 17 year old young man living in norway. and ive got the problem probably many other has too. Ive got this girl, im really into her, but hen i hang out with her i just cant find anything to talk about so there “akward silences” always apear. Im always nervous and insecure on what she will think of me. Im trying my very best to seem confident, but inside me im a wreck ready to sink… Please respond :)

]]> By: Dale http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/5-ways-your-lifestyle-can-make-you-instantly-more-attractive/621/#comment-54223 Dale Sat, 03 Sep 2011 23:31:55 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=621#comment-54223 If you constantly put yourself into uncomfortable situations, you will get much more confident and calm. You'll know how to handle any interaction because your used to it. This can be extended to meeting people, even more specifically, women because you will actually be able to have a genuine conversation without being nervous or worried about what to say, if that was an issue before. If you constantly put yourself into uncomfortable situations, you will get much more confident and calm. You’ll know how to handle any interaction because your used to it.

This can be extended to meeting people, even more specifically, women because you will actually be able to have a genuine conversation without being nervous or worried about what to say, if that was an issue before.

]]> By: Michael Brown http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/5-ways-your-lifestyle-can-make-you-instantly-more-attractive/621/#comment-54124 Michael Brown Fri, 02 Sep 2011 13:08:14 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=621#comment-54124 I like what you have to say, I live a lifestyle that has taken many years to find. Working in a job that makes me talk to everyone that comes in. This has helped me become a more open person, I have learned not to care someone doesn't like me. There many out there that do see me has the person I am. And doing things that you want to do, just for you does help show others that you are someone that would be fun to meet. I like what you have to say, I live a lifestyle that has taken many years to find. Working in a job that makes me talk to everyone that comes in. This has helped me become a more open person, I have learned not to care someone doesn’t like me. There many out there that do see me has the person I am. And doing things that you want to do, just for you does help show others that you are someone that would be fun to meet.

]]> By: Thomas (Intern) http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/5-ways-your-lifestyle-can-make-you-instantly-more-attractive/621/#comment-53009 Thomas (Intern) Mon, 22 Aug 2011 23:31:50 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=621#comment-53009 It's really all about excelling in all areas of your life. Even if you can attract woman, the high quality ones won't stay if you don't have an attractive lifestyle. Workout, buy some cool clothes, find work you love, and be around people that excite you about life. Does a girl really want to be around an out of shape, poorly dressed, guy who hates his job and is sick of his friends? If you have a lifestyle that your happy with, you will naturally become a more attractive person to yourself and that will translate to your dating life. It’s really all about excelling in all areas of your life. Even if you can attract woman, the high quality ones won’t stay if you don’t have an attractive lifestyle.

Workout, buy some cool clothes, find work you love, and be around people that excite you about life. Does a girl really want to be around an out of shape, poorly dressed, guy who hates his job and is sick of his friends? If you have a lifestyle that your happy with, you will naturally become a more attractive person to yourself and that will translate to your dating life.

]]> By: Dale N (Intern) http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/5-ways-your-lifestyle-can-make-you-instantly-more-attractive/621/#comment-52747 Dale N (Intern) Wed, 17 Aug 2011 23:28:20 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=621#comment-52747 Self-love, loving yourself is key to being successful with women, and to live with confidence and display that everyday of your life. When you are busy with different things, whether it be work, extracurriculars, music, whatever it may be, enjoying what you do and displaying yourself in the best ways is how you will attract everyone around you. People always watch others who are having a great time, and they really want to be involved in it. Couple of days ago, afew of my friends and myself went dowtown toronto to "bar hop". We started ordering a bunch of drinks at the bar and ended up all trying our very first, "irish car bomb" (Baileys dropped in Guinness - its pretty good). After we finished the drink, a women approach us and said "what were you guys doing, you guys seemed to really enjoy those drinks". Granted we didn't speak with this women again throughout the course of the night , however, the whole idea of creating a great time on your own, and others being instantly attracted to that is truly what works. Self-love, loving yourself is key to being successful with women, and to live with confidence and display that everyday of your life. When you are busy with different things, whether it be work, extracurriculars, music, whatever it may be, enjoying what you do and displaying yourself in the best ways is how you will attract everyone around you. People always watch others who are having a great time, and they really want to be involved in it.

Couple of days ago, afew of my friends and myself went dowtown toronto to “bar hop”. We started ordering a bunch of drinks at the bar and ended up all trying our very first, “irish car bomb” (Baileys dropped in Guinness – its pretty good). After we finished the drink, a women approach us and said “what were you guys doing, you guys seemed to really enjoy those drinks”.

Granted we didn’t speak with this women again throughout the course of the night , however, the whole idea of creating a great time on your own, and others being instantly attracted to that is truly what works.

