5 Ways To Get Her Wet And Hot Tonight!!
January 19, 2008 
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Get Her Hot Now By David Wygant
Most men spend there lives trying to get lucky. They get drunk they met a woman and one night it happens they get lucky and have sex and at the same time they think it was some new found rap that they learned or some skill after all these years that surfaced for that night.
But in reality they met a woman that was in need of some sex and they happened to not ruin it by saying anything stupid that night.
Yes, most men tend to talk themselves out of the bedroom. They spend the whole night pushing her away instead of pulling her in.
Sex is only great with a woman when it is her idea! You need to learn the art of teasing in order to have a great sex with a woman.
Here are 5 quick tips that will get her excited to jump into bed with you:
1. Listen to what she has to say. You need to stop thinking about what to say next and spend some time listening to her so you can form an emotional attachment.
2. Sex starts in her mind. By listening to her and having an amazing conversation with her you will be different than 95% of the other guys who she has spoken to. The more she talks the more you listen and react the greater chance of you having great sex with her.
3. Be a gentleman and don’t act like you have not had sex in 10 years. Sex for women is all about being connected to you in an emotional way. Women get all turned off by men that come on way too strong so be a bit mysterious and she will be wanting to explore more of you.
4. Don’t get her drunk and invite her back to your place. Have a drink or two with her and send her home and give her a slow sweet tender kiss. Don’t plunge the tongue deep inside her mouth. You need to always do the opposite of what most men do and learning some self-control will allow her mood to percolate and get turned on to you.
5. Send her a hot text in the middle of the day. Something simple but something that brings her back to the moment from the night before.
Last night was fun….looking forward to our next conversation…..oh and the kiss was not bad either:)
It needs to be something that is playful and fun.
You need to learn how to take control of the situation and really intrigue and turn on her mind.
Let me know if you want more details and we can talk about this and how to have great sex in other postings.
Before you have any sex you will need to learn how to seduce that dream girl and todays video shows just that.
You’re doing a great job.keep it up………please i will still more tips on how to seduce woman in oder to have sex with her.this my email…rose2se@yahoo.com. thank …..good day.
Hey David,
Sounds good, thanks and looking forward to it. After writing
yesterday, I downloaded the podcast you did with AJ and Co. last week.
It’s as advertised…amazing! You guys covered a lot of stuff related
to my questions, it was fantastic.
As a Chargers fan, I’m starting to feel pretty nervous about Sunday, so
to get my mind off it, I’ll give the new stuff from the podcast a
serious go this weekend. Have a great weekend and thanks again!
Evan
Hey hey Alasco… you just cut straight to the chase don’t ya
try taking her out for minigolf first buddy! ;P
Hey David,
great video. I notice that objectifying a woman can literally kill your approach from inside. And I guess I’m doing that a lot. But it’s kind of automatic – any tricks on how to stop your mind fucking you by automatically putting every hot girl on a pedestal?
Markus
Marcus,
what helps me, is to automatically think that she is already my friend, a normal human being like me. Just give her a dirty smile and come over and start a conversation based on previous observation. That’s it, live the moment, listen to her and have fun.
I still have problems with this monkey cheddar in my head, but its getting better
Hi David-
After you do these kinds of things you wrote about and have a good first date and conversation, what do you recommend doing to follow it up? Call or text the next day? Wait a little bit? I want to get better at turning good first dates into more.
Markus,
“objectifying a woman can literally kill your approach from inside”.
Man, well put!
I have done that so many times. Now that I think about it, the times I have done the opposite, i have thought something like… that girl is nervous around me, she likes me and she doesn’t want to appear too obvious, too without control.
And objectifying men does the same thing to us women, too, Markus.
The thing about what David is outlining for men to do when approaching women is that these are not “tricks of the trade”. They have to be genuine, who you are, or this stuff won’t work. It will come off as pick up, insincere, etc. It’s gotta be who you are.
Bria
Markus,
Putting every hot girl automatically on a pedestal is a self-confidence issue. You want to believe in yourself and believe that you are hot shit. However, confidence is slow to develop so telling you that right now won’t help you as much.
So how about you change the way you interpret things, the way you perceive things. Start trying to see every hot woman for the person they are. If you see the real person behind the “hot package”, then you’ll see they are just like you and me… with real feelings, with real emotions, with real hopes and dreams… etc.
Also, you can take on a different attitude when you approach women. Don’t try to “GET” something from her because she’s so hot, but think about what you can provide her or give her as a gift. What makes her so worthy of your presence or gift?
Bria!
Totally right– objectifying a man, kills the inner game too.
Really, in the past I’ve found that most people I find intimidating? They aren’t trying to intimidate me, I’ve put them on a pedastal (male or female) and when I get to know them, I find they are human just like me.
Khiem-
Excellent advice, as usual!
Khiem,
your words are very true. Thanks for the hint about changing the frame. I guess if I don’t expect to get something but indeed give something I could think differently about the situation.
Slava, j-dude: I’ll certainly try think the way you propose next time, too!