Comments on: How Having “Rules” Leads To Loneliness http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/3-date-nightmare/69/ Sex. Relationships. Dating. That's what I'm talkin' 'bout. Thu, 17 May 2012 06:51:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: m http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/3-date-nightmare/69/#comment-2925 m Tue, 04 Sep 2007 01:18:17 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=69#comment-2925 Um, yeah, David. I started reading this blog from the most recent post, and you know what? You never did get around to the mens' rules. I'm just sayin'. Um, yeah, David.

I started reading this blog from the most recent post, and you know what? You never did get around to the mens’ rules.

I’m just sayin’.

]]> By: Lisette http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/3-date-nightmare/69/#comment-852 Lisette Tue, 31 Jul 2007 04:37:27 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=69#comment-852 Ok, so like Ari I skipped a few posts too. I can admit that I am a control freak and have rules but only about certain things - like I don't eat anything with powdered sugar on it because I don't want to get dirty or I don't eat anything if I don't like the way it smells i.e. mayo & pickles lol (and now that I am thinking about them, they are mostly about food lol). When it comes to dating I had rules, in my 20's, but I have long since given those up because like Ari, I found myself breaking them all the time and thought - what the hell are they there for if I don't adhere to them...having rules is like having a "type". My one beachhouse mate keeps asking me - "what's your type?" and doesn't get it when I say I don't have one. I like men - all kinds, I'm equal opportunity - it's all about clicking with someone, and if you start to throw things in like...has to be this age, or this height, or never married, or blond, or this or that you end up with no one to pick from and you end up alone. Ok, so like Ari I skipped a few posts too.

I can admit that I am a control freak and have rules but only about certain things – like I don’t eat anything with powdered sugar on it because I don’t want to get dirty or I don’t eat anything if I don’t like the way it smells i.e. mayo & pickles lol (and now that I am thinking about them, they are mostly about food lol).

When it comes to dating I had rules, in my 20′s, but I have long since given those up because like Ari, I found myself breaking them all the time and thought – what the hell are they there for if I don’t adhere to them…having rules is like having a “type”. My one beachhouse mate keeps asking me – “what’s your type?” and doesn’t get it when I say I don’t have one. I like men – all kinds, I’m equal opportunity – it’s all about clicking with someone, and if you start to throw things in like…has to be this age, or this height, or never married, or blond, or this or that you end up with no one to pick from and you end up alone.

]]> By: Joan http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/3-date-nightmare/69/#comment-848 Joan Tue, 31 Jul 2007 02:55:55 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=69#comment-848 LOL Ari, what did you just say??? You are a hoot:) LOL Ari, what did you just say??? You are a hoot:)

]]> By: Ari http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/3-date-nightmare/69/#comment-826 Ari Mon, 30 Jul 2007 22:42:21 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=69#comment-826 Ahhh so many comments. Didn't read them all; just the first 5 or so. LOL. I believe people have rules because they are tired of the bs and they are control freaks. I am a control freak. I used to have a 3 date rule before they get to the bedroom but that went out the window when I broke it frequently. LOL. Anyways, people try to control things 1. To not get hurt or put in a uncomfortable situation and 2. To gain power. Duh. Although he 3 restaurant date rule thingy is extreme, I can understand possibly why she has that. Maybe because a restaurant is safe and within 3 dates, you can figure out if the person is dangerous. But then again, there are some really GOOD liars out there. So there. I'm tired of typing. Ahhh so many comments. Didn’t read them all; just the first 5 or so. LOL. I believe people have rules because they are tired of the bs and they are control freaks. I am a control freak. I used to have a 3 date rule before they get to the bedroom but that went out the window when I broke it frequently. LOL. Anyways, people try to control things 1. To not get hurt or put in a uncomfortable situation and 2. To gain power. Duh. Although he 3 restaurant date rule thingy is extreme, I can understand possibly why she has that. Maybe because a restaurant is safe and within 3 dates, you can figure out if the person is dangerous. But then again, there are some really GOOD liars out there. So there. I’m tired of typing.