]]> By: Mary http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/5-ways-your-lifestyle-can-make-you-instantly-more-attractive/621/#comment-52710 Mary Wed, 17 Aug 2011 09:28:28 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=621#comment-52710 Speaking of lifestyles... I am a 21 year old southern belle from Alabama. I LOVE to go out with my friends to flirt and party like any normal college student but the problem is living in a "Bar stool or Church Pew kinda town." I do not live in some little ghost town though. I live right outside a small city with bars/clubs to meet people at but it is still a place where the whole town knows anything and everything about you. Because I live in a small city, going to the bars almost every weekend are the only thing to do and I know about half the people anywhere we go, which is good for networking, but I am having no luck!I go out to look good and feel good being out on the town with friends hoping to find that someone but seems like every guy that ever seems interested only wants a ride home and/or for me to sleep with. I have talked to family about never feeling wanted by guys other than to have as a piece of tail or a ride home! They say it is because I am in the wrong atmosphere to meet a good guy because usually on the weekends I am at a bar (Keep in mind I live near the bible belt). But that is where everyone goes to hangout and I have fun there but is it ruining my chances in finding someone that isn't just looking for one thing? I don't want to be thought of as a Bar Queen! I don't dress nor act sleazy. The only thing to get easy out of me is a conversation. I never drink and get sloppy because I am out to look good and meet men. I listen to Davids blogs and emails all the time and I feel like I am attractive and a damn good catch but this consistency of being treated like this is really making me feel insecure. I know I am young but most of my friends are settling down and getting married and I am always the "single friend." I am in no rush, just wanting to find love and I am afraid I am not meeting the kind of men I want to meet by going out to have drinks on the weekend in a small judgemental town? Speaking of lifestyles…

I am a 21 year old southern belle from Alabama. I LOVE to go out with my friends to flirt and party like any normal college student but the problem is living in a “Bar stool or Church Pew kinda town.” I do not live in some little ghost town though. I live right outside a small city with bars/clubs to meet people at but it is still a place where the whole town knows anything and everything about you.

Because I live in a small city, going to the bars almost every weekend are the only thing to do and I know about half the people anywhere we go, which is good for networking, but I am having no luck!I go out to look good and feel good being out on the town with friends hoping to find that someone but seems like every guy that ever seems interested only wants a ride home and/or for me to sleep with.

I have talked to family about never feeling wanted by guys other than to have as a piece of tail or a ride home! They say it is because I am in the wrong atmosphere to meet a good guy because usually on the weekends I am at a bar (Keep in mind I live near the bible belt). But that is where everyone goes to hangout and I have fun there but is it ruining my chances in finding someone that isn’t just looking for one thing? I don’t want to be thought of as a Bar Queen! I don’t dress nor act sleazy. The only thing to get easy out of me is a conversation. I never drink and get sloppy because I am out to look good and meet men. I listen to Davids blogs and emails all the time and I feel like I am attractive and a damn good catch but this consistency of being treated like this is really making me feel insecure.

I know I am young but most of my friends are settling down and getting married and I am always the “single friend.” I am in no rush, just wanting to find love and I am afraid I am not meeting the kind of men I want to meet by going out to have drinks on the weekend in a small judgemental town?

]]> By: Sarah Grace http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/5-ways-your-lifestyle-can-make-you-instantly-more-attractive/621/#comment-48125 Sarah Grace Sun, 17 Apr 2011 16:52:11 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=621#comment-48125 pratik, as a woman, the only thing i can say is, well, besides following this blog post's advice, just *go up to her*. find a woman who seems receptive, who isnt too occupied with her girlfriends. notice something about her that makes her unique. where is she? is she sitting down? ask her if the seat beside her is taken. is she reading a book? ask her what it's about. compliment her hair. (i have complete strangers come up to me at the mall and say "i just wanted to tell you, you have gorgeous hair.") make her laugh and then say what a beautiful smile she has. on another blog post david shared that it's important to just go up to people, same sex, opposite sex, attractive and unattractive. if that girl that you want to talk to sees you having a good time talking to other people, or just having fun without being an idiot, she'll want to talk to you. hint hint many of us girls notice immediately if a guy is good with children. so play with children in the park, THEN go buy a lemonade and chat with some of the women that surely noticed ;) pratik, as a woman, the only thing i can say is, well, besides following this blog post’s advice, just *go up to her*. find a woman who seems receptive, who isnt too occupied with her girlfriends.

notice something about her that makes her unique. where is she? is she sitting down? ask her if the seat beside her is taken. is she reading a book? ask her what it’s about. compliment her hair. (i have complete strangers come up to me at the mall and say “i just wanted to tell you, you have gorgeous hair.”) make her laugh and then say what a beautiful smile she has.

on another blog post david shared that it’s important to just go up to people, same sex, opposite sex, attractive and unattractive. if that girl that you want to talk to sees you having a good time talking to other people, or just having fun without being an idiot, she’ll want to talk to you.

hint hint many of us girls notice immediately if a guy is good with children. so play with children in the park, THEN go buy a lemonade and chat with some of the women that surely noticed ;)

]]> By: Pratik http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/5-ways-your-lifestyle-can-make-you-instantly-more-attractive/621/#comment-48119 Pratik Sun, 17 Apr 2011 07:06:34 +0000 http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/?p=621#comment-48119 Can anyone tell me how to connect to a woman at a public place?I notice attractive girls mostly at public places in Mumbai but I get nervous while approaching them. Can anyone tell me how to connect to a woman at a public place?I notice attractive girls mostly at public places in Mumbai but I get nervous while approaching them.

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