]]> By: Joan http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/3-date-nightmare/69/#comment-788 Joan Mon, 30 Jul 2007 04:44:59 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=69#comment-788 Well, nighty night to all. Missed seeing you Mr. Wygant :) Well, nighty night to all. Missed seeing you Mr. Wygant :)

]]> By: darkpoet http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/3-date-nightmare/69/#comment-784 darkpoet Mon, 30 Jul 2007 02:05:54 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=69#comment-784 joan, i totally believe in natural medicine. and agreed with what you said, thats why i ask you about my neck and headaches. cheers, Joe joan, i totally believe in natural medicine. and agreed with what you said, thats why i ask you about my neck and headaches.
cheers,
Joe

]]> By: darkpoet http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/3-date-nightmare/69/#comment-783 darkpoet Mon, 30 Jul 2007 02:05:31 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=69#comment-783 joan, i totally believe in natural medicine. and agreed with what you said, thats why i ask you about my neck and headaches. cheer, Joe joan, i totally believe in natural medicine. and agreed with what you said, thats why i ask you about my neck and headaches.
cheer,
Joe

]]> By: darkpoet http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/3-date-nightmare/69/#comment-782 darkpoet Mon, 30 Jul 2007 02:04:44 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=69#comment-782 persia you're cool in my book thats all the matter to me. persia it's not a matter of what you have to show.. i'm sure you're a beautiful person, someone well find that out ;) Cheers, Joe persia you’re cool in my book thats all the matter to me. persia it’s not a matter of what you have to show.. i’m sure you’re a beautiful person, someone well find that out ;)
Cheers,
Joe

]]> By: Persia http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/3-date-nightmare/69/#comment-777 Persia Sun, 29 Jul 2007 22:26:43 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=69#comment-777 Thank you darkpoet. I don't know how cool I am, but I am sorry. I like the talk about how men dress. I think it is inportant for a amn to dress decently if he wants to attract a woman. I don't mean a suit and tie or anything, but I like the "preppie look." Not real sure about a man and a bracelet? The watch is a nice addition. Darkpoet, you are right. When you dress nicer it does give a sense of confidence. If I feel I look good in what I am wearing, there is always more positive reactions from men then when I just go plain jane. Joan, you are on with the accesories. I really never paid attention to that, but a friend of mine got me into accesorizing to dress my jeans up. I will try the buttons:) I just button up. It is not like I have anything much to show if I do leave 3 or 4 buttons open. lol well time to get ready for whaat lies ahead for tommorrow, so have a great evening everybody.:) Thank you darkpoet. I don’t know how cool I am, but I am sorry. I like the talk about how men dress. I think it is inportant for a amn to dress decently if he wants to attract a woman. I don’t mean a suit and tie or anything, but I like the “preppie look.” Not real sure about a man and a bracelet? The watch is a nice addition. Darkpoet, you are right. When you dress nicer it does give a sense of confidence. If I feel I look good in what I am wearing, there is always more positive reactions from men then when I just go plain jane. Joan, you are on with the accesories. I really never paid attention to that, but a friend of mine got me into accesorizing to dress my jeans up. I will try the buttons:) I just button up. It is not like I have anything much to show if I do leave 3 or 4 buttons open. lol well time to get ready for whaat lies ahead for tommorrow, so have a great evening everybody.:)

]]> By: Joan http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/3-date-nightmare/69/#comment-774 Joan Sun, 29 Jul 2007 20:01:32 +0000 http://blog.davidwygant.com/?p=69#comment-774 Darkpoet, yes I guess it is basically reiki. She has it on her card as "Healing Touch." Yes I agree with the natural way. I have turned into pretty much a health nut. My friends give me a hard time, but hey---I am never sick, I have unending energy and feel great! If you have a headache you can actually massage certain pressure points and it will go--no Tylenol neded:) These pharmeceutical companies are robbing people blind with the medications out these days. It takes sooo long for an antibiotic to be rid out of your system. better to take Kyolic garlic as your antibiotic and be injesting something healthy for you. Ok Yea I know shut up already Joan!!! :) I really do try. Darkpoet, yes I guess it is basically reiki. She has it on her card as “Healing Touch.” Yes I agree with the natural way. I have turned into pretty much a health nut. My friends give me a hard time, but hey—I am never sick, I have unending energy and feel great!
If you have a headache you can actually massage certain pressure points and it will go–no Tylenol neded:) These pharmeceutical companies are robbing people blind with the medications out these days. It takes sooo long for an antibiotic to be rid out of your system. better to take Kyolic garlic as your antibiotic and be injesting something healthy for you. Ok Yea I know shut up already Joan!!! :) I really do try.

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